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guitaristehsick
03-14-2007, 03:32 PM
im a junior and turning 17 in a month, but i hate being a virgin!!

most of my friends aren't...

so when or what age should i really be worrying about it?

ImBarkerRarrrrr
03-14-2007, 03:33 PM
9 years of age.

Masamune
03-14-2007, 03:33 PM
I'd say once you are in college

Guitardude19
03-14-2007, 03:34 PM
I was a virgin until I was 18 and a half. Slept with the first girl that came along and now wish I hadnt.. Cause once you get it, you turn into a man *****...

TechnicolorBoy
03-14-2007, 03:34 PM
:haha I love how people get made fun of for being virgins. It's like a crime to not be horny and foolish these days. You shouldn't feel pressured into having sex. When the time is right, you'll know. Don't let your friends control your sex life.

y2james2007 :p
03-14-2007, 03:35 PM
I don't think it's ever really 'pathetic' - people shouldn't be pressured into having sex if they don't want to.

dhav211
03-14-2007, 03:35 PM
Probably like 20 or so . . . you can always tell yourself you're waiting for the right woman :P

break-me-in
03-14-2007, 03:35 PM
Hey whenever you're ready... But if you reach 40 without doing it then you're a loser and will die a virgin. (Hiring a ***** does not count.)

fronkpies
03-14-2007, 03:35 PM
Losing it because its "cool" is stupid, your no better than a bimbo whore if thats the reason.

I dont think its ever really pathetic if your holding out because you want to.

Grundy0
03-14-2007, 03:35 PM
Well my science teacher is 35, lives with his mum and is a virgin and hes about as pathetic as you get!

Acϵ♠
03-14-2007, 03:35 PM
I fully agree with TechnicolorBoy, i hate when other people try and control their friends' sex lives. Just don't worry about it, honestly no one gives a shit if you're a virgin.

life_247
03-14-2007, 03:36 PM
If your asking that question - your not ready.

dz3guns
03-14-2007, 03:37 PM
40, i am 39 and still a virgin, I just watached the movie and i am pathetic

fronkpies
03-14-2007, 03:38 PM
40, i am 39 and still a virgin, I just watached the movie and i am pathetic

Did you join just to say that? :haha

MetalHead73
03-14-2007, 03:39 PM
Not if you're Steve Carell!

flambe chicken
03-14-2007, 03:39 PM
Crap film.

Anywho, I am 17 and a virgin, and don't really care. Don't make a big deal about it.

sashki
03-14-2007, 03:39 PM
If they make fun of you, say "at least I don't have AIDS"

SForbz-Rockstar
03-14-2007, 03:39 PM
im a junior and turning 17 in a month, but i hate being a virgin!!

most of my friends aren't...

Yeah, right. It doesn't matter how good two people are friends, if they're males they will lie when it comes to sex.

BassistGal
03-14-2007, 03:39 PM
Well, untilk 16 its normal.
From 16 to 18 you'll get laughed at

But if you can keep your virginity until you're over 20 then you got mu utmost respect.

flambe chicken
03-14-2007, 03:40 PM
Did you join just to say that? :haha

He cant have done, he joined yesterday. Today is 3.14...holy crap it's Pi day!!!

screwup30
03-14-2007, 03:40 PM
man just chill out, it doesnt really matter when you lose it. and it'll probably happen sooner or later....unless you dont socialise with girls obviously lol

Draken
03-14-2007, 03:40 PM
Is it really important to not be a virgin though?

magnus_maximus
03-14-2007, 03:40 PM
Heck, being a virgin at 16's an achievement, today.

flavorflav
03-14-2007, 03:41 PM
6.

KurrptSenate
03-14-2007, 03:42 PM
never, really...


if someone can hold out for an indescriminate amount of time, kudos to them. I know I couldn't haha

Immortal_Hero
03-14-2007, 03:44 PM
When you grow up a little you will realize that no one really gives a crap. I didn't until I was 22 and enguaged. We were going to wait until we were married but well that didn't happen.

lexaah
03-14-2007, 03:44 PM
If they make fun of you, say "at least I don't have AIDS"
**** yeah! lol i'm turning 17 next month and i haven't had sex either i don't give a **** i'll get some when it's time for it, not talking about *****s :no:

Meths
03-14-2007, 03:44 PM
:haha I love how people get made fun of for being virgins. It's like a crime to not be horny and foolish these days. You shouldn't feel pressured into having sex. When the time is right, you'll know. Don't let your friends control your sex life.

What he said. It's no big deal, seriously.

EDIT: Actually fuck that, it's no big deal as long as it's before 30.

BrianApocalypse
03-14-2007, 03:45 PM
early 20's.

PlayTheMetal
03-14-2007, 03:45 PM
no age is pathetic man. Don't worry bout what people think, when you are ready you are ready.

GoodCharloteSux
03-14-2007, 03:47 PM
Exactly what everyone is saying. It seems like a rarity that people applaud peoples morality but I have to give UG a handshake on this one. I was expecting a lot of foolish comments. I personally do not believe in sex before marriage because of religious beliefs. I am 18 and have no problem with it, and if you don't have a problem with your virginity then you shouldn't be ashamed, your friends should.

MetalMilitia212
03-14-2007, 03:47 PM
I can't believe this thread, you're trying to tell me staying a virgin until your married makes you a pussy?

I respect anyone who can control themselves for that long.

And TS: Losing your virginity before your ready is more pathetic than dying a virgin, because it means your weak willed and have no self-control.

guitaristehsick
03-14-2007, 03:49 PM
well its not all because of my friends... its just that i wanna have sex real bad lol it might sound retarded but its the truth.

KickOutTheJamsX
03-14-2007, 03:50 PM
it doesnt really matter and it shouldnt bother you.

unless youre a virgin because nobody would want to do it with you. then it is a problem.

..NEM..
03-14-2007, 03:57 PM
Never.

ST-XeMo
03-14-2007, 04:18 PM
And TS: Losing your virginity before your ready is more pathetic than dying a virgin, because it means your weak willed and have no self-control.

well every girl I know tells me im weak willed and have no self control....but that doesn`t make me pathetic...I hope :(

rorythefaggot
03-14-2007, 04:22 PM
Two words, my friend; Date Rape.

meta1militia
03-14-2007, 04:25 PM
lol 500 views... anyway wait until your in love. not til your married, but make sure your in love. and id say 20s is pretty pathetic. but it doesnt really matter? i dont have to worry about that but oh well

Kid_Thorazine
03-14-2007, 04:25 PM
12

CoreysMonster
03-14-2007, 04:28 PM
dude, most guys don't lose virginity until they're 18/19/20. At least normal guys. This is the age when younger girls start becoming more mature, as well as yourself.
Plus it's also around the time when most people start becoming really involved in relationships (males that is).

I'm still a virgin and also 17. It's not a biggie, I could have had sex several times, but never wanted to (damn ugly sluts). Anyway, I'd say a REALLY pathetic age is 26. If you haven't found someone like then, something's gotta change.

coheed356
03-14-2007, 04:29 PM
yeah im turning seventeen today and im still a virgin. who cares. don't let it harsh your mellow

Oreos_own_all
03-14-2007, 04:29 PM
In china it's approximately 3 minutes 45 seconds 3 milliseconds... give or take.

CoreysMonster
03-14-2007, 04:30 PM
In Soviet Russia, virginity loses you!

Prototype4342
03-14-2007, 04:37 PM
i'm 17
me and my girlfriend will have been dating for a year in a month from the 24th.
we havent had sex yet.
don't feel bad until you know how i feel.
love sucks

AzureNight
03-14-2007, 04:38 PM
20+

sars
03-14-2007, 04:42 PM
Well my science teacher is 35, lives with his mum and is a virgin and hes about as pathetic as you get!


I dont see how that is pathetic. He has a very respectable proffesion, makes a shit load of money and doesnt pay any rent.

I am 17 and try to refrain from sex. Personally, I think it keeps my life a lot simpler and i do not have to worry about having a child when I am not ready.
I would rather be judged on my deeds, not my sexual activities. Thats just me, though.

Be a man, first. THEN worry about sex.
ps. i do get some..

meta1militia
03-14-2007, 04:46 PM
i'm 17
me and my girlfriend will have been dating for a year in a month from the 24th.
we havent had sex yet.
don't feel bad until you know how i feel.
love sucks
youre being self centered man. if love sucks then break up with her... and have you tried to bring up sex to her? maybe shes shy?

Page&HammettFan
03-14-2007, 04:53 PM
im a junior and turning 17 in a month, but i hate being a virgin!!

most of my friends aren't...

so when or what age should i really be worrying about it?
If anyone tells you that you're pathetic for being a virgin at any age then they're just being dicks. If you're having sex because it's the cool thing to do then you deserve to have your dick chopped off. If anyone tells you different then they're not thinking with the head on their shoulders they are with the one in their pants... I'm sure that people will say that only a virgin would say that, but it's the truth. If you do have sex before you're ready, you'll probably end up regretting it. It's something that should happen naturally, not something that should be pressured.

jacobs
03-14-2007, 05:23 PM
it was funny, I overheard some some, prolly twelve year olds talking the other day about their first time, one of them asked how big the guy was (if you know what I mean) and she said, and I quote, "maybe fourteen inches, it wasn't that big" I couldn't help but laugh, its amazing how thats the "cool" thing to do, its pretty weird and sad if you ask me

metallica_death
03-14-2007, 05:24 PM
60

Grundy0
03-14-2007, 05:28 PM
I dont see how that is pathetic. He has a very respectable proffesion, makes a shit load of money and doesnt pay any rent.

If you meet him you would Not be saying that! I respect most of my teacher but it is honestly impossible to respect him!:p:

yeovil4eva
03-14-2007, 05:31 PM
im 16 and a half and only just lost mine, start worrying when you turn 18, panic when you turn 20 etc.

do it in your own time mate, and dont just do it with anyone either

Slayer_Guy
03-14-2007, 05:32 PM
Well my science teacher is 35, lives with his mum and is a virgin and hes about as pathetic as you get!

I just want to know how you know where your science teacher lives and is a virgin.

chaoticmayhem
03-14-2007, 05:41 PM
It's never pathetic to be a virgin, if it's your choice. However, if you want to have sex and don't because you lack the guts to satisfy yourself, then that is very pathetic.

Do what you want and you will make at least one person happy.

cagnius
03-14-2007, 05:49 PM
Quite honestly it is never pathetic. I'm being serious when I say that.

ROCK=ZEPPELIN
03-14-2007, 05:49 PM
Depends.

If your waiting for marriage, then it really doesn't matter what age. (whenever you get hitched).

but if your trying to get laid, I'd say 19 or 20

CowboyUp
03-14-2007, 05:52 PM
You act as if virginity is something to be conquered. As absurd as it sounds, it is not. It is something to be protected and guarded until you meet someone you want to spend your life with. I will always regret losing mine when I was 13, because it was a total waste.

fas11030
03-14-2007, 05:52 PM
how great is pulling a bucking bronco!!!

kyle100
03-14-2007, 05:59 PM
I thought i lost my virginity but it was under my bed....:(
EDIT: 15 year old virgin FTW!

Vedder
03-14-2007, 06:06 PM
who cares? it isn't the end of the world, don't do it just for the sake of it, wait till the right person comes along, its a damn sight better.

rabidguitarist
03-14-2007, 06:08 PM
I'm gonna turn 17 in 2 months. Im a virgin, and really sexually frustrated, but im not bothered because I'm just looking for the right person.

Kroach
03-14-2007, 06:12 PM
im a junior and turning 17 in a month, but i hate being a virgin!!

most of my friends aren't...

so when or what age should i really be worrying about it?

My oh my, read that again, don't you think you sound ridiculous? :rolleyes:
I mean what is there to worry about ? And I don't see what your friends have to do with it, although I understand you may feel pressure, but seriously you can't hate being a virgin :p: I mean as far as I know it's pretty much the same as not being one..

Alix_D
03-14-2007, 06:16 PM
18 is really the cutoff point for non-loserness IMO, but it doesn't bother me, i'm not going to not be friends with someone because they're missing out on one of life's pleasures.

Def
03-14-2007, 06:24 PM
hmm...I'm currently 16, and my friends and people I know are 16/17 age, and when u look at those who have decided to give away theirs so early, u look at their relative IQs and the sorts of people they are, and those that went really young are stupid, emotionally confused and niaver of people. As I said to one of them today "just cause u can bleed out of your vagina doesnt make you an adult". Also one went to hospital today without telling their parents so my guess is STD's or preganacy. I may seem cruel but serves them right. Sit on it for a bit, and wait for the right person, u'll be glad u did.

Alix_D
03-14-2007, 06:27 PM
^ So your saying anyone who has sex before 17 is thick?

Vedder
03-14-2007, 06:28 PM
18 is really the cutoff point for non-loserness IMO, but it doesn't bother me, i'm not going to not be friends with someone because they're missing out on one of life's pleasures.
being a virgin doesn't equal being a loser.

Def
03-14-2007, 06:28 PM
^ So your saying anyone who has sex before 17 is thick?

Generally yes in my experience. Ive seen an exception for two peoplee who ahve been together for 2 years and are in a proper very close relationship, but for the rest emtionally confused, not very bright people

Sabu
03-14-2007, 06:30 PM
I'd say about 20ish

fenderfreak101
03-14-2007, 06:31 PM
No age is pathetic. It's really not that big of a deal.

Blackbullet
03-14-2007, 06:34 PM
30 is pathetic, 20 is surprising.

Rapid_Fire
03-14-2007, 06:35 PM
probably about 20+. i read somewhere that you're at your sexual peak of performance at age 18 (who knows if its true) but I figure you're just missing out on years of having sex if you wait longer than like 16 or so. i dont know i had sex when i was 14.

when you "lose your viriginity" it really doesnt feel like youre losing anything at all, youre just doing something thats fun and feels good.

Alix_D
03-14-2007, 06:35 PM
Generally yes in my experience. Ive seen an exception for two peoplee who ahve been together for 2 years and are in a proper very close relationship, but for the rest emtionally confused, not very bright people

Well you've had a strange experience my friend, I know a lot of intelligent people who've had sex before sixteen, myself included.

Maybe it's just your friends?

dazzler16
03-14-2007, 06:35 PM
Hey whenever you're ready... But if you reach 40 without doing it then you're a loser and will die a virgin. (Hiring a ***** does not count.)


Thats how Oliver Stone did it.

but really it will be embarrassing at 20

Def
03-14-2007, 06:52 PM
Well you've had a strange experience my friend, I know a lot of intelligent people who've had sex before sixteen, myself included.

Maybe it's just your friends?

maybe. I think the emotionally confused and niave criteria is the important bit. At that age, and talking to these people its been very hard on them physcologically. They given up something so important to someone they now hate, and I've also seen some shame. Maybe its just these specific people though. Why cant the kids show a bit more restraint. Mutal Masturbation FTW!!!lol

xDie_Romanticx
03-14-2007, 06:53 PM
:haha I love how people get made fun of for being virgins. It's like a crime to not be horny and foolish these days. You shouldn't feel pressured into having sex. When the time is right, you'll know. Don't let your friends control your sex life.
+100000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000




yes i agree with this guy. Im in 9th grade...this girl in my class was all like to this dude " ZOMG!!!!!!! YOURE STILL A VIRGIN?!?!"
Im like thinking dude, we are 14. Not his fault hes a virgin while you are out ****ing every guy you hang with.
18 is really the cutoff point for non-loserness IMO, but it doesn't bother me, i'm not going to not be friends with someone because they're missing out on one of life's pleasures.
...and he still doesnt know what magnums are (refer to my sig)

Ragafusion
03-14-2007, 06:56 PM
Yeah, right. It doesn't matter how good two people are friends, if they're males they will lie when it comes to sex.

AMEN!!!!

jamiet17
03-14-2007, 06:57 PM
it's never pathetic, your choice. also dont think it sucks being a virgin at 17, thats still young

Ragafusion
03-14-2007, 06:57 PM
I'm gonna turn 17 in 2 months. Im a virgin, and really sexually frustrated, but im not bothered because I'm just looking for the right person.


r u still doin your "im a really hot chick" thing?
if so, i think you just ruined it.............or i did

fronkpies
03-14-2007, 06:59 PM
If theres fluff on the muff shes old enough.

I know that has absolutely nothing to do with this, but I just love that saying.

DorkusMalorkus
03-14-2007, 07:03 PM
I think after 25 it becomes a little pathetic.

JamieB
03-14-2007, 07:06 PM
Any age is pathetic.

I got pussy aged 0.7 seconds.

Demonbreed
03-14-2007, 07:07 PM
:haha I love how people get made fun of for being virgins. It's like a crime to not be horny and foolish these days. You shouldn't feel pressured into having sex. When the time is right, you'll know. Don't let your friends control your sex life.

+1
Also, that is the single most smartest thing Ive seen posted in The Pit for a very long time. :cheers:

fronkpies
03-14-2007, 07:08 PM
+1
Also, that is the single most smartest thing Ive seen posted in The Pit for a very long time. :cheers:

I think my fluff on the muff was smarter ;)

JamieB
03-14-2007, 07:09 PM
I think my fluff on the muff was smarter ;)


If there's grass on the field

Then you should WIELD your mighty sword.

Jackal58
03-14-2007, 07:11 PM
80 yep it is definately 80
if your still a virgin at 80 you better be the pope (do alter boys count?)
oh im sorry i just saw your from cleveland
nobody from cleveland gets laid!
go steelers woooo hooo!!!!

tilleking
03-14-2007, 07:15 PM
I love how people get made fun of for being virgins. It's like a crime to not be horny and foolish these days. You shouldn't feel pressured into having sex. When the time is right, you'll know. Don't let your friends control your sex life.
+1
Also, that is the single most smartest thing Ive seen posted in The Pit for a very long time. :cheers:
Yep, I agree. :cheers:

Demonbreed
03-14-2007, 07:17 PM
I think my fluff on the muff was smarter ;)

Ive heard it before. And it wasn't the helpful type of smart. The other guy was being serious.

If there's grass on the field

Then you should WIELD your mighty sword.

:haha
Theres me thinking it was "play ball"...

PatchworkMan
03-14-2007, 07:18 PM
Being a virgin isn't pathetic unless you act like a pathetic virgin.

JamieB
03-14-2007, 07:19 PM
:haha
Theres me thinking it was "play ball"...


Since when did that rhyme with field? :no:

Baronvon
03-14-2007, 07:23 PM
I'm a virgin and I'm 17...so bloody what? As much as I'd love to be in a steady relationship with a girl who I love and care about etc there's not point losing your virginity just for the sake of it.

Chances are you'll regret it if you just have sex for the sake of it as it'll be invariably to the wrong girl.

fronkpies
03-14-2007, 07:39 PM
If theres no grass flip it over and play on a muddy field ;)

Or something along those lines. The standard of underage sex puns (Cant remember the proper term even though Ive been trying for about 5 minutes) is terrible.

EDIT: Analogy?

Cosimo_Zaretti
03-14-2007, 07:47 PM
I can't believe this thread, you're trying to tell me staying a virgin until your married makes you a pussy?

I respect anyone who can control themselves for that long.

And TS: Losing your virginity before your ready is more pathetic than dying a virgin, because it means your weak willed and have no self-control.

Staying a vigin until you're married isn't nessesaraly a good idea. When you sleep with someone every night, it takes you to a new level emotionally as well, it does actualy change how you feel about someone as all these new chemicals get released into your brain (even more so with pregnancy- that brings up all kinds of weird feelings)

If you don't know what it's like to connect with a person on that extra level, I don't think it's a great idea to marry them.

Twist of fate
03-14-2007, 07:48 PM
None! If people don't wanna have sex it's thier choice and the people who make fun of them who think they're so secure and mature are retarded

Ragafusion
03-14-2007, 07:49 PM
I'm a virgin and I'm 17...so bloody what? As much as I'd love to be in a steady relationship with a girl who I love and care about etc there's not point losing your virginity just for the sake of it.

Chances are you'll regret it if you just have sex for the sake of it as it'll be invariably to the wrong girl.

amen to that too brother, this has got to be the most intelligent thread the pit has ever seen....even with fronks lovely phrases

C.C. Deville
03-14-2007, 07:51 PM
pathetic=marriage jk=)) if ure all about that... like chef says "just 17" idk ull probably get laid in college

MuffinMan
03-14-2007, 08:09 PM
I'm a junior, 16, and a virgin, and I really couldn't care less. Being a virgin isn't pathetic. You could be pathetic for other reasons, though.

fallenangel20
03-14-2007, 08:31 PM
I'd say once you are in college

Yea, I'd say sometime then, maybe your second year of college. Because your first year you still may be real shy and whatnot.

But I'm 16, and a virgin, and I could care less. Sex isn't on my top list of things to do. I don't NEED it, or feel like I have to do it to "fit in".

Fuck that shit. Once I find the right person, then I'll start thinking about it. Until then, I could honestly care less about it.

Demonbreed
03-14-2007, 08:32 PM
Since when did that rhyme with field? :no:

Its supposed to ryhme??!!

CobenBlack
03-14-2007, 08:33 PM
depends where u live, if u live near me then your fridgid if uve hit double figures without havin 4 kids n a mortgage. newhere normal, it dnt matter, always gonna be presure, bt its down to you. it aint pathetic, unless ur the science teacher at that guys school. tho i wud like to know how u found out he;s a virgin, if he told u all, u could get him dun fpr bein innapropriate

Prototype4342
03-14-2007, 08:35 PM
youre being self centered man. if love sucks then break up with her... and have you tried to bring up sex to her? maybe shes shy?

dude, i might be self centered, but if i say love sucks tat means im still in love, even though some aspects of it suck, and no i havent.

DaveGilmour1189
03-14-2007, 08:51 PM
22, if your comming out of college your a bit pathetic. GOing into college isn't too bad.

And your friends are lying dude.

Nor'Easterbass
03-14-2007, 08:58 PM
dude just go out and find a nice chick, take her to effing prom, get hammered and **** her...if ur looking to be like everyone else (which is what it sounds like).

Kurtsmyhero06
03-14-2007, 08:58 PM
honestly whenever my friends make fun of me for it (im only 14 the dick heads) i just say yeah im a virgin and it doesnt burn when i pee =)

gtgram14
03-14-2007, 09:02 PM
I lost it at 17, I suppose if you don't get laid in your first year of college then you are a bit lame.

PatchworkMan
03-14-2007, 09:04 PM
It's never pathetic to be a virgin, unless you are constantly chasing after sex like a lost puppy and failing. Being a virgin and not minding that you are a virgin isn't pathetic.

Axis Of Evil
03-14-2007, 09:06 PM
But I'm 16, and a virgin, and I could care less. Sex isn't on my top list of things to do. I don't NEED it, or feel like I have to do it to "fit in".

Fuck that shit. Once I find the right person, then I'll start thinking about it. Until then, I could honestly care less about it.

I have to agree with this person. i'm 18 and still a virgin and i don't give a fuck. I haven't had a girlfriend yet, and i don't care. I haven't because there has been no one i felt strongy enough for to ask out. i don't give a shit. and anyone who thinks that you should have sex by 16 to fit in is a freaking *****. i'm dead serious. i hold rather traditional views on sex. to me, it's something special. not something to be thrown about and looked at as something you MUST do that early in life. What ever happened to doing that with the person you really loved? because that's how it should be done, to me. with that special person. your body isn't something you just give to someone because everyone else is. don't let your friends pressure you into having sex because it's cool or because it'll make you fit in. wait until you find the right person. because then, i'm sure it will feel so much better than just going out and screwing some aneorexic chick at a street corner.

Ollieyoufool
03-14-2007, 09:33 PM
I'm almost 17, I'm a virgin and I'm proud of it. I honestly want to at least try to wait till I'm married, I don't know if that will happen but I'm going to try. I'm not in any rush to nail some random chick really. I dunno maybe I'm just crazy but I like to actually love who I'm gonna bang.... :rolleyes:

Archeo Avis
03-14-2007, 09:36 PM
If you only want to have sex because it's cool to have sex, you're not anywhere near ready for sex.

Hawk127
03-14-2007, 10:11 PM
There isn't any age where it would be considered pathetic. I'll admit that if you're something like 60-70 it might be a tad strange, but you shouldn't care what other people think about you. If your friends insist on messing with you about it just tell them that it shows you have more control over your urges than they do. All this virgin is shameful bullshit is idiotic. Sex has become a status symbol and it shouldn't be.

Liberation
03-14-2007, 10:18 PM
There is no age that being a virgin is pathetic at, however it IS pathetic when 12 & 13 year olds are having sex.

sureburt37
03-14-2007, 10:47 PM
Guarantee you'll get more respect from girls for you being a virgin in college. But not everyone is like that.

lespauljammer15
03-14-2007, 10:47 PM
Well my science teacher is 35, lives with his mum and is a virgin and hes about as pathetic as you get!


ill see you in class tomorrow :cool:

Kings0steelage
03-15-2007, 05:01 AM
well wot if u dont think u should have sex coz its kool maybe people (like me) wanna just do it to see wot its all about haha

Superpartydude5
03-15-2007, 05:27 AM
Well, I'm in kinda a strange situation, I'm 19 and in college, and I have been dating my girlfriend for 4 years, since I was 15 and a freshmen in highschool. We still havent had sex but then again we'll most likely end up married, so yeah.

Anyway theres actually been about 10 times I've had to deny her sex because I knew it was the right thing to do, and I refuse to ask for it because I dont want to pressure her. Besides, and I mean this in all seriousness, we do have anal sex so I can't comlpain.

GiantRaven
03-15-2007, 05:43 AM
I dunno...around 50?

well wot if u dont think u should have sex coz its kool maybe people (like me) wanna just do it to see wot its all about haha

Grow up kiddo :rolleyes:

IndieMetalhead
03-15-2007, 05:45 AM
I have to agree with this person. i'm 18 and still a virgin and i don't give a fuck. I haven't had a girlfriend yet, and i don't care. I haven't because there has been no one i felt strongy enough for to ask out. i don't give a shit. and anyone who thinks that you should have sex by 16 to fit in is a freaking *****. i'm dead serious. i hold rather traditional views on sex. to me, it's something special. not something to be thrown about and looked at as something you MUST do that early in life. What ever happened to doing that with the person you really loved? because that's how it should be done, to me. with that special person. your body isn't something you just give to someone because everyone else is. don't let your friends pressure you into having sex because it's cool or because it'll make you fit in. wait until you find the right person. because then, i'm sure it will feel so much better than just going out and screwing some aneorexic chick at a street corner.

fucking thank you!

ANYONE who said 'ohmygawdifurintehcollege n u avent as secks ur lamorx!' deserves ghonnorhea

Paroxysm
03-15-2007, 06:01 AM
At 18, still a virgin. I guess I'm not hot enough :(

Sucks, but eh. I do respect the ones that are virgins that do it out of their own will though. For me, I don't it's important anymore. I'm getting out of high school in 3 more months and I don't think I could find someone to start a serious relationship in that time period anyway to get laid; not to mention everyone is going to different colleges. The chance of going to the same place with your GF is slim.

What I do find pathetic is young girls trying so hard to get that older guy's attention.

IndieMetalhead
03-15-2007, 06:05 AM
^I'm 18, 19 in august and i'm a virgin. I don't care.

Quicktime09
03-15-2007, 06:08 AM
Well this issue is really largely based your upbringing...e.g if you were Jewish (not picking on any religion on purpose here) you would MOST likely not have sex till you are married....however in certain parts of africa there are cultures that bring youth as young as 12 years of age into sexual activity...even so i have read an article about a certain tribe in africa where boys at the age of 13 are taught how to pleasure a girl....my opinion is that you can have sex as long as you have the maturity and also that you have sex to show your love for your partner...no just solely self pleasurement.......soo pretty much as long as you're having sex out of love it dosn't really matter what age you lose it....BUT i do believe anyone younger then 13 haven't developed or matured enough to be in a sexual relationship....this is all in my opinion so feel free to criticise me on certian points

JamMan*
03-15-2007, 06:09 AM
I don't count anyone who is a virgin as a loser, a lot of my friends are either christians or still waiting for 'the one' to come along, I rushed into losing mine, and now I regret it.

If you just can't get laid right now, get over it, the time will come and it'll taste so much better thanks to the wait. :)

Moggan13
03-15-2007, 06:48 AM
Alot of mates lost theres when they were 15 and totally regret it (2 words: Fat Love)
I know several who are 17 in May and are impatient. I'm alright, i can wait. I got a month a half till i'm 17.

NFFC_1865
03-15-2007, 06:57 AM
I havent been a virgin since I was 15. But we were in love, and still are - and had been together for ages. We've always been careful about it, and its not something to do because its what is seen as "cool." It should be doen when the time is right and when you find the right girl - I cant stand *****s on the like; but I respect peoples right to do what they want.

stratocaster7
03-15-2007, 08:02 AM
I'm 16, still a virgin and bloodly proud of it, and I'm staying that way til I get married, however stuffy that may sound to everyone, because that way I won't get pregant or anything and it'll be so much better :)

Mattalac
03-15-2007, 08:15 AM
Being a pathetic virgin. Well a person who legitimately chooses (lifestyle reasons or other) not to have sex, i think isn't necessarily pathetic.

But i'd say , 18-20.
When you get out in the big bad world you gotta be ready.

ckellingc
03-15-2007, 08:20 AM
I dont think its pathetic unless you want to lose it. I'm 19 and I want to wait til marriage.

rhys3000
03-15-2007, 08:37 AM
dudes i dont care if ppl are virgins im 15 im not a virgin and i feel bad dont do it!!!!!

JamieB
03-15-2007, 08:40 AM
^I'm 18, 19 in august and i'm a virgin. I don't care.


If I was that sexy and still a virgin, I'd care.

MattPerson911
03-15-2007, 08:46 AM
3 years old. if not by then you are a pathetic loser

IndieMetalhead
03-15-2007, 08:50 AM
If I was that sexy and still a virgin, I'd care.

Awwwww :o

JamieB
03-15-2007, 08:53 AM
Did you happen to meet michael jackson when you were two?



Dum dum da da dum dum.

SomeoneYouKnew
03-15-2007, 09:00 AM
you should be happy you've stayed that way for so long. Being a 40 year old virgin is pathetic.

pathetic? *sob* it's not MY fault. i don't wanna be pathetic!

IndieMetalhead
03-15-2007, 09:01 AM
Dum dum da da dum dum.

Da da Dum DUm, da da Dum Dum Dum!

NoSoupForDeath
03-15-2007, 09:25 AM
i think this will be the best thing I can say to you threadstarter, your friends are probably lying their asses off.

But besides the point, it's perfectly normal to be a virgin, now if you are like 90 years old and haven't had sex, I guess that'd be slightly pathetic, but really it's all in personal opinion. Sex is personal, don't worry about the world's opinion, do it when you want to.

JamieB
03-15-2007, 11:51 AM
Da da Dum DUm, da da Dum Dum Dum!


Bingo!


I knew someone had to recognise :cool:

PS: can you please reply to my most recent PM? :( (The one with the two links)

daytripper75
03-15-2007, 11:54 AM
i wouldnt really say that any age is pathetic.

some people decide to wait until marriage, and i respect that. maybe they dont get married until they are 30. i dont find that pathetic.

now, if youre 30 and living at home, and your life is going nowhere, thats a bit pathetic.

.willy.
03-15-2007, 12:16 PM
im a junior and turning 17 in a month, but i hate being a virgin!!

most of my friends aren't...

so when or what age should i really be worrying about it?


Well I have a 22, four 21 year old friends who are still virgins. BY CHOICE.
They are waiting till they get married and I find that amazing.

People have forgotten the whole meaning behind being a virgin. You are supposed to give it to your wife/husband. Its something special that you can only give once. A gift you can't give again, or to more than one person. Sex is supposed to be a meaningful thing, but It gets less meaningless when you pass it around like currency.

I am not a virgin. I honestly wish I was. I will have nothing special to give to my soulmate(wife/true love/whatever you call it) that 6 other girls haven't had a peice of already.

And yes, I am a Christian, and so are my friends. Blow me.

Im' not telling how to run your life. Just make sure if you are going to lose it. At least make it with someone you truly care about. For your sake.

divid3d
03-15-2007, 12:34 PM
sif there is some magical age that you have to have sex before reaching or you're a loser. do it when you're ready to do it.

The Postman
03-15-2007, 01:32 PM
I would have thougt better of a 17 year old, do what you want don't gt pressurized into sex, wait till you feel good.

Bottled Ink Co.
03-15-2007, 01:37 PM
I'm 18, and I'm a virgin.

Honestly, who the hell cares?

Let's say one day you meet the right girl, and you were to give her a present. Would you rather give her one that has wrapping on it, and looks like you put a lot of thought into it? Or would you rather give her one with torn wrapping, no card, and looks like you just threw it together at the last minute?

That's kind of how I think of sex.

Habit Zero
03-15-2007, 01:39 PM
If you want to have pre-marital sex, then 21, if you don't then 40 (I wont be pathetic for 25 years, so I'm safe).

Revalk
03-15-2007, 01:44 PM
I'd say it's never pathetic, as odd as it sounds. Either you find somebody you have a real bond with and you do, or you don't find a person and don't. I'd say it's more sad that you never found that kind of person to be with then never had sex.

Honestly, I know guys that are virgins that have gotten more out of their relationships then other guys I know that have had sex dozens of times. Is there any pride to take in having random sex often? Nope.

gnr2391
12-19-2009, 08:16 PM
I think there are a few things that I have not seen stressed enough about this virgin issue.

I know that many people say that being a virgin is nothing to be ashamed of and good for them. I really wish I could see it that way. However, for a while I looked at virginity as a ball and chain that no girl would be willing to remove for me. I still ****ing hate my virginity, but I'm less ashamed of it because I realized how selective I was. I guess I'm now ashamed that I never really had a chance with a girl who was attractive in my standards. This is how many guys feel about virginity, and I feel if anyone is going to try to get them to see their virginity in a better light, one must understand what it is about virginity that tortures so many teenage dudes.

1. Like I guess, me, as well as many others hate the fact that we don't know what its like to ****. Society makes it look like a huge next step and a huge part of maturation. Really though, I would imagine that it's not that huge a deal within like a week or so after it happens. It's not going to solve your problems. Furthermore, if society made it look like a less big deal, than the people who lose their virginity in a way they regret, would probably regret it less. It's almost as if we are less adult or less mature than the people who have had a sexual experience. That's why I hate it that there are some 12 year olds doing it, and that I still never had an opportunity. I feel like they, in a way, are more mature than me or more grown up than me. I know thats totally not true. But just because you know something, doesn't mean you feel it. I can grasp a lot of this I'm saying intellectually, but not viscerally.

2. We're missing out. For those non-virgins. Talking about your sex life in public is so ****ing obnoxious not only because it's meant to be personal, but because you also might be making some male virgins feel really shitty. Like theres this girl who always hangs out with us and talks about her sex life non-stop. It makes me feel really uncomfortable knowing that I have not experienced that, and am still not. It's completely inconsiderate.

3. I realized another thing that might be a little sexist. Since we live in a society where guys are encouraged to get laid, and girls are encouraged to hold out, it's sometimes really makes the dude question his manliness when the people who are "supposed" to be holding out are getting laid and I'm not. I know that is so not the case in real life. Girls get laid way more than guys do I think often times. I know many girls who have probably ****ed 10 people. However, I really don't know that many guys who managed to **** ten girls. At least teenage guys.

4. I guess this is my own philosophy on the subject. People often tell you to save your virginity for someone special. I disagree with this philosophy. I think that you should start having as much fun as you want to now, whether with special people or not. Whether you never had sex, or had sex with like 3 people already, having sex with someone special will be SOOO different from just casual sex. Or at least that's what they say. Plus, a ton of people have often first time experiences. I feel like it's not worth the wait kind of.

5. For all those who judge someone for going to a hooker...**** YOU!! Maybe have some empathy for people who will not sleep with anything less than what they want in a woman (like myself, seriously the escort I'm considering is hotter than 95% of the girls in my college, and I would pay any day rather than reduce my standards...I know that's real shallow, but I'm sorry. I need to be attracted to the person) Secondly, girls who might judge a man based off his prior sexaul experiences, think about whether you would sleep with the guy yourself. If you wouldn't, maybe then you could better understand his going to a prostitute. I mean I would be a little ashamed if I went to a hooker, just because so many others got it for free, but whatever. It's not like I'm never going to get sex for free. It's after all, just one experience out of what will probably be many throughout my life.

6. Lastly, for girls who will not sleep with a virgin....thats one of the most ridiculous things I ever heard (I met one...she was actually upset to take someone's v-card. She referred to virginity as a "disease") . It says nothing about their character at all, which girls claim to consider in a guy. It's really an unfair world. The dudes who get laid, get confident, so they get more and more, while the guys who don't get laid, just keep getting nothing.

So I don't think virginity should be looked at as something bad, but our society winds up making many men see it that way, and the way it torments teenage dudes for years is just extremely shitty. I hope this sheds some light on the struggle to lose the v-card.

gnr2391
12-19-2009, 08:18 PM
this was inteded to be a post on the board, not as a direct reply to Revalk's post.

maidenfan15
12-19-2009, 08:25 PM
Holy necrobump Batman!

crazysam23_Atax
12-19-2009, 08:26 PM
I ceased being a virgin the minute I turned 13. After 13, it's pretty much an embarrassment. Go get laid, TS!

Silver-spear94
12-19-2009, 08:27 PM
the majority of my friends are not virgins.

and we're 15/16.

for those who are virgins, they seem embaressed (and most of them are pathetic, retards or both)

Jackal58
12-19-2009, 08:31 PM
If you're older than this thread and are still a virgin you probably have issues. Or oddly placed warts.

tatotato
12-19-2009, 08:34 PM
At no age. There's no such thing as virginity. Still sex is pretty good aye

Bearded_Seth
12-19-2009, 08:37 PM
I'm 18 and a half and still a virgin.. But theres a reason I am. I'm a fatass.

Meh... I'm kind of content.. Part of me wants to put the effort in and drop all my weight and go stick my dick in something but I'm not unhappy.

I hate my life.

boycew02
12-19-2009, 08:39 PM
I think there are a few things that I have not seen stressed enough about this virgin issue.

I know that many people say that being a virgin is nothing to be ashamed of and good for them. I really wish I could see it that way. However, for a while I looked at virginity as a ball and chain that no girl would be willing to remove for me. I still ****ing hate my virginity, but I'm less ashamed of it because I realized how selective I was. I guess I'm now ashamed that I never really had a chance with a girl who was attractive in my standards. This is how many guys feel about virginity, and I feel if anyone is going to try to get them to see their virginity in a better light, one must understand what it is about virginity that tortures so many teenage dudes.

1. Like I guess, me, as well as many others hate the fact that we don't know what its like to ****. Society makes it look like a huge next step and a huge part of maturation. Really though, I would imagine that it's not that huge a deal within like a week or so after it happens. It's not going to solve your problems. Furthermore, if society made it look like a less big deal, than the people who lose their virginity in a way they regret, would probably regret it less. It's almost as if we are less adult or less mature than the people who have had a sexual experience. That's why I hate it that there are some 12 year olds doing it, and that I still never had an opportunity. I feel like they, in a way, are more mature than me or more grown up than me. I know thats totally not true. But just because you know something, doesn't mean you feel it. I can grasp a lot of this I'm saying intellectually, but not viscerally.

2. We're missing out. For those non-virgins. Talking about your sex life in public is so ****ing obnoxious not only because it's meant to be personal, but because you also might be making some male virgins feel really shitty. Like theres this girl who always hangs out with us and talks about her sex life non-stop. It makes me feel really uncomfortable knowing that I have not experienced that, and am still not. It's completely inconsiderate.

3. I realized another thing that might be a little sexist. Since we live in a society where guys are encouraged to get laid, and girls are encouraged to hold out, it's sometimes really makes the dude question his manliness when the people who are "supposed" to be holding out are getting laid and I'm not. I know that is so not the case in real life. Girls get laid way more than guys do I think often times. I know many girls who have probably ****ed 10 people. However, I really don't know that many guys who managed to **** ten girls. At least teenage guys.

4. I guess this is my own philosophy on the subject. People often tell you to save your virginity for someone special. I disagree with this philosophy. I think that you should start having as much fun as you want to now, whether with special people or not. Whether you never had sex, or had sex with like 3 people already, having sex with someone special will be SOOO different from just casual sex. Or at least that's what they say. Plus, a ton of people have often first time experiences. I feel like it's not worth the wait kind of.

5. For all those who judge someone for going to a hooker...**** YOU!! Maybe have some empathy for people who will not sleep with anything less than what they want in a woman (like myself, seriously the escort I'm considering is hotter than 95% of the girls in my college, and I would pay any day rather than reduce my standards...I know that's real shallow, but I'm sorry. I need to be attracted to the person) Secondly, girls who might judge a man based off his prior sexaul experiences, think about whether you would sleep with the guy yourself. If you wouldn't, maybe then you could better understand his going to a prostitute. I mean I would be a little ashamed if I went to a hooker, just because so many others got it for free, but whatever. It's not like I'm never going to get sex for free. It's after all, just one experience out of what will probably be many throughout my life.

6. Lastly, for girls who will not sleep with a virgin....thats one of the most ridiculous things I ever heard (I met one...she was actually upset to take someone's v-card. She referred to virginity as a "disease") . It says nothing about their character at all, which girls claim to consider in a guy. It's really an unfair world. The dudes who get laid, get confident, so they get more and more, while the guys who don't get laid, just keep getting nothing.

So I don't think virginity should be looked at as something bad, but our society winds up making many men see it that way, and the way it torments teenage dudes for years is just extremely shitty. I hope this sheds some light on the struggle to lose the v-card.

a) tl;dr

b) Good god that's a bump and a half.

brcck
12-19-2009, 08:44 PM
Can't get any: Pathetic.
Not sexing up a girl the first chance you get: Not pathetic.

Sonny_sam
12-19-2009, 08:44 PM
What's your rush? It's not like it's a fashion statement or something, it's something two people do when they love each other (or at least it should be, it's giving the most personal gift you possibly can) and shouldn't be taken as lightly as it is.

gm jack
12-19-2009, 08:49 PM
What's your rush? It's not like it's a fashion statement or something, it's something two people do when they love each other (or at least it should be, it's giving the most personal gift you possibly can) and shouldn't be taken as lightly as it is.

Depends on who you are. Sex is fun, so I can see why people will happily do a one night stand, and I won't look down on them for it. Personally, I have only done it in relationships, but that's a choice.

entity0009
12-19-2009, 08:51 PM
I would say what's pathetic is dedicating every waking moment of your life to thinking about how and when you will lose your virginity.

mikeskiboshski
12-19-2009, 08:53 PM
Only 13 year olds think getting laid is cool anymore.
Getting laid is over-rated.
I say to wait till marriage.

Dosed.
12-19-2009, 09:04 PM
it's not pathetic at any age. Whenever you're ready is the right time. pff, who cares anyway?

ratracekid111
12-19-2009, 09:07 PM
The day after you get married

"Honey!! Why the hell did we not do it last night?"

Enihs
12-19-2009, 09:13 PM
sooo.. did ts get laid yet?

BeastlyBassist
12-19-2009, 09:20 PM
5. For all those who judge someone for going to a hooker...**** YOU!! Maybe have some empathy for people who will not sleep with anything less than what they want in a woman (like myself, seriously the escort I'm considering is hotter than 95% of the girls in my college, and I would pay any day rather than reduce my standards...I know that's real shallow, but I'm sorry. I need to be attracted to the person)
You necrobumped this thread from 2007 to tell people (along with an insane wall of text) that you're considering an escort because nobody is good enough for you? :haha:

cerpintaxt45
12-19-2009, 09:21 PM
I'd say once you are in college
You go to hell. You go to hell and you die.

Enihs
12-19-2009, 09:22 PM
You go to hell. You go to hell and you die.
shouldnt it be die THEN go to hell?

zwound
12-19-2009, 09:26 PM
Meh, sex is overrated. I always thought this.

I lost my virginity when i was 16 and a half with my girlfriend who I was with for 2 years at the time (And still is at 18 and a half). I pretty much never thought of the experience afterward, never really told anyone except 2 closest friends and i did it just because they were wondering and no one knows outside my circle (And no one cares either). Worries me, that some societies actually have pressure on having sex. I've never really had pressure in any schools I've been to (Including British ones) since grade 3, when everyone discovered porn and was savvy to get 'laid'.

Chill the **** out dudes, it's not half as cool as it seems. I'd say the good old fap is handier in most situations. Who knows your pleasure nodes better than you after five years of polishing the rod, eh?

Ikey
12-19-2009, 09:28 PM
whats with the ooooollllld thread bump

zwound
12-19-2009, 09:31 PM
whats with the ooooollllld thread bump
We're experiencing a change of generations here. The young uns need to have their pit sex ed too :haha:

Venice King
12-19-2009, 09:33 PM
As a paedophile I am going to say 4.

Sonny_sam
12-19-2009, 09:34 PM
As a paedophile I am going to say 4.

:haha: :haha: :haha:
:haha: :haha: :haha:
:haha: :haha: :haha:

















:sad:

Taylz24
12-19-2009, 09:42 PM
I think someone said this but
if you're TRYING to and can't --> SAD
if you get the chance and turn it down because you're not ready --> NOT SAD

Why was this thread revived though I wanna know?

cerpintaxt45
12-19-2009, 09:57 PM
shouldnt it be die THEN go to hell?
nobody got the Mr. Garrison reference?

beadhangingOne
12-19-2009, 10:14 PM
If you haven't had triple-digit sexual partners by the time you come out of the womb, you're a noob.

Prototype4342
12-19-2009, 10:52 PM
i was nineteen before i lost my v-card.


because i'm better than you.

breakingxxcore
12-19-2009, 11:01 PM
In the eyes of the modern public...
I'd say by 18 years old.

In my eyes...
I'd say it gets a bit weird after like..25.

flanders_91
12-19-2009, 11:10 PM
im 18 and a virgin but it doesnt bother me. it'll happen with the rite person. instead of just doing it with the first slut that i can. a couple of my friends are...

dougl126
12-19-2009, 11:16 PM
If you were to die tomorrow will people remember you as a virgin or as a good friend, etc.? Does it really matter? What if you meet a special girl someday who is a virgin but you decided to get drunk and not even remember what happened?

maowcat
12-19-2009, 11:17 PM
if you don't do it by the end of college it's pretty pathetic

lespaul1216
12-19-2009, 11:18 PM
after college

lordofthefood1
12-19-2009, 11:22 PM
Nikola Tesla was like the smartest man alive and he attributed it to being celibate.

Sigh, I'm just fooling myself as a 20-year-old virgin. Half way there? Two girls told me that they are going to rape me if I'm 40, but I'm not sure how much of a joke it is.

ethan_hanus
12-19-2009, 11:23 PM
Who in the hell brought this thread back from the dead?

Damn Zombie threads.

On topic, I would say if your 40 and still a virgin, sucks for you. I'm still a virgin, by choice, at least I've done one thing morally right.

DeAd-RiP
12-19-2009, 11:28 PM
:haha I love how people get made fun of for being virgins. It's like a crime to not be horny and foolish these days. You shouldn't feel pressured into having sex. When the time is right, you'll know. Don't let your friends control your sex life.


That. You meet the right person you will know, that or when you're mentally ready you'll know.

RocksAwakening5
12-19-2009, 11:29 PM
Huge epic bump.

Why would being a virgin be pathetic? Boy or girl at an older age-it just shows that you aren't the kind of pathetic person who bangs anything and everything that moves. Most people rush into losing it, do it with whoever who they have no feelings for and regret it later. There shouldn't be a rush into losing it. Wait for the right girl to come along and everything will turn from there. Don't feel pressured, you are your own person. Who cares what your friends do. The time will come.

kenan6346
12-19-2009, 11:35 PM
Depends. If you just can't get ladies, then I'd say by the time you've finished college. If you're celibate or something, well never I guess :shrug:

CL/\SH
12-20-2009, 02:29 AM
When you make a thread on UG asking what age is pathetic to be a virgin.

Quite honestly, don't lose it just cuz. It's much better if you do it with someone you know and care for. Don't learn the hard way that a few minutes of ecstacy is not worth a lifetime of regret.

slipknot5678
12-20-2009, 02:32 AM
I'm only 14 (haters are going to hate me), so I don't know shit about sex, but I can guaruntee you I'm going to die at 60. And I will still be a virgin.

fearofthemark
12-20-2009, 02:34 AM
I consider it a shame to society if a girl reaches her eighth birthday a virgin.

honeybiscuit
12-20-2009, 02:34 AM
sooo.. did ts get laid yet?

thats what i'm wondering, its been a couple years. I can't be bothered to read this stupid thread though.

blackthought
12-20-2009, 02:37 AM
I consider any girl who hasn't been with me a virgin.

http://i348.photobucket.com/albums/q343/blackthought01/Gigolo.jpg

Blind In 1 Ear
12-20-2009, 02:37 AM
honestly, it doesnt matter. i knew a couple that waited till marriage to have sex. i dont agree with the reasons (religion) but i kind of respect that they stick to thei principles and i kind of understand why they want to do that. i think they got married mid to late 20's.

Andrax20
12-20-2009, 02:37 AM
20.

DempseyPunk
12-20-2009, 02:39 AM
im a junior and turning 17 in a month, but i hate being a virgin!!

most of my friends aren't...

so when or what age should i really be worrying about it?
yeah, your friends are liars. 90% of people in high school whos say they have gotten laid, havnt.

but i lost mine a bit early at 15. i feel i should have waited. its up to you, but be proud of yourself none the less

GuernZila
12-20-2009, 02:42 AM
this thread is 2 years old.... this guy has probably gone to college and got laid by now...
anyways
when i waz 13 i almost did it with this girl i dated. she waz 15, and the first girl i realy did any thing with and wanted me to have sex with her but i waz like hrmmm... im only 13, this doesn't seem right...so i kinda **** blocked her cuz i waz smarter than that. so im still a virgin

tigerking615
12-20-2009, 02:48 AM
It's not pathetic. Wait till you find a girl you really care about.

DempseyPunk
12-20-2009, 02:56 AM
this thread is 2 years old.... this guy has probably gone to college and got laid by now...
anyways
when i waz 13 i almost did it with this girl i dated. she waz 15, and the first girl i realy did any thing with and wanted me to have sex with her but i waz like hrmmm... im only 13, this doesn't seem right...so i kinda **** blocked her cuz i waz smarter than that. so im still a virgin
self control ftw :)

nincompoop
12-20-2009, 02:56 AM
I'm nearly 20 and I'm a virgin. I actually don't care that much, but you gotta understand... society's opinion means dick to me.

fail
12-20-2009, 02:59 AM
The proper age to start having sex...is 17.

nincompoop
12-20-2009, 03:04 AM
The proper age to start having sex...is 17.

You don't know anything. By what measure did you determine 17? Take a hike.

DeadlyIllness
12-20-2009, 03:05 AM
Why should you care, it doesn't matter.

NoOne0507
12-20-2009, 03:06 AM
You don't know anything. By what measure did you determine 17? Take a hike.

Missed South Park reference was missed.

fail
12-20-2009, 03:58 AM
You don't know anything. By what measure did you determine 17? Take a hike.

Nope...17.

talia.
12-20-2009, 04:04 AM
I'm nearly 20 and I'm a virgin. I actually don't care that much, but you gotta understand... society's opinion means dick to me.
Same. I am a 20 year old girl and I am a virgin. Its surely not because I want to be, but I'm not going to ***** myself to lose it.

radomu
12-20-2009, 04:08 AM
I'm turning 18 in less than a month, but I'm still a virgin and so is the rest of my senior highschool class (I think) because I'm from a very conservative Protestant school.

That said, I think it's a bit insane if you're still a virgin when you graduate college...

lordofthefood1
12-20-2009, 04:49 AM
Same. I am a 20 year old girl and I am a virgin. Its surely not because I want to be, but I'm not going to ***** myself to lose it.
Yeah, basically same; you made me, 'yay'.

We should all start a club... (half joking)

meta1militia
12-20-2009, 05:26 AM
i posted in this thread almost 3 years ago and my perv mind still led me back to it XD

Gyroscope
12-20-2009, 05:32 AM
this was inteded to be a post on the board, not as a direct reply to Revalk's post.
Nice bump, noobie.

Snowblind 911
12-20-2009, 05:35 AM
It's only pathetic if losing it is a goal of yours and you still haven't.
I don't mind what age I have sex, if the opportunity presents itself with the right person then I'll take it, but I'm not desperate by any means.

Jimi-is-god
12-20-2009, 05:53 AM
I lost my virginity when i was 16
Worst sex of my life!

Wait till you are old enough to pleasure a woman physically and mentally :)

metal_al73
12-20-2009, 05:57 AM
depends if you believe in sex before marriage or not.....
if you dont id say about 20, i lost it at 16 though

radomu
12-20-2009, 05:58 AM
I lost my virginity when i was 16
Worst sex of my life!

Wait till you are old enough to pleasure a woman physically and mentally :)

Really? I heard the first one was always amazing

thedefrockednun
12-20-2009, 06:03 AM
I'm 17 and got the feeling I would NEVER lose my virginity. Every week another virgin from the class would appear to have lost his virginity and I was still one.

I met a girl, we started going out and I lost my virginity about 2 weeks ago.

What I mean to say: Don't rush yourself into it just so you get it over with. It's not a problem to be a virgin and EVEN if it feels like you'll never lose it, you never know what will happen.


Usually though, guys lose it before going to university (that's where you'll be the most bummed while all your mates get some...).

Roookie
12-20-2009, 06:07 AM
I would say about 40, then it's.... well, not pathetic, but you'd be missing out. Wait for the right girl, man.

Jimi-is-god
12-20-2009, 06:11 AM
Really? I heard the first one was always amazing


:haha:

That is a "very large" misconception
It really depends though
When you have no experience and the girl is laughing cause it ( feels funny)

It's really a picnic :p:

The best sex i have ever had is with a long term girlfriend...and my good old book of sex positions

'Leviathan'
12-20-2009, 06:21 AM
My friend got desperate enough to rape his virginity away. I hung out for a girl who I now love, and am glad I've found someone to share my first time with. I'm 17, which I feel is the perfect age to 'lose it', although I don't feel the pressure of losing it should be applied to ANYONE. It will happen to you when it happens. If you force it, you'll regret it afterwards.

Shredoftheday
12-20-2009, 06:42 AM
Nice necrobumping :rolleyes:
My friend got desperate enough to rape his virginity away. I hung out for a girl who I now love, and am glad I've found someone to share my first time with. I'm 17, which I feel is the perfect age to 'lose it', although I don't feel the pressure of losing it should be applied to ANYONE. It will happen to you when it happens. If you force it, you'll regret it afterwards.
Oh jebus not that guy.....You still call him your 'friend'?

AceOfBlades
12-20-2009, 06:43 AM
6.

Athabasca
12-20-2009, 06:46 AM
I'm 17, getting pretty desperate to lose it before I'm 18 in late January. Planning on going out heaps when my mate gets back from England. I dunno how much longer I wanna wait for the right person. Seems weird that I'll be at uni as a virgin otherwise.

:(

Silver-spear94
12-20-2009, 06:46 AM
i dont get it

the discussion is exhausted and the TS is banned

why does this thread keep popping back up? :haha:

'Leviathan'
12-20-2009, 06:50 AM
Nice necrobumping :rolleyes:

Oh jebus not that guy.....You still call him your 'friend'?

I didn't bump it, fool. :p:

Also, no, my friends and I all hate his guts. Friend was just the only word I could think of at the time. Also... you're back. :hug:

dann_blood
12-20-2009, 06:57 AM
There is no age. It becomes pathetic when you obsess over it.

Shredoftheday
12-20-2009, 06:58 AM
I didn't bump it, fool. :p:

Also, no, my friends and I all hate his guts. Friend was just the only word I could think of at the time. Also... you're back. :hug:
1)I know, hence, stating it BEFORE the quote =/
2) Yeah, but at a rather bitter-sweet time =/

ibrahimasood
12-20-2009, 07:09 AM
Im probably gonna loose it in my late 20's. as i cant do it before marriage.

darkstar2466
12-20-2009, 07:23 AM
When you are emotionally and physically ready, and you are willing to share the experience with someone you care about. Until then, holding off seems like a fairly good idea.

flea's trumpet
12-20-2009, 08:32 AM
im interested to know if TS is still a virgin.

mr freezy
12-20-2009, 08:40 AM
I think 30. If your a fully grown adult and haven't managed to get some, you must have some serious socail problems.

dogmax
12-20-2009, 08:49 AM
never. If you're 30 y/o and haven't had some i dont think being virgin is the problem. Then it's the lack of social activity that's the problem.
But if all you really care about is to lose it, then here's a great tip: Alchohol.

HuckIt
12-20-2009, 08:57 AM
40, i am 39 and still a virgin, I just watached the movie and i am pathetic
that movie is hilarious...I was watching it with some friends and we had to try the apple bong bit, but without weed :haha

radomu
12-20-2009, 09:33 AM
I think 30. If your a fully grown adult and haven't managed to get some, you must have some serious socail problems.
not if you're a catholic priest...

The_Seventh_Sin
12-20-2009, 09:38 AM
pathetic.

rape is the answer here.

radomu
12-20-2009, 09:41 AM
pathetic.

rape is the answer here.
^freudian slip

Todd Hart
12-20-2009, 10:01 AM
Meh i'm 17 and a virgin, doesn't really bother me tbh. It bothers me and is probably kinda pathetic that i'm still waiting on my first real kiss but i'd rather wait for the right person than just go out and exploit myself just to tick something off my list of thing to do to appear better in the eyes of the shallow arseholes who are convinced that life revolves around sex.

muckypup
12-20-2009, 10:03 AM
I'm 16 and I have the same problem as you dude ^^ I'm still waiting for my first damn kiss:( ...

radomu
12-20-2009, 11:40 AM
I'm 16 and I have the same problem as you dude ^^ I'm still waiting for my first damn kiss:( ...
You still haven't kissed? Dude... but I don't think you're fine with your virginity issue

Slicer666
12-20-2009, 11:50 AM
Does it ever get pathetic?

Lots of people who stay virgins their entire lifes =/

MightyAl
12-20-2009, 11:52 AM
Being a virgin is pathetic when you're obsessed by being a virgin.

1avatar328
12-20-2009, 12:05 PM
between 30-40 then it just becomes sad...

radomu
12-20-2009, 12:07 PM
Being a virgin is pathetic when you're obsessed by being a virgin.
this too

true_bacon22
12-20-2009, 12:13 PM
Old thread is ooooooooooooooooolllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllddddddddddddddddddd.

xMarkx
12-20-2009, 12:17 PM
Two words, my friend; Date Rape.

+9000

SpunkNFunk
12-20-2009, 12:33 PM
yeah. you lose your virginity, just to lose your virginity. then you feel like a shithead. then you lose count of how many people you've slept with. then you go through your facebook friends and make a list of the people you've slept with. then you put it in your wallet.


wish i woulda waited till the right time.

MOODY17
12-20-2009, 12:40 PM
Well my science teacher is 35, lives with his mum and is a virgin and hes about as pathetic as you get!

:haha: he told you that he's a virgin?

StreetLight3989
12-20-2009, 12:41 PM
I'm 17 and I'm still a virgin. Most of my friends are too actually.
I still haven't even kissed anyone though :/

MightyAl
12-20-2009, 12:42 PM
I'm 17 and I'm still a virgin. Most of my friends are too actually.
I still haven't even kissed anyone though :/
Kiss one of your friends. On the anus.

StreetLight3989
12-20-2009, 12:43 PM
Kiss one of your friends. On the anus.
Eh, that would feel cheap.

MightyAl
12-20-2009, 12:45 PM
Eh, that would feel cheap.
Take them out to dinner first, then. Maybe a movie.

StreetLight3989
12-20-2009, 12:46 PM
Take them out to dinner first, then. Maybe a movie.
Sounds like a plan. Should be a blast.

MightyAl
12-20-2009, 12:47 PM
Sounds like a plan. Should be a blast.
Oh yea. All over their face.

iwannabesedated
12-20-2009, 01:03 PM
No big deal. I'm 17 too.

And also, bullshit that most of your friends aren't, they're either liars or mansluts.

technicolour
12-20-2009, 01:15 PM
I think a lot of you guys missed the point. I don't think he's trying to have sex to be cool, he's just another horny teenager who wants to have sex, but no luck has come his way as of yet.

But anyways, don't worry about it, just find someone to date, if you guys connect, you'll probably have sex sooner or later. Or just go to parties and hit on drunk girls.

As far as an age...hmm, I was a virgin until I was 19 or 20. Whatever, it happens when it happens.

aerosmithfan95
12-20-2009, 02:44 PM
I would say about 21.

Zombee
12-20-2009, 02:47 PM
I would say about 21.

Agreed. It gets gradually more pathetic the older you get.

Symphony21
12-20-2009, 02:56 PM
Don't worry about what people think. Just be yourself man.

Acoustic_Drew
12-20-2009, 02:59 PM
Dead

Radman_Paiza
12-20-2009, 03:02 PM
Dead

This.

As long as you have confidence and stay classy, noone will tease for being a virgin.