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Old 10-05-2012, 04:35 AM   #11501
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It sounds to me that you're just not really respecting what she's telling you when she's not caught up in the heat of the moment.

Actually, I'll have to disagree with that statement, mate. It's been about 2 months we're already a couple and I've never done anything against her will. the thing is that when she's caught up with the heat of the moment she attacks me, good, but the next thing I know is she's kind of ashamed with what she did (just kissing me and hugging and all the usual stuff, nothing extraordinary). That face at that moment is QUITE the bummer. I mean I kind of feel bad for making out with her too at that point. I'm lik ereally positive she has some psychological issues. You know like how say if youre parents tell you that 'touching there is wrong!' then eventually you can get caught up with that idea and grow a impotent man
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Old 10-05-2012, 05:20 AM   #11502
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Good news, not pregnant Just got super super paranoid haha.
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Old 10-05-2012, 11:12 AM   #11503
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Good news, not pregnant Just got super super paranoid haha.

Called it.
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Old 10-05-2012, 05:41 PM   #11504
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Yus, getting laid any day now. Any tips for my first time?

I'm just a bit nervous, because this isn't with a long time girlfriend or anything with time to get closer and build up to it or anything. Just a newly found f-buddy. I'm a virgin, but have done plenty of other things, and she has 0 experience. So, I guess bad awkward sex for all!
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Old 10-05-2012, 05:46 PM   #11505
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I'm a virgin, but have done plenty of other things,


What? How?

And just don't worry about it. Sex is about the least serious things two people can do together.
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Old 10-05-2012, 05:49 PM   #11506
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What? How?

And just don't worry about it. Sex is about the least serious things two people can do together.


As in, with my ex gf. I got handjobs, i did stuff for her, we did things, made out etc. Basically everything other than sex because she wasn't ready. So I got to do everything other than put it in.

Now this girl, she is ready to ****. Smoking body as well.

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Old 10-06-2012, 10:06 AM   #11507
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Hey guys. Started seeing this girl recently and she said she was a virgin (she had tried sex a couple of years ago but it didn't go well so it didn't really happen).

Anyway we were fooling around, usual foreplay stuff and she tells me she wants to give it a go. I had a few beers in me and suddenly felt pretty under stress/pressure knowing this was her first time.

Cut a long story short, I couldn't get it up and after a good half hour when i did get it up, we had sex but I wasn't completely 100% hard and it wasn't exactly the best.

She could tell I was embarrassed and told me it's no big deal, but I'm still slightly embarrassed and afraid it'll happen again....I dunno why it happened, I just suddenly felt under pressure...I probably should have given up rather than have average sex but I didn't wanna have a total failure...

Now she and I are ok but I dunno whether I should bring it up again...Also, how avoid it in future?
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Old 10-06-2012, 10:56 AM   #11508
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It'll be much easier if you're not stressing about it. Just relax and enjoy yourself.

Also, how many beers are we talking?


summin like 6-7 but there were a good few hours inbetween so dunno if they affected it...
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Old 10-09-2012, 04:34 AM   #11509
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Guys, I'm having sex tomorrow! Woooohooooooooooooooo!
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Old 10-09-2012, 04:39 AM   #11510
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Old 10-09-2012, 04:49 AM   #11511
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Guys, I'm having sex tomorrow! Woooohooooooooooooooo!

Pffttt hands don't count dude
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Old 10-09-2012, 04:51 AM   #11512
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Pffttt hands don't count dude


With a girl!!!!

My hand is pretty good though. Lots of experience.

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Old 10-09-2012, 05:11 AM   #11513
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With a girl!!!!

My hand is pretty good though. Lots of experience.

remember to report back here with all the ins and outs
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Old 10-09-2012, 05:12 AM   #11514
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remember to report back here with all the ins and outs


Ok, I will! It's both of our first times, so, we'll see how it goes. Condoms and lube at the ready for tomorrow. Just 12 hours to go!

Till then, time to work out and study!

Also, "ins and outs", nice....

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Old 10-09-2012, 07:33 AM   #11515
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I love how people plan the first time, just so that all that pressure appears.
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Old 10-09-2012, 07:45 AM   #11516
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Old 10-09-2012, 11:57 AM   #11517
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Yeah, I'm glad my first time was spontaneous. I mean, it sucked all the same, but it wasn't such a big deal. And it really took pressure off the times following it.
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Old 10-09-2012, 02:34 PM   #11518
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Me and my girlfriend had planned our first time, but then before it happened, we found ourselves home alone after a midterm and it just sort of happened. I'm happy it went down that way, because I had numerous worries about the actual time we planned.
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Old 10-10-2012, 12:02 AM   #11519
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any tips on how to get my guy to go down on me without making him feel too pressured?
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Old 10-10-2012, 12:04 AM   #11520
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...Just pressure him a bit and don't feel bad for it. Just, don't be an ass yourself if he's not good at it and guide him.
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