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Old 10-04-2012, 10:01 AM   #11481
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I'm in the middle of a pregnancy scare and shitting my pants. My period is going on 2 weeks late. I did a test yesterday, which came up negative, but apparently false negatives are common so I'm doing a second test in a couple of days. ****

We did use condoms, so I'm likely to be safe (as far as I know none broke or anything either). But still. Haven't told the guy yet, I'm going to wait til the second test. I'm a nervous wreck right now. shiiiiiiiiiiiit


Sorry for the offtopic, but I thought you were gay? If you remember me?

Can't help with the pregnancy thingy. If you used condoms and are sure that it didn't slip or break, then I can't help
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Old 10-04-2012, 11:42 AM   #11482
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Sorry for the offtopic, but I thought you were gay? If you remember me?

Can't help with the pregnancy thingy. If you used condoms and are sure that it didn't slip or break, then I can't help

Dude, she's clearly not single. Stop with the smilies.

You should tell the guy. Make him freak out for nothing, like you. You're not pregnant. You're just so worried about being pregnant that you're wrecking your body.
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Old 10-04-2012, 04:56 PM   #11483
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Dude, how old are you?

You don't wanna be dealing with girls that burst into tears mid-sentence if you're young. That shit is too heavy, I'd leave because of that.

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thanks for the replies guys. To answer the question she's 21, I'm a bit older than her. but she seems to be totally.

I think it's not only her beliefs as much as her fear of doing it. I mean she's also afraid that we won't be together all the time so she's afraid to do it with me knowing I'm not gonna be her husband

the interesting thing is that she's having some really psychological things too. I mean I really dont insist on sex, but when you're making out then you're making out you know, at least you can have your way around her body (dude at least hugging her under her T-shirt) which seems to be ok by her for a moment, and the other moment she's all scared yelling No!. I'm not sure how to really tell her that no sex is gonna happen whatsoever and it's just making out.
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Old 10-04-2012, 05:15 PM   #11484
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I'm in the middle of a pregnancy scare and shitting my pants. My period is going on 2 weeks late. I did a test yesterday, which came up negative, but apparently false negatives are common so I'm doing a second test in a couple of days. ****

We did use condoms, so I'm likely to be safe (as far as I know none broke or anything either). But still. Haven't told the guy yet, I'm going to wait til the second test. I'm a nervous wreck right now. shiiiiiiiiiiiit


First of all, calm down. My period is late all the time. I sometimes skip a month and I still haven't figured out why. Simple stress can delay your period. Even something like extra work outs or changing your diet can cause you to skip a month or something. There are a million reasons why you're late, and being late doesn't mean you're preggo. Have you taken any medication lately, because that's a common factor too.

If the test came up negative, that's a good thing. Just relax and chalk it up to stress. Try the second test again just for the peace of mind. When it comes out negative, you'll feel so much better.
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Old 10-04-2012, 05:24 PM   #11485
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First of all, calm down. My period is late all the time. I sometimes skip a month and I still haven't figured out why. Simple stress can delay your period. Even something like extra work outs or changing your diet can cause you to skip a month or something. There are a million reasons why you're late, and being late doesn't mean you're preggo. Have you taken any medication lately, because that's a common factor too.

If the test came up negative, that's a good thing. Just relax and chalk it up to stress. Try the second test again just for the peace of mind. When it comes out negative, you'll feel so much better.


Tangential: You might have polycystic ovary syndrome.

P.S. See, that's what happens when I get an email notification from this thread while studying for my Ob/Gyn test.

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Old 10-04-2012, 10:41 PM   #11486
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I'm in the middle of a pregnancy scare and shitting my pants. My period is going on 2 weeks late. I did a test yesterday, which came up negative, but apparently false negatives are common so I'm doing a second test in a couple of days. ****

We did use condoms, so I'm likely to be safe (as far as I know none broke or anything either). But still. Haven't told the guy yet, I'm going to wait til the second test. I'm a nervous wreck right now. shiiiiiiiiiiiit


Don't stress about it two much. At least not before a month has passed. If the guy is someone you actually know, tell him. If you have to stress then why not have him stress a little too. Two weeks isn't a long time to be late though, it happens.

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thanks for the replies guys. To answer the question she's 21, I'm a bit older than her. but she seems to be totally.

I think it's not only her beliefs as much as her fear of doing it. I mean she's also afraid that we won't be together all the time so she's afraid to do it with me knowing I'm not gonna be her husband

the interesting thing is that she's having some really psychological things too. I mean I really dont insist on sex, but when you're making out then you're making out you know, at least you can have your way around her body (dude at least hugging her under her T-shirt) which seems to be ok by her for a moment, and the other moment she's all scared yelling No!. I'm not sure how to really tell her that no sex is gonna happen whatsoever and it's just making out.


It sounds to me that you're just not really respecting what she's telling you when she's not caught up in the heat of the moment.
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Old 10-05-2012, 04:35 AM   #11487
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It sounds to me that you're just not really respecting what she's telling you when she's not caught up in the heat of the moment.

Actually, I'll have to disagree with that statement, mate. It's been about 2 months we're already a couple and I've never done anything against her will. the thing is that when she's caught up with the heat of the moment she attacks me, good, but the next thing I know is she's kind of ashamed with what she did (just kissing me and hugging and all the usual stuff, nothing extraordinary). That face at that moment is QUITE the bummer. I mean I kind of feel bad for making out with her too at that point. I'm lik ereally positive she has some psychological issues. You know like how say if youre parents tell you that 'touching there is wrong!' then eventually you can get caught up with that idea and grow a impotent man
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Old 10-05-2012, 05:20 AM   #11488
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Good news, not pregnant Just got super super paranoid haha.
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Old 10-05-2012, 11:12 AM   #11489
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Good news, not pregnant Just got super super paranoid haha.

Called it.
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Old 10-05-2012, 05:41 PM   #11490
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Yus, getting laid any day now. Any tips for my first time?

I'm just a bit nervous, because this isn't with a long time girlfriend or anything with time to get closer and build up to it or anything. Just a newly found f-buddy. I'm a virgin, but have done plenty of other things, and she has 0 experience. So, I guess bad awkward sex for all!
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Old 10-05-2012, 05:46 PM   #11491
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I'm a virgin, but have done plenty of other things,


What? How?

And just don't worry about it. Sex is about the least serious things two people can do together.
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Old 10-05-2012, 05:49 PM   #11492
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And just don't worry about it. Sex is about the least serious things two people can do together.


As in, with my ex gf. I got handjobs, i did stuff for her, we did things, made out etc. Basically everything other than sex because she wasn't ready. So I got to do everything other than put it in.

Now this girl, she is ready to ****. Smoking body as well.

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Old 10-06-2012, 10:06 AM   #11493
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Hey guys. Started seeing this girl recently and she said she was a virgin (she had tried sex a couple of years ago but it didn't go well so it didn't really happen).

Anyway we were fooling around, usual foreplay stuff and she tells me she wants to give it a go. I had a few beers in me and suddenly felt pretty under stress/pressure knowing this was her first time.

Cut a long story short, I couldn't get it up and after a good half hour when i did get it up, we had sex but I wasn't completely 100% hard and it wasn't exactly the best.

She could tell I was embarrassed and told me it's no big deal, but I'm still slightly embarrassed and afraid it'll happen again....I dunno why it happened, I just suddenly felt under pressure...I probably should have given up rather than have average sex but I didn't wanna have a total failure...

Now she and I are ok but I dunno whether I should bring it up again...Also, how avoid it in future?
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Old 10-06-2012, 10:56 AM   #11494
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It'll be much easier if you're not stressing about it. Just relax and enjoy yourself.

Also, how many beers are we talking?


summin like 6-7 but there were a good few hours inbetween so dunno if they affected it...
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Old 10-09-2012, 04:34 AM   #11495
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Guys, I'm having sex tomorrow! Woooohooooooooooooooo!
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Old 10-09-2012, 04:39 AM   #11496
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Old 10-09-2012, 04:49 AM   #11497
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Guys, I'm having sex tomorrow! Woooohooooooooooooooo!

Pffttt hands don't count dude
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Old 10-09-2012, 04:51 AM   #11498
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With a girl!!!!

My hand is pretty good though. Lots of experience.

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Old 10-09-2012, 05:11 AM   #11499
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With a girl!!!!

My hand is pretty good though. Lots of experience.

remember to report back here with all the ins and outs
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Old 10-09-2012, 05:12 AM   #11500
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Ok, I will! It's both of our first times, so, we'll see how it goes. Condoms and lube at the ready for tomorrow. Just 12 hours to go!

Till then, time to work out and study!

Also, "ins and outs", nice....

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