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Old 05-03-2015, 07:26 AM   #13181
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Yeah, we actually got a ton of lube, but we just use it with condoms. Go figure. Well i guess we'll try it. She also booked an apointment with her obgyn, and hopefully this will get sorted out sometime this year...
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Old 09-12-2015, 06:41 AM   #13182
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I could use some advice here.

I met someone online and we haven't met yet, but we have made plans for the middle of next week. I don't know what will come of it, but as of now, it seems to be mainly a casual sex sort of thing: I know that is why she joined the site, and that is sort of why we started talking. The problem that I'm having is that she is supppper into sending pictures. She has sent me about three nudes so far and this is freaking great except for the fact that she wants pictures in return and I have noooo clue what to send her D:

Of course I haven't left her hanging, but its been super clumsy because it takes me forever to reply since I don't have any saved up. I have enough sense to stay away from dick pics but what types of pictures do girls expect in return? She seems to be into what i'm sending her but I'm running out of ideas. Help!

I'll take any advice I can get, but I would really like to hear from any women that happen to be reading this.

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I should specify: I'm not looking for specifics here (ideally, those would come as I get to know her), just general tips and opinions.

****ING EDIT

This whole thing is a giant cluster****. I'm super tired right now and after thinking about it for the past ten minutes or so, I realized that posting here is basically pointless because I know what I have to do, its just that my brain is useless right now and it felt for a second like this situation was a bigger deal than It was.

I'll still welcome any advice, but otherwise I'm really ok with things haha thanks anyway.
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Old 09-12-2015, 06:48 AM   #13183
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I have enough sense to stay away from dick pics

I'm not sure I follow...
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Old 09-12-2015, 06:52 AM   #13184
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You're right, what am I thinking: a dick pic is always appropriate.
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Old 09-12-2015, 06:54 AM   #13185
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They make excellent personalised Christmas cards.

But seriously: as fun as communicating with pictures of your genitals can be, it is also effective (moreso, if anything) to communicate with words. I don't mean that to be patronising.

Have you asked what she would like? Why would anyone on here know what she's into/wants to see more than she does? You can even dress it up a little when you ask, doesn't have to be "what body part do you want next/what's going up my bum now?"
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Old 09-12-2015, 07:05 AM   #13186
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I did actually hahah

I asked and then sent one that I had just taken. I never got a response, but it was super late at the time and the message never came up as "read" (kik) so I'm willing to bet she just fell asleep.

But yeah we have a good four days until we are meeting so if we are going to be doing this the entire time...that is kind of why I'm looking for advice.

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OK maybe some context is needed: its been a really really long day. I've been up for 22 hours and I'm operating on three hours of sleep as is. That said, I just realized that my original post is basically useless. I knew what I had to do but my brain isn't working right now and it seemed like a much bigger deal than it actually is. I'm so sorry

I mean if anyone has any advice I'll still welcome it because - like i said -I'm new to this, but I'm not freaking out.
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Old 11-15-2015, 04:14 AM   #13187
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I need some advice from you knowledgeable guys and gals. Just got into a relationship, and we have had sex. The problem is I don't cum. Hour and a half, yet nothing. Had another go this morning, but still no go. Last time I was in a relationship and had sex, that wasn't a problem. But back then we never used a condom, and now I am. Could a condom really kill that much sensitivity? Or could it just be nerves?
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Old 11-15-2015, 07:39 PM   #13188
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I need some advice from you knowledgeable guys and gals. Just got into a relationship, and we have had sex. The problem is I don't cum. Hour and a half, yet nothing. Had another go this morning, but still no go. Last time I was in a relationship and had sex, that wasn't a problem. But back then we never used a condom, and now I am. Could a condom really kill that much sensitivity? Or could it just be nerves?

blowjobs at all? and you don't really need much sensitivity to come, or at least most won't. For example, I bet it "feels" better than masturbation, right? So it's probably nerves
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Old 11-29-2015, 12:31 AM   #13189
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I need some advice from you knowledgeable guys and gals. Just got into a relationship, and we have had sex. The problem is I don't cum. Hour and a half, yet nothing. Had another go this morning, but still no go. Last time I was in a relationship and had sex, that wasn't a problem. But back then we never used a condom, and now I am. Could a condom really kill that much sensitivity? Or could it just be nerves?


prepare for a barrage of questions:

1. how long have you been having sex with this partner?

2. how long have you been sexually active, and how many sexual partners have you had prior to this one?

3. how old are you?

4. is it only an issue of not being able to cum, or are you not able to stay hard?


I actually went through a similar problem a while back, and to a certain extent, still experience it. I'm just trying to get as clear a picture as possible so I can see if there are any parallels
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Old 11-29-2015, 01:58 AM   #13190
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Also maybe porn has something to do with it? Notice any difficulties in ejaculating to porn you would normally do it easily to? That's in between when you had your first partner and this new one.
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