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Old 01-11-2015, 03:19 PM   #4521
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No social life. I'll go out to bars, coffee shops, etc., but always alone. The few people I have met drift away after a week or two.

I think I'm terrible conversation or that no one I meet has much in common with me, so they lose interest. It's exhausting after three years of trying.

I can understand that. Consider the class thing I was telling you about, they will help you find other people with similar interest. For me where I am studying to be a pastor just getting around people with similar goals bring hours of conversation. So pick a hobby you are interesting in and take a class. You are bound to find friends.
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Old 01-30-2015, 07:47 AM   #4522
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I feel like such a loser. It's almost 6 months since my ex and I broke up and the whole thing still bothers me. Like its getting better but I still get sad over the whole thing quite often, like right now, hence me posting here.

The thing is though that I know I'm better off without her. I know the relationship we had wasn't healthy and I know she didn't really respect me much at all.

I think I just miss the idea of what our relationship was when it was good. I miss having someone to be with all the time. I miss having someone to sleep with at night. I miss having someone that I could tell everything to. I miss the feeling of being in a relationship where I honestly thought she was my best friend.

And it makes me sad and kind of angry at the same time that I'm pretty sure she was over me before the relationship even ended and here I am still upset about it.

I feel like I should be over this by now and I feel like such a loser that I'm not. I feel like I shouldn't miss her, but I do, or I at least miss the idea of her. She wasn't faithful, she didn't have any respect for me at all, she just wasn't a good girlfriend, and I know all of that, and that makes me feel even worse about missing her.

I hate emotions.
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Old 01-30-2015, 07:58 AM   #4523
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Don't worry man, you won't feel like this forever, you just need more time. There are people out there that can take years to get over relationships that end on better terms than yours. Just try not to think about it (difficult, I know), eventually you'll only think of the memory every now and then.
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Old 01-30-2015, 09:05 AM   #4524
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Don't worry man, you won't feel like this forever, you just need more time. There are people out there that can take years to get over relationships that end on better terms than yours. Just try not to think about it (difficult, I know), eventually you'll only think of the memory every now and then.



Thanks man, I needed that. But yeah I think I'm just gonna try to distract myself. I'm playing guitar a lot more recently and that helps. And I'm gonna see if any of my friends wanna do something tonight because I know that'll make me feel better.
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Old 01-30-2015, 09:15 AM   #4525
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Thanks man, I needed that. But yeah I think I'm just gonna try to distract myself. I'm playing guitar a lot more recently and that helps. And I'm gonna see if any of my friends wanna do something tonight because I know that'll make me feel better.



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