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Old 02-25-2015, 02:05 AM   #13161
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Old 02-25-2015, 02:22 AM   #13162
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Yeah, that just made it harder for me because I think I have an idea of what you're talking about but I don't want to assume.

I mean, where do you even start?


The first thing to look into is where your level of comfort is with a power dynamic and what kind of play you're interested in. Kink and BDSM aren't exactly the same, considering the latter isn't as broad and light hearted. But, like I said, there's a play segment and control discipline, to put very simply. Wanting to be spanked doesn't mean you want to sign up as some random's submissive/slave.
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I'm doing the same thing. My Sister bought it ages ago so she's letting me borrow her
copy.

I feel like 50 Shades gets a lot of negative attention just because of it's popularity though. Most of the BDSM fiction I've read had some serious issues with consent. Literally the first thing that happens in The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty is the Prince rapes Beauty in her sleep.


I know this is late, but the Prince doesn't get painted as a rapist. They sell him in a very noble light. Now 50 shades is getting tons of shit because it is taken as a window into BDSM by the general population. The idea of BDSM has a stigma to it, and a mainstream misrepresentation can seriously damage public opinion and eventual general acceptance.
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