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Old 05-24-2009, 04:06 PM   #21
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I plan to ask a lady friend of mine on a date. Thing is, the next time I see her will be on campus. There's very, very little to do. Help?

If any more details are needed, please ask.
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surely the campus is halfway decent looking/has some scenic qualities? just go for a walk, or you could just kick a ball around etc and chat.
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Old 05-24-2009, 04:06 PM   #22
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Oh quick question, how are you meant to talk to a girl outside of your normal social circle when they're always with a billion other people, so you never get a chance to talk to them by their self.
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Old 05-24-2009, 04:07 PM   #23
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Oh quick question, how are you meant to talk to a girl outside of your normal social circle when they're always with a billion other people, so you never get a chance to talk to them by their self.

You are meant to have freewill.

So, the answer to your question is you do it whenever you feel like it.
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Old 05-24-2009, 04:07 PM   #24
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Oh quick question, how are you meant to talk to a girl outside of your normal social circle when they're always with a billion other people, so you never get a chance to talk to them by their self.


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Old 05-24-2009, 04:09 PM   #25
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Use them.

But throw them lightly at her, else she'll find it rude and nonsensical.

Oh, also... use your guts, to approach her that is.
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Old 05-24-2009, 04:12 PM   #26
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You are meant to have freewill.

So, the answer to your question is you do it whenever you feel like it.


Gah, I just don't like a girl's douchebag friends laughing at me as I try and flirt with her. While I like the idea of going to school one day a being completely different/confident/new person. Others will just laugh, I've been quiet for too long now.

But I'm working on it!

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Old 05-24-2009, 04:14 PM   #27
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Gah, I just don't like a girl's douchebag friends laughing at me as I try and flirt with her. While I like the idea of going to school one day a being completely different/confident/new person. Others will just think I'm stupid.

And will you still know/be with these "others" in 5, 10, 20 years from now? Highly unlikely, perhaps one or two will stay with you for that long. Plus it's your life, not theirs, if they find it amusing, very well let it be. You'll only be losing in the end for letting what they think control how you behave.
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Old 05-24-2009, 04:16 PM   #28
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Gah, I just don't like a girl's douchebag friends laughing at me as I try and flirt with her. While I like the idea of going to school one day a being completely different/confident/new person. Others will just laugh, I've been quiet for too long now.

But I'm working on it!


They won't laugh unless you do something stupid, which is unlikely. If trying to talk to her while she's with her friends bothers you, try and catch her when she's alone.

It's never to late to be confident.
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Old 05-24-2009, 04:22 PM   #29
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I could really use some advice....

To keep the long story short.. I went to my friends house yesterday, we all got a drunk and I ended up cheating on my girlfriend =/

She doesn't know it's happened, and to be honest I'm not planning on telling her.. because It would just cause so much more trouble with not just me and her.

But anyway, I feel unbelievably guilty, and I have no idea of how to make this right, or to I dont know, redeem myself?

Any advice would be very much appreciated.
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Old 05-24-2009, 04:23 PM   #30
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Old 05-24-2009, 04:25 PM   #31
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I could really use some advice....

To keep the long story short.. I went to my friends house yesterday, we all got a drunk and I ended up cheating on my girlfriend =/

She doesn't know it's happened, and to be honest I'm not planning on telling her.. because It would just cause so much more trouble with not just me and her.

But anyway, I feel unbelievably guilty, and I have no idea of how to make this right, or to I dont know, redeem myself?

Any advice would be very much appreciated.
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Ouch, that's a hard situation.

If you do not tell her there are two major problems:

1) You will feel guilty for a very long time
2) She WILL find out and when she does, you will have EVEN more trouble.

I suggest that you tell her, if she breaks up with you, you've gotta admit that you deserve it.
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Old 05-24-2009, 04:32 PM   #32
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I could really use some advice....

To keep the long story short.. I went to my friends house yesterday, we all got a drunk and I ended up cheating on my girlfriend =/

She doesn't know it's happened, and to be honest I'm not planning on telling her.. because It would just cause so much more trouble with not just me and her.

But anyway, I feel unbelievably guilty, and I have no idea of how to make this right, or to I dont know, redeem myself?

Any advice would be very much appreciated.
Cheers.


Be a man, and tell her the truth.

If she wants to work it out or not is entirely up to her.


That's all you can do.
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Old 05-24-2009, 04:33 PM   #33
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I could really use some advice....

To keep the long story short.. I went to my friends house yesterday, we all got a drunk and I ended up cheating on my girlfriend =/

She doesn't know it's happened, and to be honest I'm not planning on telling her.. because It would just cause so much more trouble with not just me and her.

But anyway, I feel unbelievably guilty, and I have no idea of how to make this right, or to I dont know, redeem myself?

Any advice would be very much appreciated.
Cheers.


I agree with the new TS and Vad. As far fetched and stupid as it seems; telling her is your best course of action and praying for the least painful turnout.
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Old 05-24-2009, 04:35 PM   #34
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I agree with the new TS and Vad. As far fetched and stupid as it seems; telling her is your best course of action and praying for the least painful turnout.


There's no other way of making it right is there?
Without telling her I mean.
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Old 05-24-2009, 04:35 PM   #35
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Oh quick question, how are you meant to talk to a girl outside of your normal social circle when they're always with a billion other people, so you never get a chance to talk to them by their self.

Holy cow I just answered that on the first page, open your mouth!

Just walk up to her and say, "Oh, hi, you're in my Calculus class, right? How did you do on that midterm," "lala I'm ******ed I did bad" "Aw, you probably did fine, most people I talked to didn't get half of them right. Heck, I got the arc length and surface area ones wrong for sure."

and then next thing you know it, you've walked her to class.

It won't be exact, obviously


so wait, now you say, "But we have no classes together"
then what are you, stalking her?!?!
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There's no other way of making it right is there?
Without telling her I mean.
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Cheat on her again. That will make it even. After all, two wrongs make a right, ey?
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Old 05-24-2009, 04:37 PM   #37
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There's no other way of making it right is there?
Without telling her I mean.
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You cheated on her. There are very few ways if any at all to make it right again. Cheating is where most people draw the line. It isn't impossible to come back from it; but it will be very difficult.
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Old 05-24-2009, 04:40 PM   #38
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Cheat on her again. That will make it even. After all, two wrongs make a right, ey?


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But seriously, there is no way you can get away without telling her, the longer you wait, the more it will eat you up inside and the worse her reaction will be when she finds out.
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You cheated on her. There are very few ways if any at all to make it right again. Cheating is where most people draw the line. It isn't impossible to come back from it; but it will be very difficult.


Hmm. I'll see what happens I guess.
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I could really use some advice....

To keep the long story short.. I went to my friends house yesterday, we all got a drunk and I ended up cheating on my girlfriend =/

She doesn't know it's happened, and to be honest I'm not planning on telling her.. because It would just cause so much more trouble with not just me and her.

But anyway, I feel unbelievably guilty, and I have no idea of how to make this right, or to I dont know, redeem myself?

Any advice would be very much appreciated.
Cheers.

I agree for the most part with the previous responses, but I want to add that if you're interested in keeping your relationship going (and you seem to be) you need to ease off for a bit and earn her trust back, especially if it's a serious relationship. Tell her you couldn't control yourself, etc. and how terrible you feel. If your relationship is strong you'll get another chance.
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