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All the best.
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05-24-2009, 04:47 PM
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There is a new "update section" on the bottom of the (my) first post.
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05-24-2009, 04:53 PM
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you need to tell her, and we can't tell you how she's going to react. i think that girls tend to care more if a guy actually has feelings/cares for another girl than if he just makes a mistake (naturally, the further you go, the worse it is).
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05-24-2009, 04:53 PM
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Especially mine, right? 
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05-24-2009, 04:56 PM
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Thanks  Continue giving advice, it's great to have more and more regulars around. I'm gonna go to bed now, G'night people and good luck with all your endeavors (I have test week coming up  )And yes Domino, your FAQ is great. Last edited by thedefrockednun : 05-24-2009 at 05:00 PM. |
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05-24-2009, 04:59 PM
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Why thank you, TS. Good night to you!
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05-24-2009, 05:00 PM
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You need to tell her. Better she find out from you than from someone else. Do not expect your honesty will win her over though. You need to expect that she'll break up with you. Anything more than that is a bonus, right? Don't go all "I give you honesty and you want to break up with me!". Even if she breaks up with you, she might get back. Either way, you need to tell her. It'll tear you apart from the inside otherwise. Be humble. |
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05-24-2009, 05:04 PM
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ok so last weekend, i went round my girlfriends house. we didnt really do much,
was there for about an hour before i left, and pulled over on my way home. I called her, and told her i needed to take a break for a coupla weeks. she cries, says ok, awkward silence, then i say i'll talk soon and end the conversation. We've been together for nearly a year, we've never had any arguments or upsets, and known each other for about 5 years anyway. University's coming to an end for me (only a year foundation course), and ill be moving to another in september. but im not interested in this relationship anymore, i think ive just gotten bored, nothing exciting has happened or anything and i dont wanna stay tied down for a few more years because we'll never see each other. i'd rather have a good time with my mates during summer and keep my options open. advice on how to let her down gently? she's completely smitten apparently, and our mutual friend told me a few days after that shes taking it really badly. im guessing now that she'll me coming with this bombshell. |
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05-24-2009, 05:06 PM
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Don't do that. Do it to her face, and explain to her why you're doing it. Of course she'll be crushed; but she'll get over it.
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05-24-2009, 05:14 PM
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Well i did, and i think it wouldve turned out the same anyway :/
But im going round hers next weekend, i'm gonna tell her then. thanks for replying btw  |
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05-24-2009, 05:18 PM
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No problem. Just remember; you've been thinking about this for days/weeks, and she's just finding out. Her reaction could range from shock to rage, so prepare yourself.
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05-24-2009, 05:22 PM
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Wooo new RT thread.
A few words of advise to EVERYONE who posts a question in here. LISTEN TO THE REPLYS YOU GET (even if you dont agree with them)...especially from the regulars They seriously helped me and im now happily in a relationship Good luck to all of you...seriously i hope u all make it |
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05-24-2009, 05:27 PM
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By all means, good sir. On what, though?
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05-24-2009, 05:30 PM
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you should have told her in person, but what's done is done. tell her the truth, that you're not ready for a relationship atm. there's nothing you can say that will make it easy, you just have to get through it. 4 out of my 5 flatmates started the uni year in october in relationships; none of those relationships exists any more. it was and still is absolute hell for 2 of them. i know you haven't said you're going to lie to her, but one of my friends was lied to in a breakup (one of the hell-breakups) and it made her feel worthless, and things keep coming back to haunt her. being honest is the respectful thing to do.
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05-24-2009, 05:30 PM
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I say, do what you feel is right to do.  Last edited by Zaphikh : 05-24-2009 at 09:10 PM. |
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05-24-2009, 05:34 PM
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That actually sounds like a really good idea. Write something up and PM it to thedefrockednun.
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05-24-2009, 05:39 PM
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05-24-2009, 06:37 PM
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OK, so the girlfriend I had before didn't have a phone, so I don't know...how often should I call/text this new girl I'm interested in without being annoying to her? And in case it's important, she's the one that liked me first.
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05-24-2009, 06:40 PM
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Don't call/text unless you have something to tell her.
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Wait for her to text/call you first sometimes 
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