hawttieblonde69

If you're interested in her a good way to show it would just text her to say what's up or to see how her day is going. But also wait for her to initiate sometimes too. Good luck and let us know what happens.

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coheed713

Well, here it goes.

I asked out a good friend of mine out on Thursday, but she never got a chance to answer because it was kind of sudden and there was too little time to answer. She was out the next day and we don't have each other's numbers. However, apparently she wants to say yes but she is not exactly certain about it. What that supposed to mean?

Then there is two more people involved in this. One is my good friend, let's call him B, and there is a girl who asked me out but I rejected and is friends with the girl I asked out, lets call her K. So, there is a chance the girl I asked doesn't want to say yes because of those two because she knows how they feel. Any idea of what she's going though or advice if I should wait this out. And there is the chance she ends up saying "no" and I don't want that affeecting our relationship as friends. Help?

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Limons

Call/text her maybe a few times a week. You don't want to text her all day because she'll probably get bored of you. Also, wait for her to text you first a bit.

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I missed teh first page... I am disappoint.

I'll just finish my FAQ and sent it to you Defrockednun.

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Does B like the girl you asked out? And how was there not enough time? It takes a few seconds, unless she really needs to think about it. So I'll play out two scenarios...

She says yes; B and K get over themselves eventually and you and your girl can pursue a strong relationship. But the lack of certainty on her part makes me a bit skeptical.

She says no; you get over yourself.

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coheed713

Scenario 2 I have no problem with. Its the fact that I'm not sure where our friendship will end up after that.

And I asked her literally ten seconds before we had to go our separate ways because her mom picked her up and she had no time to think it over.

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Congrats on the new thread..is 2 1/2 years too soon to move in ?

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hawttieblonde69

That was very bad timing on your part. :p If she only says no because of B and K then everything will go back to normal. If she says no because she is not into you, well...

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domino_92

Being only 16, I wouldn't really know. But it seems to me that it depends on how strongly you feel for each other and not how long you've been together.

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What's a good way to ask a girl out? In person...or a good way to make a move on her?

Also rigiddigits, you left me hanging j/k, its cool

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coheed713

I'm cool with it both ways, I'm just not sure she is. But thanks, I know it was pretty bad timing but I got caught up in the moment.

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yellowfrizbee

Nah, tbh I only asked so my post wouldnt be spam to test your speed in answering. Good job. You passed


If I had to ask myself that then I probably would say no to moving in.

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Limons

If you feel strongly for each other, then you should move in. I know people that have been dating for a few months and live together.

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I'd say that at your age, it's much too soon. You're only 18 years old, you have yet to completely grow into the person that you're going to be and chances are that this relationship you're in right now is not going to work out. It could, but it's unlikely. Living together at this point puts you in a position in which you'll have to grow up way too soon (no parents = bills, groceries, less help, need to find own insurance, etc.) and increases the likelihood of you starting a family much too young. And I know, "age doesn't mean anything" but in a situation like this it does. Just weigh your options and make a choice. And if you're already living on your own with zero parental help, then I guess it's not too soon for you two to move in together.

EDIT: Damnit frizbee! :p

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i like this girl and ive known her for a year . 1 month a go i told her that i like her ( i kno that was a stupid move) , but she told me she liked me back . I talk to her all the time , but lately she hasn't been showin me any signs that she still likes me . So tomorrow i'm gonna ask her if she still have feelings for me . What should i do ? should i go ahead and ask her straight ahead or say somethin before that ? or say something else ? really need help :S i really like this girl , but idk if im Fz'ed.

domino_92

What you should have done is asked her out a month ago. Now the outlook isn't so good. She put her feelings out there for you, and you left her hanging. She's probably lost interest now and moved on.
Go ahead and ask her if she still has feelings for you, but I wouldn't do it straight out. Wheel the conversation in that direction and then maybe say something along the lines of, 'What would you say if I asked you out right now?' in a joking manner. But I wouldn't really get you hopes up. It seems to me you had your chance and blew it.

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mmmk so theres this sophmore in my writing class whos pretty cool. Im a senior btw but im still only a year older than her. And we havent really spoken much until these last couple weeks. We'll occasionally joke around and ask each other what they think of this or that.

Havent really gotten any signals that she likes me or anything. But it wouldnt surprise me if she did. But i only have 2 days left of school and i was thinking....what the hell its summer im bout to be done with school, ill just ask for her number.

So should i do it? and how should i do it? I was thinking of saying something along the lines of wanting to keep in touch over the summer.

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