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Old 09-25-2015, 11:06 AM   #1
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Starting to beat my nephew for stealing food.

My nephew has been raiding the freezer or eating stuff he shouldn't touch outside the usual eating schedule.

He's 9 years old and almost 132 pounds or 60 kilos.

His separated parents won't bother with him and his dad buys so much snack occasionally to the point and does not care to discipline the little rascal. We live together.

Nowadays he's eating even more and more, stealing food, and finish eating stuff not meant for him, leaving nothing for others. He doesn't care about other people needing to eat their share.

Advice has turned to deaf ears. Going soft on him doesn't work. Psychology doesn't even work, he is showing signs of possible sociopathy for a kid, because he lies, break promises and even when caught with evidence, continues to lie.

I am very afraid that I may be living with a sociopathic nephew but yet I don't want to let him end up with medical health issues prematurely.

Going soft doesn't work, so I had no choice, I had to beat/spank the shit out of him everytime he steals food.

I've given him ultimatum before to never cross a certain weight threshold but it never works if I only stick to verbal threats, he consistently crossed that weight threshold and getting fatter and fatter for a 9 year old, reaching the weight of a full grown adult far too soon.

Since his parents doesn't give a shit about his behaviour and weight gain, and as an uncle I am probably the only one left to discipline him, but so far all nice talk has failed, he just took advantage of me like any sociopaths would if you don't take action.


I am going the only way I have, physical violence.

I am not talking about that harmless pat on butt. I am talking about really hard smacks short of injuring any internal organs.

If I don't beat the crap out of him, he's going to die anyway from obesity before he even hit puberty.

What would you do if you're me ?
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Old 09-25-2015, 11:08 AM   #2
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Old 09-25-2015, 11:09 AM   #3
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I would see a professional in case he has an eating disorder. Even if he doesn't, physical punishment won't stop him from eating if he wants it.
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Old 09-25-2015, 11:09 AM   #4
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I'd consider if I was suitable to be disciplining children if my idea was to assault them.
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Old 09-25-2015, 11:11 AM   #5
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I would never hit my own, nor other people's kids. If you can't handle a 9 year old, you are a lousy parent/uncle.
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Old 09-25-2015, 11:12 AM   #6
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I'd consider if I was suitable to be disciplining children if my idea was to assault them.


Sorry we don't do things the American/British way. It doesn't always work. I've already tried.
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Old 09-25-2015, 11:13 AM   #7
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Old 09-25-2015, 11:13 AM   #8
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He's probably just depressed from having a shitty uncle.
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Old 09-25-2015, 11:14 AM   #9
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It is child abuse. Don't do it or I will make sure the UG staff will IP track you and call the police on your child molesting ass.
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Old 09-25-2015, 11:14 AM   #10
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Old 09-25-2015, 11:16 AM   #11
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It is child abuse. Don't do it or I will make sure the UG staff will IP track you and call the police on your child molesting ass.

I was thinking the same.


OP have you even taken him to the doctor or anything?
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Old 09-25-2015, 11:17 AM   #12
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violence in any kind of way is never a solution and it only shows your own incompetence in dealing with the situation

the fact that you even think you are doing a good thing by smacking a kid shows that he is not the only one who has a problem
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Old 09-25-2015, 11:20 AM   #13
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I beat him to save his life. Better that than him ending up in hospital prematurely.

No one else would give a damn about his weight issues, not his dad, not his mom.


Positive reinforcement has failed but negative reinforcement is starting to show progress.

I would not hesitate to use whatever means necessary to save his life/future even if he resents me, I don't care. Better that than him being dead, no ?
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Old 09-25-2015, 11:21 AM   #14
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Sfx, sincerely, no and please don't ever get kids for yourself.
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Old 09-25-2015, 11:21 AM   #15
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If you have to resort to beating kids, you've probably failed as a parental figure.

I'm not saying you have already, but that's something I've seen in practice and it's never a positive thing for either side.

If I were you, I'd force his parents into the situation in any way possible, make them realise this is their frickin' child and shouldn't be your burden, or at least, entire burden. It sounds to me like his eating is a response to parental separation and lack of co-habitation, so this is directly their problem, if not, their fault.

Failing that, diagnose a problem before assuming. Take him to see a psychiatrist or pediatrician, get their view. Then again, I'd say that because NHS, so it'd be complicating the situation even more.

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If I don't beat the crap out of him, he's going to die anyway from obesity before he even hit puberty.


Jfc, this is terrible reasoning.
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Old 09-25-2015, 11:24 AM   #16
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I beat him to save his life. Better that than him ending up in hospital prematurely.

No one else would give a damn about his weight issues, not his dad, not his mom.


Positive reinforcement has failed but negative reinforcement is starting to show progress.

I would not hesitate to use whatever means necessary to save his life/future even if he resents me, I don't care. Better that than him being dead, no ?


Negative reinforcement may improve his physical health but you will definitely fuck his mental health up if you continue to do this.
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Old 09-25-2015, 11:24 AM   #17
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Kid's gone too far, beating him has probably caused more problems for you than if you had used positive reinforcement, but at this point I seriously think a medical professional is a very, very good idea.
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Old 09-25-2015, 11:25 AM   #18
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Negative reinforcement may improve his physical health but you will definitely fuck his mental health up if you continue to do this.

kid's gonna hate all authority figures if you keep it up then he'll end up dead in a fucking gang or some shit idk
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Old 09-25-2015, 11:27 AM   #20
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why are you living with this kid...? and what's with you people having shitty nephews?

look man if his parents dont give a shit, then it's time to get child services involved because their negligence is actually super harmful and what's happening now will have far reaching long term effects on his mental well-being. if they are unfit to parent, and by all accounts it seems they are, a real wake up call like a home visit is in order.
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