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Old 05-18-2015, 07:22 PM   #1
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A woman I'm working with...is she a - ?

So I've been working in this new job for about four months now. And one of my colleagues is a woman in her early forties. She's married and has been for about fifteen years, and she has two kids. She's genuinely one of the nicest people I've ever met, seems to have time for everyone and is one of those rare people who is shows genuine interest in everything someone says.

The thing is though, there's this other guy who she seems pretty close to, who is also married and has kids, more or less ten years older than her. They've both been here for about five or six years so naturally they know each other very well, but they're always really touchy feely with each other. I have her on Facebook and there's pictures of the two of them together when they're out for a drink with other members of staff, hugging, kissing on the lips, her touching him on the chest or on his back, loads of stuff. I even went out with work staff the other week, and at one point he was sat a chair, and she was sat on the arm of it with her legs over his, and he was sort of clasping her two arms, as if to "hold" her.

Weirdly she does stuff like this even when her husband's there. She also says stuff like "oh, I'm in love with him", and she seems to pass this off in a jovial manner, but I'm not sure.

They always speak on Facebook and say stuff like "I love you" and "you're beautiful. And this guy's not the only person she acts like this towards. There's also other pictures of her kissing guys on the cheeks and lips, and touching them on the arm or wherever in pictures.

But then she's always talking about what she gets up to with her husband and kids, her plans for holidays, how she loves spending time with them, that kind of thing, so she's obviously a bit of a family woman, so I don't get this behaviour.

Now I know what you're thinking. This is none of my business, and why should I care? And you're right. But I've seen families very close to me destroyed by cheating after years of marriage, and . Also, as I said she's actually a really lovely person (to me anyway), and I'd hate to have my view of a genuinely nice woman tainted by something like this.

TL;DR version - Married woman at work is very flirty with other guys, especially one who she seems very "friendly" with. Is she a loose woman?

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Old 05-18-2015, 07:24 PM   #2
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Old 05-18-2015, 07:26 PM   #4
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Well Seductive Barry, to me this sounds like typical camp counselor behavior. Nothing to be bothered about tbh
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Old 05-18-2015, 07:27 PM   #5
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Old 05-18-2015, 07:28 PM   #6
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Clearly her husband gets off on being cuckolded
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Old 05-18-2015, 07:29 PM   #7
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This. Or she is a loose woman and her husband is a pansy little beta.
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Old 05-18-2015, 07:41 PM   #8
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But I've seen families very close to me destroyed by cheating after years of marriage


i've seen some things
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Old 05-18-2015, 07:42 PM   #9
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They have an open relationship and you should tickle her pickle, Seductive Barry.
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Old 05-18-2015, 07:45 PM   #10
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They have an open relationship and you should tickle her pickle, Seductive Barry.


6/10. Not bad looking for her age, but meh.
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Old 05-18-2015, 07:48 PM   #11
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Old 05-18-2015, 07:50 PM   #12
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Did you talk to the husband?
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Old 05-18-2015, 07:52 PM   #14
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tbh you should've just closed the thread after this one
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Old 05-18-2015, 07:55 PM   #15
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oh god do not do this

just sit back and don't get involved dude :nono:
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Old 05-18-2015, 08:00 PM   #17
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just sit back and don't get involved dude :nono:


I don't plan to.

The thing is, he seems like a really nice guy, but he gives off that whole "beta" vibe, just by looking at him.
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this is what i was expecting the thread to be about and was relieved it wasnt until your dumb ass came along
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