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Old 11-14-2012, 01:54 AM   #11761
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The girls Ive been with dont like it, so like Jambi I really don't care to change their mind. If they really liked it though I would do it.
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Old 11-14-2012, 02:36 AM   #11762
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Okay I'm a new poster which makes this even more awkward, but why not start my time on Ultimate Guitar off right? I'm a girl but I really enjoy anal sex which all my female friends (admittedly not many) tell me is weird and wrong and that guys are turned off by it. Is this true? Would appreciate some male input here


I'm a girl too, I haven't done it yet but I'm going to be soon. I love the idea, so does the guy I'm with, but my female friends think it's disgusting like yours. It's really just a personal thing whether you enjoy it or not.
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Old 11-14-2012, 02:44 AM   #11763
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I'm a girl too, I haven't done it yet but I'm going to be soon. I love the idea, so does the guy I'm with, but my female friends think it's disgusting like yours. It's really just a personal thing whether you enjoy it or not.


Good for you. It's good to see someone do something they enjoy in regardless of what their friends think.
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Old 11-14-2012, 03:05 AM   #11764
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Good for you. It's good to see someone do something they enjoy in regardless of what their friends think.


Yeah. Well really, if they aren't involved in the sex, then whether they like something or not is irrelevant.
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Old 11-14-2012, 03:41 PM   #11765
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Hi, I've come here because I'm not sure where to go.

I'm 22 and never really had sex. I didn't make a lot of friends in college but even more so I was never great at pursuing girls. I had a one night stand once when I was completely wasted a little over a year ago. At first I couldn't get it up and the girl was very understanding, she hand't done it in a long time. Eventually I ended up getting hard and she went on top for a bit but I never finished, I didn't have a condom. I know how extremely stupid this was, but I was really out of it and I 21 year old virgin so I was exactly thinking straight.

Lately I've found a bit of a decreased sex drive, I don't really get hard unless I actually am stimulating myself. It's like I almost don't believe I'll ever get laid so its hard to be excited about it. I watch porn fairly often, it used to be everyday but I haven't been watching as much lately, still probably 5 times a week at least though. I also smoke pot almost everyday, and drink on the weekends (not sure if this is important but thought I would share just incase).

I don't really find porn to appealing anymore, if I stop touching myself I often will loose my erection.

Where do I go from here?

I often have issues with anxiety and nerves just socially in life, although I've gotten much better over the last couple of years. I'm probably over thinking this whole thing which doesn't help, but I just don't know what to do anymore.

Sorry for the long post and sorry if it doesn't fit in with this thread.
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Old 11-14-2012, 03:51 PM   #11766
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Thanks for the help with my question above. Great to hear that I'm not the only girl into it and that it's not a complete turn off to guys.

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Hi, I've come here because I'm not sure where to go.

I'm 22 and never really had sex. I didn't make a lot of friends in college but even more so I was never great at pursuing girls. I had a one night stand once when I was completely wasted a little over a year ago. At first I couldn't get it up and the girl was very understanding, she hand't done it in a long time. Eventually I ended up getting hard and she went on top for a bit but I never finished, I didn't have a condom. I know how extremely stupid this was, but I was really out of it and I 21 year old virgin so I was exactly thinking straight.

Lately I've found a bit of a decreased sex drive, I don't really get hard unless I actually am stimulating myself. It's like I almost don't believe I'll ever get laid so its hard to be excited about it. I watch porn fairly often, it used to be everyday but I haven't been watching as much lately, still probably 5 times a week at least though. I also smoke pot almost everyday, and drink on the weekends (not sure if this is important but thought I would share just incase).

I don't really find porn to appealing anymore, if I stop touching myself I often will loose my erection.

Where do I go from here?

I often have issues with anxiety and nerves just socially in life, although I've gotten much better over the last couple of years. I'm probably over thinking this whole thing which doesn't help, but I just don't know what to do anymore.

Sorry for the long post and sorry if it doesn't fit in with this thread.


Firstly, don't worry about fitting in because this is a part of the topic of sex and isn't entirely abnormal. I've known many guys who don't have a high sex drive (the male sex drive is greatly exxagerated in movies and books and so you have nothing to worry about in this respect). Sex is not an instantaneous thing for some. Before I met my first boyfriend I never really felt the need to have sex but, when I met my boyfriend, I realised how great sex could be. This might be a matter of needing to find someone with whom the chemistry is right.
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Old 11-14-2012, 03:57 PM   #11767
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Thanks for the help with my question above. Great to hear that I'm not the only girl into it and that it's not a complete turn off to guys.



Firstly, don't worry about fitting in because this is a part of the topic of sex and isn't entirely abnormal. I've known many guys who don't have a high sex drive (the male sex drive is greatly exxagerated in movies and books and so you have nothing to worry about in this respect). Sex is not an instantaneous thing for some. Before I met my first boyfriend I never really felt the need to have sex but, when I met my boyfriend, I realised how great sex could be. This might be a matter of needing to find someone with whom the chemistry is right.


Thanks, I'm sure your right in some regards, I've never been crazy about the idea of one night stands. It's kinda tough to have little experience being a guy at this age though. I suppose I'm also a little worried that my lack of experience might scare of a girl when I do meet her.
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Old 11-14-2012, 03:59 PM   #11768
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Thanks, I'm sure your right in some regards, I've never been crazy about the idea of one night stands. It's kinda tough to have little experience being a guy at this age though. I suppose I'm also a little worried that my lack of experience might scare of a girl when I do meet her.


It won't scare a girl at all. I'd much rather meet a guy who is nice and genuine, even if lacking in experience, then a cocky guy with lots of experience that I cannot tolerate. The fact that your not crazy about one night stands is a definite plus. It's nice to know such guys exist.
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Old 11-14-2012, 04:26 PM   #11769
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Okay I'm a new poster which makes this even more awkward, but why not start my time on Ultimate Guitar off right? I'm a girl but I really enjoy anal sex which all my female friends (admittedly not many) tell me is weird and wrong and that guys are turned off by it. Is this true? Would appreciate some male input here

A lot of guys I know complain that a lot of the girls they've met or have been with don't like anal or want to try it.

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Thanks, I'm sure your right in some regards, I've never been crazy about the idea of one night stands. It's kinda tough to have little experience being a guy at this age though. I suppose I'm also a little worried that my lack of experience might scare of a girl when I do meet her.

IMO people who boast about/have a lot of experience are more intimidating because it's perceived that they expect a lot more and make the less experienced person nervous. Putting pressure on sex is never a good thing.

I would recommend getting some weekly exercise if you don't already, (like running, cycling or a team sport,) which not only will help with stress relief and improve your overall health but also be beneficial to your sex drive.
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Old 11-14-2012, 05:08 PM   #11770
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Okay I'm a new poster which makes this even more awkward, but why not start my time on Ultimate Guitar off right? I'm a girl but I really enjoy anal sex which all my female friends (admittedly not many) tell me is weird and wrong and that guys are turned off by it. Is this true? Would appreciate some male input here


You should feel awkward because you've been on here for all of ten minutes and you're telling everyone that you like to have anal sex like a tramp. Of course guys are turned off by it. Get some self respect
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Old 11-14-2012, 05:29 PM   #11771
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I feel that simply by excersising you will get an increases sex drive. When you train, your muscle developes. This requires more testoreone which means higher sex drive. Or stop doing anything sexual for a time.

@simon, take it easy man. If she likes anal, she likes it. Okay? Should I say that you should get some self respect if you say that you like sex? No.

I think that many guys like doing anal, but of course some don't.
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Old 11-14-2012, 05:31 PM   #11772
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Exercising does increase sex drive, that is true. I am a dancer and all the working out and training for shows really does get the juices flowing, but I wouldn't suggest stopping all things sexual. Just look for the right person who you have chemistry with and let everything flow from there.
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Old 11-14-2012, 05:32 PM   #11773
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I'm a guy and I've always been put off the idea of anal sex. Like someone else said, poo comes out of it haha. I don't want a muddy sword, condom or not. Normal sex works for me just fine.
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Old 11-14-2012, 05:35 PM   #11774
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Guys, I'm going to keep this short and sweet. It's been over a year since I have had sex and its really bumming me out. Any advice for someone in my situation? Any of you guys had an experiance like this? How did you overcome it?
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Old 11-14-2012, 08:14 PM   #11775
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Old 11-17-2012, 07:19 PM   #11776
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That site is hilarious.
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Old 11-19-2012, 09:46 AM   #11777
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Bit of a weird one.

Me and my gf were having sex on Saturday and both enjoying it. I had to go to the loo, so i popped out and came back. When I got back, she tried to put me back in and she'd tightened up pretty quickly and I just couldn't get it. My dick isn't massive, probably above average. And she's a petite girl. Any reason for it just to close up (sorry at the crudeness) like that?

I need to add that she kept trying to put me back in, so I wasn't pushing her into it.
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Old 11-19-2012, 01:11 PM   #11778
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Bit of a weird one.

Me and my gf were having sex on Saturday and both enjoying it. I had to go to the loo, so i popped out and came back. When I got back, she tried to put me back in and she'd tightened up pretty quickly and I just couldn't get it. My dick isn't massive, probably above average. And she's a petite girl. Any reason for it just to close up (sorry at the crudeness) like that?

I need to add that she kept trying to put me back in, so I wasn't pushing her into it.


Women can get out of the mood physically very quickly. Did you have any lube or anything?
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Old 11-19-2012, 01:18 PM   #11779
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Hi, I've come here because I'm not sure where to go.

I'm 22 and never really had sex. I didn't make a lot of friends in college but even more so I was never great at pursuing girls. I had a one night stand once when I was completely wasted a little over a year ago. At first I couldn't get it up and the girl was very understanding, she hand't done it in a long time. Eventually I ended up getting hard and she went on top for a bit but I never finished, I didn't have a condom. I know how extremely stupid this was, but I was really out of it and I 21 year old virgin so I was exactly thinking straight.

Lately I've found a bit of a decreased sex drive, I don't really get hard unless I actually am stimulating myself. It's like I almost don't believe I'll ever get laid so its hard to be excited about it. I watch porn fairly often, it used to be everyday but I haven't been watching as much lately, still probably 5 times a week at least though. I also smoke pot almost everyday, and drink on the weekends (not sure if this is important but thought I would share just incase).

I don't really find porn to appealing anymore, if I stop touching myself I often will loose my erection.

Where do I go from here?

I often have issues with anxiety and nerves just socially in life, although I've gotten much better over the last couple of years. I'm probably over thinking this whole thing which doesn't help, but I just don't know what to do anymore.

Sorry for the long post and sorry if it doesn't fit in with this thread.


I think people tend to want more sex the more sex they have, I wouldn't worry about it. Also, a lot of people lie about how experienced they are sexually. I know plenty of 23 year old virgins, so I wouldn't worry about inexperience either. Try to meet people and enjoy yourself without pressuring yourself by thinking where it could lead
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Old 11-19-2012, 01:19 PM   #11780
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Women can get out of the mood physically very quickly. Did you have any lube or anything?


Nah. We just gave up and went to sleep.
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