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Old 02-09-2013, 11:59 PM   #14901
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If a girl says you have a nice face is she attracted to you?


It all depends. What are the ages of you and the girl in question? How well do you know her? Did she say it face to face or via internet/text? How did she say it, do you think it was in a flirty context/manner?
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Old 02-10-2013, 12:20 AM   #14902
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I'm assuming you're talking about this post.



It all depends. What are the ages of you and the girl in question? How well do you know her? Did she say it face to face or via internet/text? How did she say it, do you think it was in a flirty context/manner?



im 15 and i think she is too it was face to face and i cant tell
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Old 02-10-2013, 12:32 AM   #14903
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If a girl says you have a nice face it means she thinks you have a nice face. any more than that we can't really tell you for sure. It's definitely not a bad thing.

Does she think you're attractive? Who knows but she thinks you have a nice face so it's a start. She could think you are total douche, but appreciate a nice face. Or she might think your body needs some work but you have a nice face. Or she might be really attracted to you and trying to signal her interest in an overt way.

Whatever, it's definitely a positive compliment and you should appreciate it. If you like her - ask her out. Then you'll know for sure.
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Old 02-10-2013, 12:59 AM   #14904
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I have an incredibly weird fetish and I'm afraid that girls won't like me when we start dating and I tell her about it.
This stems from 2 girls that I told about in the past. One thought that it was absolutely weird and wouldn't do anything about it. The other thought it was weird but would partake in some of the things that it involves.
Basically, should I tell future girls about it if for the most part it will be a major turn off for them?
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Old 02-10-2013, 01:13 AM   #14905
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she also said i had a cool shirt one time
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Old 02-10-2013, 01:58 AM   #14906
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I have an incredibly weird fetish and I'm afraid that girls won't like me when we start dating and I tell her about it.
This stems from 2 girls that I told about in the past. One thought that it was absolutely weird and wouldn't do anything about it. The other thought it was weird but would partake in some of the things that it involves.
Basically, should I tell future girls about it if for the most part it will be a major turn off for them?


spill it, cmon. we need to know if they are justified in thinking youre weird
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Old 02-10-2013, 02:05 AM   #14907
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Take note, fellas. This is how it's done. My friend, congratulations, you have successfully blown a girl away. Dont think i agree with KC about not validating the reason for your introduction, though. She already thinks you're cute as **** for writing the note, if you're charming enough to pull off something like "i think it's only proper to introduce myself, im joel, blahblah" then it will just impress her more. That way she knows your not just some d-bag looking to get in her pants.

It's also advantageous that her friend was there--takes some balls to do that, and her friend is probably super jelly. In fact, i think having the friend there as a buffer (highly doubt she'll c0ck block you, if anything she sounds likely to wingman the girl yolu gave the note to) is perfect because it takes a whole lot of pressure off you to impress the girl, as now you're clearly established as the "alpha male" and you can just relax and talk to them. Keep your attention more on the girl you like, maybe a 60/40 split between them, and once you have some commonalities between you, ask her out for lunch/coffee/who gives a shit what you do. Well done, my boy.



Thank you so much Sir! Even though I feel like you are giving me much more credit than I am worthy of .

I am really looking forward to Monday to see how it all turns out; I'm thinking if I go take a seat with them (I've noticed they sit in the same area each day) I can try and start a conversation. Should I use self deprecating remarks (Hey, surprise its that creepy awkward guy who gave you that note the other day!) or should I just James Bond it and be like "How are you guys? ". Of course I feel that I could be exuberant and say something like "Hey! So whats up?".

Also, I feel like I don't want to linger i.e I have the goal in mind to ask her how she is, and to actually find out her name, and then just be like "ok cool nice talking to you ______! I'll talk to you tomorrow!" instead of "so... what do you guys do for fun?" in order to keep up the mystique a bit. Am I on the right track here?
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Old 02-10-2013, 02:39 AM   #14908
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im 15 and i think she is too it was face to face and i cant tell


Dude, i think your username makes that pretty clear.
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Old 02-10-2013, 02:45 AM   #14909
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Dude, i think your username makes that pretty clear.



I guess it kinda does
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Old 02-10-2013, 03:33 AM   #14910
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. If you like her - ask her out. Then you'll know for sure.



Ok I don't know if i like her because I have never really talked to her, but she was cute or whatever, but the thing is that I'm not good at going up to people and talking to them
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Old 02-10-2013, 05:11 AM   #14911
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Ok I don't know if i like her because I have never really talked to her, but she was cute or whatever, but the thing is that I'm not good at going up to people and talking to them


Maybe you should talk to her casually before deciding that you like her
Also, you're putting unnecessary pressure on yourself now.
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Old 02-10-2013, 11:00 AM   #14912
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Well mates, here's my problem..

I've been with my girl for 16 months, we live together. She is my first girlfriend but it just felt right. Tomorrow is my birthday. The root of the problem here is that my family made a last minute plan that we were going to my mum's for dinner and what have you. They are not the best at planning and I didn't even know this was going on today. My girlfriend, on the other hand, happens to work today and needless to say, she is irritated that my family did not plan this. I told her I might as well go since they wanted to do gifts and dinner and all, but she and I usually do everything together. She hasn't had the best vibes from my family (her family treats me like I'm part of their family). The problem is she keeps implying that I am excluding her because she can't make it for my birthday dinner because of work (not true, I really want her to go). She contacted my mum and told her she couldn't make it, and my mum responded saying they couldn't do it any later because she was tired or something.

This being the day before my birthday, around 2am she wakes me up and reminds me how she is still irritated about it. I had to work in a couple hours and she didn't respect that. I didn't want to argue but it looked like she insisted and wouldn't give up. Out of frustration, I started to cry, because I thought of all days, she would try to avoid arguing and would instead try to make me feel good or special or whatever it is ideal girlfriends do for their men. She told me if I ignore her while I'm at work today she will be even more mad at me (she's the type that does not text first, at least not anymore. We used to both send each other lovely good morning texts and all but now it seems like I'm the only one that does anymore).

Or lease expires in two months. Wtf do I do? I love her and I want to make this work, but if I brought up breaking up she would break down, cry, apologize, or whatever. Is this worth fixing or is my girlfriend just high maintenance and I've been blinded for the past 16 months?

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Old 02-10-2013, 11:44 AM   #14913
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im 15 and i think she is too it was face to face and i cant tell


Oh gosh, 15? At that age, girls are by far the hardest to read, because they act in a random behavior usually. Either go for it or don't, I don't think anyone here will be able to give you a best answer.

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Well mates, here's my problem..

I've been with my girl for 16 months, we live together. She is my first girlfriend but it just felt right. Tomorrow is my birthday. The root of the problem here is that my family made a last minute plan that we were going to my mum's for dinner and what have you. They are not the best at planning and I didn't even know this was going on today. My girlfriend, on the other hand, happens to work today and needless to say, she is irritated that my family did not plan this. I told her I might as well go since they wanted to do gifts and dinner and all, but she and I usually do everything together. She hasn't had the best vibes from my family (her family treats me like I'm part of their family). The problem is she keeps implying that I am excluding her because she can't make it for my birthday dinner because of work (not true, I really want her to go). She contacted my mum and told her she couldn't make it, and my mum responded saying they couldn't do it any later because she was tired or something.

This being the day before my birthday, around 2am she wakes me up and reminds me how she is still irritated about it. I had to work in a couple hours and she didn't respect that. I didn't want to argue but it looked like she insisted and wouldn't give up. Out of frustration, I started to cry, because I thought of all days, she would try to avoid arguing and would instead try to make me feel good or special or whatever it is ideal girlfriends do for their men. She told me if I ignore her while I'm at work today she will be even more mad at me (she's the type that does not text first, at least not anymore. We used to both send each other lovely good morning texts and all but now it seems like I'm the only one that does anymore).

Or lease expires in two months. Wtf do I do? I love her and I want to make this work, but if I brought up breaking up she would break down, cry, apologize, or whatever. Is this worth fixing or is my girlfriend just high maintenance and I've been blinded for the past 16 months?


First off, your family is being very unreasonable. I would first talk to whomever is the root of not treating her well. I wouldn't be surprised if your family is making her edgy as of recent.

Also, if I were you (I may just be this kind of person), I wouldn't go to dinner that night, because it sounds as if they were purposely trying to make sure she couldn't come.

If you really think she is actually high maintenance (this situation excluded), then maybe you should reconsider re-signing the lease. Either way, I would talk to her about this-- the sooner the better for obvious reasons. Let her know what's on your mind, and what she can do to help the relationship.

Feel free to tell her this part: "We used to both send each other lovely good morning texts and all but now it seems like I'm the only one that does anymore"
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Old 02-10-2013, 12:22 PM   #14914
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Thanks Freezer. I just wasn't sure who was more in the right. My girlfriend likes to talk and some might call her annoying, but I don't mind it. She completes that aspect of me because I am usually the one of few words
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Old 02-10-2013, 12:46 PM   #14915
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Maybe you should talk to her casually before deciding that you like her
Also, you're putting unnecessary pressure on yourself now.



How am i putting pressure on myself?
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Old 02-10-2013, 03:04 PM   #14916
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Thanks Freezer. I just wasn't sure who was more in the right. My girlfriend likes to talk and some might call her annoying, but I don't mind it. She completes that aspect of me because I am usually the one of few words


Anytime man, I know how it is to be on both sides of your situation.

And yes, this is a perfect example of when opposites should attract. So what are you planning on doing?
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Old 02-10-2013, 03:17 PM   #14917
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How am i putting pressure on myself?


Because it looks to me like you're overthinking this. Yes, she said you have a nice face and cool shirt, but that doesn't necessarily mean anything. Also, if you don't really know her, how can you judge whether you like her or not
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Old 02-10-2013, 03:55 PM   #14918
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If a girl randomly says you have a nice face and doesn't mean a damn thing by it, that's a weird ****ing girl.
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Old 02-10-2013, 04:58 PM   #14919
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Well turns out new girl I liked is a rape victim...

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Well turns out new girl I liked is a rape victim...

That was one way to kill a Saturday night.


how did you rape her?
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