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Old 09-24-2012, 10:02 PM   #41
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I read as far as "Sex - fail" and that was that.
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Old 09-24-2012, 10:06 PM   #42
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What about women that date guys just to have sex? What if both parties just mutually want to indulge in lust and nothing more? Instead they have to suppress those feelings for some arbitrary quest for love?

You're looking too deep into it... The point I was trying to make is guys (or girls) that date other people just to have sex with them, given that they wouldn't have sex with them otherwise, are morally reprehensible scum.

Its almost like rape, except they have to gain their trust first, **** them, then leave, leaving the other party heartbroken. It happens.
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Old 09-24-2012, 10:07 PM   #43
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I was in the pit and saw a thread titled "Sex". Directly underneath it said "fail". I had to laugh.
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Old 09-24-2012, 10:09 PM   #44
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Ah, but how do you know the person you're doing it with isn't betraying a partner?

But, I don't see anything wrong with promiscuity, but I definitely wouldn't have high regards for someone who was known for being promiscuous.
Don't know why. I guess, even though sex isn't really that sacred, they're devaluing the emotional side of it by participating in it with many partners.

It's like eating sweets; they're really nice every once in a while, but if you keep eating it, you'll get diabetes.
Or something like that...
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Old 09-24-2012, 10:10 PM   #45
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You're looking too deep into it... The point I was trying to make is guys (or girls) that date other people just to have sex with them, given that they wouldn't have sex with them otherwise, are morally reprehensible scum.

Its almost like rape, except they have to gain their trust first, **** them, then leave, leaving the other party heartbroken. It happens.

So you're talking about players and the like, not mutual "Let's fuck."
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Old 09-24-2012, 10:11 PM   #46
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Ah, but how do you know the person you're doing it with isn't betraying a partner?

But, I don't see anything wrong with promiscuity, but I definitely wouldn't have high regards for someone who was known for being promiscuous.
Don't know why. I guess, even though sex isn't really that sacred, they're devaluing the emotional side of it by participating in it with many partners.



That implies that one is emotionally stunted enough to not be able to have emotional relationships with multiple people.
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Old 09-24-2012, 10:13 PM   #47
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it's only a question of morality insofar as people (more so girls) who will **** a ton of total strangers probably have issues. most likely related to sexual abuse or abandonment. you don't want to help exploit that, you want to get them help.
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Old 09-24-2012, 10:14 PM   #48
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So you're talking about players and the like, not mutual "Let's fuck."

Yes.
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Old 09-24-2012, 10:15 PM   #49
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it's only a question of morality insofar as people (more so girls) who will **** a ton of total strangers probably have issues. most likely related to sexual abuse or abandonment. you don't want to help exploit that, you want to get them help.


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it's only a question of morality insofar as people (more so girls) who will **** a ton of total strangers probably have issues. most likely related to sexual abuse or abandonment. you don't want to help exploit that, you want to get them help.


I know the OP mentioned that, but it's hardly implicit or explicit in the act of sex with multiple partners.

Are you saying that it's only wrong when it's with strangers? Or that it's still wrong if its with people you know?
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Old 09-24-2012, 10:19 PM   #51
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I know the OP mentioned that, but it's hardly implicit or explicit in the act of sex with multiple partners.

Are you saying that it's only wrong when it's with strangers? Or that it's still wrong if its with people you know?


i just mentioned strangers because that's the most obviously bizarre one. i knew a girl who blew her friend's older brother and two of his friends in the same car. she went on to just have group sex with guys at school she knew. and when word got around she started getting gang banged by dudes from the public schools.

obviously she knew a lot them, but that didn't make it any healthier.
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Old 09-24-2012, 10:21 PM   #52
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Or maybe your view of promiscuity isn't the right one. Ever consider that? No, you probably haven't. I doubt you even have casual sex all the time.


Not only have I considered it, I would be delighted to have my viewpoints torn a new one.
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Old 09-24-2012, 10:22 PM   #54
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I get the 'too much of a good thing is a bad thing' view, but 'casual sex' doesn't equate to sex addiction (I guess it's how you choose to define promiscuity). There are lots of responsible people out there who don't overdo everything and use safe-sex practices, don't make 'em dirty, immoral people.

Don't overdo everything? This is just moving the goalposts.
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Old 09-24-2012, 10:24 PM   #55
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I don't like it cause I don't get some. There I said it. If she'll get naked for only certain people and never see them again why not me? Promiscuous women should be more open minded and screw the chumps too. In fact they should just walk around naked. Open minded!

Also gonorrhea. Even with a condom, really guys? http://healthland.time.com/2012/06/...wide-who-warns/
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Old 09-24-2012, 10:25 PM   #56
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Old 09-24-2012, 10:25 PM   #57
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It's a very easy way to pick up a slew of diseases, and for that reason, can be seen as unclean.

This. I don't see it as immoral, I just tend to find these people reckless. Not immoral or bad though.
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Old 09-24-2012, 10:26 PM   #58
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That implies that one is emotionally stunted enough to not be able to have emotional relationships with multiple people.

True, it is possible to love more than one person at once.
And even then, if there's mutual consent and no wrong-doing on any parties side, then it's all good.

However, what you're talking about implies polygamy, which isn't casual sex.
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Old 09-24-2012, 10:27 PM   #59
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you already said it yourself, it exposes people to disease

That's what you said not me. If a girl goes around having responsible sex with a lot of partners how is that disrespectful to herself?

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I wouldn't go as far as to say promiscuity is actually disrespectful to oneself, but it certainly isn't all fine and dandy, especially thanks to STIs and the amount of people that neglect to get themselves checked.

You can get an STD from having unsafe sex in a monogamous relationship. Sound like your problem is with unsafe sex, not promiscuity

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Ah, but how do you know the person you're doing it with isn't betraying a partner?

But, I don't see anything wrong with promiscuity, but I definitely wouldn't have high regards for someone who was known for being promiscuous.
Don't know why. I guess, even though sex isn't really that sacred, they're devaluing the emotional side of it by participating in it with many partners.

It's like eating sweets; they're really nice every once in a while, but if you keep eating it, you'll get diabetes.
Or something like that...

See: law of diminishing marginal utility.
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