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Old 09-26-2012, 04:08 PM   #1
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So, this girl from work likes me. Shes pretty cool, we have some similar interests, but iv already got a gf. She just gave me her number and i dont know what to do really. I know not to get into this because the longer i go with it the higher hance i have of making a mistake. I think her number is too far. What do? If youre going to suggest threesome suggest how i bring it up.
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Old 09-26-2012, 04:08 PM   #2
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The fact that you're thinking about it says things about your relationship.

Also, relationship thread.

Edit: Alright, real advice. Don't go for the threesome idea. There's about a 90% chance she would not be okay with that and would take offense. Don't shit where you eat (aka, don't make things awkward with your co-workers).

What you do at this point is if you feel like she can accept just being friends, then text her if you want to. Otherwise, keep it strictly a co-worker relationship.
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Old 09-26-2012, 04:09 PM   #3
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Old 09-26-2012, 04:13 PM   #4
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Make her stick her head up your ass, and them make her pull it off real quick and shit onto her head. She'll end up with a poop hat
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Old 09-26-2012, 04:14 PM   #5
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You have a girl, man. Just tell this chick from work that you already are dating someone. It's not hard.
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Old 09-26-2012, 04:14 PM   #6
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Make her stick her head up your ass, and them make her pull it off real quick and shit onto her head. She'll end up with a poop hat


I don't know what I just read but it just feels right, man.
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Old 09-26-2012, 04:15 PM   #7
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You have a girl, man. Just tell this chick from work that you already are dating someone. It's not hard.


Thinking about it more, I know how he feels. Even if you have a girlfriend, sometimes it can be thought provoking when another girl is interested in you.

I'm betting he knows what is right and what he's going to do in his mind, he's just seeking approval before he makes a decision.
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Old 09-26-2012, 04:17 PM   #8
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You have a girl, man. Just tell this chick from work that you already are dating someone. It's not hard.

She knows, but to avoid awkward work situations, il probably just go with it. I dont want this girl, unless threesome of course, but iv never had to turn someone down, i feel bad. Plus shes plder than me. Theres nothing wrong with talking to her. I just dont want her to get the wrong feeling.
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She knows, but to avoid awkward work situations, il probably just go with it. I dont want this girl, unless threesome of course, but iv never had to turn someone down, i feel bad. Plus shes plder than me. Theres nothing wrong with talking to her. I just dont want her to get the wrong feeling.


...The way to avoid awkward situations here would probably not be to go with it.
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Old 09-26-2012, 04:18 PM   #10
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She knows, but to avoid awkward work situations, il probably just go with it. I dont want this girl, unless threesome of course, but iv never had to turn someone down, i feel bad. Plus shes plder than me. Theres nothing wrong with talking to her. I just dont want her to get the wrong feeling.

As long as she knows you're just friends. Also, have you told your girl about this? I would, to avoid any awkward conversations later.
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Old 09-26-2012, 04:22 PM   #11
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...The way to avoid awkward situations here would probably not be to go with it.

I thought talking to her on facebook was fine, nothing wrong with talking to people, but then she gave me her number and i dont wana text her. This is why i stay antisocial.
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Old 09-26-2012, 04:24 PM   #12
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I thought talking to her on facebook was fine, nothing wrong with talking to people, but then she gave me her number and i dont wana text her. This is why i stay antisocial.

Then don't text her...
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Old 09-26-2012, 04:26 PM   #13
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Just go down the friendship path and all will be fine.
Or if you really think she is into you, casually talk about a funny moment you had with your girlfriend and she'll get the message.
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Old 09-26-2012, 04:28 PM   #15
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The mere existence of this thread tells me you kinda wanna ditch your girl to go with the other one. And only you can decide whether or not to do that.
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Sounds like a plan. Shes got a boyfriend though, she shouldnt have given me her number so quickly. That put me in an awkward spot.
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Old 09-26-2012, 04:29 PM   #17
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Sounds like a plan. Shes got a boyfriend though, she shouldnt have given me her number so quickly. That put me in an awkward spot.

So you both have partners and she gave you her number? Sounds like a slut
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Sounds like a plan. Shes got a boyfriend though, she shouldnt have given me her number so quickly. That put me in an awkward spot.

Either you're fine and she's just being a friend or she wants a threesome.
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Old 09-26-2012, 04:30 PM   #19
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The mere existence of this thread tells me you kinda wanna ditch your girl to go with the other one. And only you can decide whether or not to do that.

No its how to avoid an awkward work place by completely ignoring her giving me her number. Iv never been the one to regect a girl. I thought i coukd get an extra word in on it.
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Just because she gave you her number doesn't mean she wants to sleep with you or have a threesome.
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