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Old 10-10-2012, 03:31 PM   #81
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Well, if she keeps breaking the rules or being rude, then put her in timeout.

For example, if you tell a kid, "I have to do homework. I cannot play with you. Go play on your own." But she keeps bothering you (which is rude), then put her in a chair and say, "Don't move from this chair for 10minutes. If you complain about it, I'm going to add more time." Then, when she complains (which she will for a bit), then add more time. It's all about consistency with kids.




couldn't find english. but you get the picture if you've seen the episode.
you watch too much supernanny.
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Old 10-10-2012, 03:33 PM   #82
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couldn't find english. but you get the picture if you've seen the episode.
you watch too much supernanny.

I've never watched Supernanny. However, my gf's niece lives at her house. They put her in timeout all the time. Guess what? It works.

Furthermore, my parents, grandparents, and many family friends have told me that disciplining your children is the only real way to NOT have spoiled kids. You tend to ask these things, when you find a girl you love and want to marry her and have kids.
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Old 10-10-2012, 04:58 PM   #83
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I've never watched Supernanny. However, my gf's niece lives at her house. They put her in timeout all the time. Guess what? It works.

Furthermore, my parents, grandparents, and many family friends have told me that disciplining your children is the only real way to NOT have spoiled kids. You tend to ask these things, when you find a girl you love and want to marry her and have kids.


A time-out... seriously? what's keeping her on the seat? especially since TS' little brat is already spoiled, saying shit like "here, sit on this chair for 10 minutes" is NEVER going to work.

I'd give her back what she gave me? she's rude? I'll be rude. She hits me? I'll slap the bitch as "hard" as she hit me. kid or not.
I don't believe in a soft "talking"approach when a good old spanking works just as good.
I won't strike first ofcourse. but I'll give her back her own behavior, and then ask her how she felt about me doing that. after she says what she felt (probably that she didn't like that) I'd tell her I didn't like her doing that shit to me etiher, so I returned the favor so she could experience how I felt about it.
Do that enough times for it to sink in, and it's all good in the end.
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Old 10-10-2012, 04:59 PM   #84
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A time-out... seriously? what's keeping her on the seat? especially since TS' little brat is already spoiled, saying shit like "here, sit on this chair for 10 minutes" is NEVER going to work.

I'd give her back what she gave me? she's rude? I'll be rude. She hits me? I'll slap the bitch as "hard" as she hit me. kid or not.
I don't believe in a soft "talking"approach when a good old spanking works just as good.
I won't strike first ofcourse. but I'll give her back her own behavior, and then ask her how she felt about me doing that. after she says what she felt (probably that she didn't like that) I'd tell her I didn't like her doing that shit to me etiher, so I returned the favor so she could experience how I felt about it.
Do that enough times for it to sink in, and it's all good in the end.

That's a bit sadistic brah.
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Old 10-10-2012, 05:00 PM   #85
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A time-out... seriously? what's keeping her on the seat? especially since TS' little brat is already spoiled, saying shit like "here, sit on this chair for 10 minutes" is NEVER going to work.

I'd give her back what she gave me? she's rude? I'll be rude. She hits me? I'll slap the bitch as "hard" as she hit me. kid or not.
I don't believe in a soft "talking"approach when a good old spanking works just as good.
I won't strike first ofcourse. but I'll give her back her own behavior, and then ask her how she felt about me doing that. after she says what she felt (probably that she didn't like that) I'd tell her I didn't like her doing that shit to me etiher, so I returned the favor so she could experience how I felt about it.
Do that enough times for it to sink in, and it's all good in the end.



Abusing children through violence does not work.


A chair is not a good place for a time out though, too casual. I would put them in a hallway or on a step on the stairs. Nothing is keeping them there but obligation. Every time they move, you put them back and restart the timer. So it'll take longer than the time you were meant to give them, but they will get fed up before you do and just serve out the punishment. Then next time or the time after that they'll remember how painful and drawn out moving away from time out is and they'll just do it first time around.
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Old 10-10-2012, 05:07 PM   #86
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Abusing children through violence does not work.


A chair is not a good place for a time out though, too casual. I would put them in a hallway or on a step on the stairs. Nothing is keeping them there but obligation. Every time they move, you put them back and restart the timer. So it'll take longer than the time you were meant to give them, but they will get fed up before you do and just serve out the punishment. Then next time or the time after that they'll remember how painful and drawn out moving away from time out is and they'll just do it first time around.


How is it "abusing" if you give them back exactly what they gave you?

Edit: also TS is not her guardian/parent so you don't really have the power to give her a time-out. Simply because you're a family member and older.
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How is it "abusing" if you give them back exactly what they gave you?



Because they are a child and you are an adult. You can't pick on someone who is physically and mentally weaker than you when they don't have the theory of mind to understand the consequence of their actions.
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A time-out... seriously? what's keeping her on the seat? especially since TS' little brat is already spoiled, saying shit like "here, sit on this chair for 10 minutes" is NEVER going to work.

I'd give her back what she gave me? she's rude? I'll be rude. She hits me? I'll slap the bitch as "hard" as she hit me. kid or not.
I don't believe in a soft "talking"approach when a good old spanking works just as good.
I won't strike first ofcourse. but I'll give her back her own behavior, and then ask her how she felt about me doing that. after she says what she felt (probably that she didn't like that) I'd tell her I didn't like her doing that shit to me etiher, so I returned the favor so she could experience how I felt about it.
Do that enough times for it to sink in, and it's all good in the end.

Actually it works extremely well. I don't think you've ever watched a child before.

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Actually it works extremely well. I don't think you've ever watched a child before.


actually I've seen lots of kids where a time out just didnt do shit.

I for one will never be walked all over by a child.
I'd raise my kids the way my parents raised me. I turned out to be a respectful young man, so my parents must have done something right, and they never used time outs on me.
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Old 10-10-2012, 06:48 PM   #91
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I for one will never be walked all over by a child.


Sounds mature.

Reminds me of the episode in Seinfeld when Kramer refuse to apologise to a monkey after they've had a "fight" with the argument 'he started it'.
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Old 10-10-2012, 06:50 PM   #92
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actually I've seen lots of kids where a time out just didnt do shit.

That's nice. Your personal experiences don't mean it never works.

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I'd raise my kids the way my parents raised me. I turned out to be a respectful young man, so my parents must have done something right, and they never used time outs on me.

Bully for you! I'm sure they punished you somehow at times though. At the least, they taught you to be respectful, huh?
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Abusing children through violence does not work.



Physical discipline worked for my brother and I

I don't agree with child abuse, but sometimes (like 1 time in particular in my case) physical discipline is required to set the boundaries. This is something however I won't be subjecting my future child to
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That's nice. Your personal experiences don't mean it never works.


Bully for you! I'm sure they punished you somehow at times though. At the least, they taught you to be respectful, huh?


They punished me by using "violence". it never hurt, but it got the messege across.
They never took things away or use "time-outs"
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I don't agree with child abuse, but sometimes (like 1 time in particular in my case) physical discipline is required to set the boundaries. This is something however I won't be subjecting my future child to

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The rude comments are the kinds of things you'd expect from a toddler who still lacks social cues. Like pointing out a pregnant woman in public and saying "LOOK AT THAT FAT LADY LOL". (Yes, she did that) To me she'll just say my clothes are ugly or something like that. That I can let slide, but the bossiness makes me want to chuck her down the stairs. She orders me to do things with her, mostly. She argued with me for about 20 minutes about playing video games when I couldn't. I said maybe in 15 minutes, and she kept trying to bargain with me for a shorter wait time. So I said I wouldn't play with her at all and she still wouldn't shut the hell up. She doesn't take no for an answer.


Oh well then in that case just fist her.



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A chair is not a good place for a time out though, too casual. I would put them in a hallway or on a step on the stairs. Nothing is keeping them there but obligation. Every time they move, you put them back and restart the timer. So it'll take longer than the time you were meant to give them, but they will get fed up before you do and just serve out the punishment. Then next time or the time after that they'll remember how painful and drawn out moving away from time out is and they'll just do it first time around.


Until they start kicking, screaming, balling theirs eyes out, throwing shit (not in the literal sense) and walk away from their time out zone. Then what?

I've been friends with a kid who had a problematic sister, she never responded to this kind of treatment.

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