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Old 01-08-2013, 04:49 AM   #1
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Unhappy My friend won't talk to me.

I hope the pit is a good place for this.

I really don't know what to do. It's been nearly a year and one of my best friends wont talk to me. He won't respond to any messages or phone calls and I have no idea why. I don't know if he's upset with me or what. There's really no reason that i can think of for him to be upset. Also, there's something I feel I need to bring up to him that he probably doesn't even know about and then apologize about it. Maybe that's weird but I really don't care, it will make my thoughts more peaceful.

Any suggestions on what I should do?
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Old 01-08-2013, 04:52 AM   #2
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it's been a year since you've had contact? maybe they died?
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Old 01-08-2013, 04:53 AM   #3
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Talk to him?
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Old 01-08-2013, 04:55 AM   #4
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He posts stuff on Facebook, so I'm sure he's not dead.

I've thought about just showing up at his house, but he lives like 30 miles away and I don't have a way to get there.
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Old 01-08-2013, 04:57 AM   #5
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He posts stuff on Facebook, so I'm sure he's not dead.

I've thought about just showing up at his house, but he lives like 30 miles away and I don't have a way to get there.

have you tried messenging on facebook? maybe he just doesn't like you?
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Old 01-08-2013, 04:57 AM   #6
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Stop blaming it on the dog bro, his entire family knows it was you who pooped on the carpet.
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Old 01-08-2013, 04:59 AM   #7
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He's stopped talking to you for a year. He doesn't want to be your friend and he's being a dick about it. Forget about him.
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Old 01-08-2013, 05:00 AM   #8
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Stop blaming it on the dog bro, his entire family knows it was you who pooped on the carpet.


uh....yeah....

anyway, good news everyone! he just responded after almost year....see ya!






i feel really dumb now.
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Old 01-08-2013, 05:01 AM   #9
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If it's been an entire year, he may have moved on to other people. I've had similar situations in which friends and I were out of touch for a while, then when I tried to contact them, they didn't respond. People grow apart. It's just how people are. If he continues to ignore you, I would move on. Just make sure you leave the bridge intact.

Edit: Never mind, then. Maybe remember this for any future situations?
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Old 01-08-2013, 05:03 AM   #10
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If it's been an entire year, he may have moved on to other people. I've had similar situations in which friends and I were out of touch for a while, then when I tried to contact them, they didn't respond. People grow apart. It's just how people are. If he continues to ignore you, I would move on. Just make sure you leave the bridge intact.

Edit: Never mind, then. Maybe remember this for any future situations?


yeah lol definitely remember this. Also, I know about people moving on and stuff....i just really wanted to apologize about stealing his iPod a few years back lol.
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Old 01-08-2013, 05:11 AM   #11
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yeah lol definitely remember this. Also, I know about people moving on and stuff....i just really wanted to apologize about stealing his iPod a few years back lol.


lol wow no wonder he doesn't like you.
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Old 01-08-2013, 05:16 AM   #12
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yeah lol definitely remember this. Also, I know about people moving on and stuff....i just really wanted to apologize about stealing his iPod a few years back lol.

what the **** is wrong with you
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what the **** is wrong with you



so much.....so so so much.....
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Old 01-08-2013, 05:18 AM   #14
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yeah lol definitely remember this. Also, I know about people moving on and stuff....i just really wanted to apologize about stealing his iPod a few years back lol.


I think we may have found the reason for it.
Even has the lol after it
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Old 01-08-2013, 05:20 AM   #15
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he didnt know about it before....he said its all cool though.
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Old 01-08-2013, 05:20 AM   #16
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Talk to him, say that you want to meet him in a bar, get him drunk, go to a nice motel, get laid and get him pregnant.
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Old 01-08-2013, 05:32 AM   #18
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yeah lol definitely remember this. Also, I know about people moving on and stuff....i just really wanted to apologize about stealing his iPod a few years back lol.


Bit of a cunt ain't ya?

I wouldn't speak to you either
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Old 01-08-2013, 06:10 AM   #19
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Oblivoath666, your age is showing.
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