guy_tebache

Hey Pit

So I just went to the movies with a couple of friends, one of whom is a girl I'm vaguely interested in dating. The only reason I havent asked her out yet is because I'm waiting to find out from a friend if he is already after her. He's not a close friend, but he's just come out of a messy divorce and I dont want to get in his way if its something he needs.

What are your thoughts? Hit on her anyway, or be the gentleman?

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chookiecookie

Stealing a girl is a gigantic dick move.

Only do it if you're one of the lowest life forms to ever exist. Bros before hoes.

no offence

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T00DEEPBLUE

Hit on her. Friends are for chumps.

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magnus_maximus

Tricky one.

She's an adult, as is he, this ain't high school.

I assume.

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theogonia777

This is not really something you should ask the internet because we don't really know you or your friend and therefore we can't really give good advice for your particular situation. Actually, even if we knew you in real life relationship advice is still kind of pointless because every situation is different.

That being said, the only advice I can give is to... I don't know... ask your friend if he is interested in that girl?

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ErikLensherr

Be a nice guy, but if he takes forever to make a move then she's fair game.

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slash_GNR666

Just hit her

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Gantz92

If you're only vaguely interested it doesn't seem like it's worth possibly upsetting the guy.

guy_tebache

Oh that I will, and I dont expect to gain any serious insight into this from the Pit. I just wanted the pit to help me mull it over really.

I suppose I'm really just trying to incite discussion on the topic.

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JohnnyGenzale

Do you like her? Does she like you? I don't even see why your friend would want a girl who's interested in his friend.

She's an adult and can take her own decisions. I assume. So meeeh.

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MadClownDisease

Obviously ultimately it's down to who she actually likes, she's not just someone you can either choose to have or leave to your friend, BUT also obviously it's best to hold off trying if you think it'll upset your friend.

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guy_tebache

**** I dont know. I'm asking her out, not asking her to marry me.
She seems pretty cool. that seems worthy of a date.

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JohnnyGenzale

If it's just a spur of the moment thing I'd advice against it if you don't wanna make it sour with your friend.

Does he like her a lot?

Is it worth it for you?

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MadClownDisease

I still think whether you like each other is pretty important if you're asking someone out...


If she doesn't like you then this whole problem is moot, and if she doesn't like your friend then really you're not treading on his toes anyway as he doesn't have a chance. If she does like you and not your friend, then respect his feelings but really you're not actually harming his chances anyway.

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Telecaster7

Done it, wasn't worth it.

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tyler_j

I was once in the situation where my friend and I both liked the same girl, but when I found out he was after, I decided to step aside, after hearing from him that he'd do the same. That way none of us would have to worry about her and we'd both be..alone.

Anyway, a month later, she tells me they've been going out for 2 months.

Don't be a gentlemen. Crush your friend's pansy face into the ground.

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SoulShredder

In the end you'll ask your self. Was it worth it? up to you.

Mr.-Bungle

Just ask her out, it'll be her choice in the end either way. Don't miss out on the (ass) love bruv

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