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Old 02-05-2013, 12:22 PM   #41
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the ****? are you saying just because a friend is interested, they have some sort of special right to the woman in question?

Not only is that vaguely sexist, but it's pretty arbitrary as well. It would only be a dick move if they are already in a relationship.


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I feel like this kind of sentiment belongs in middle school and among immature frat boys...


If a friend is interested in a female and has expressed that to you, it's kind of, you know, shitty to make an advance towards her.

I'm sure if you fell for someone, expressed it to a friend, then found out that he (or she) started fucking that person after you told them, you'd be a little upset.
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Old 02-05-2013, 12:25 PM   #42
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If a friend is interested in a female and has expressed that to you, it's kind of, you know, shitty to make an advance towards her.

I'm sure if you fell for someone, expressed it to a friend, then found out that he (or she) started fucking that person after you told them, you'd be a little upset.

Or your friend could be an adult and realize that "you snooze, you lose".
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Old 02-05-2013, 12:29 PM   #43
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Or your friend could be an adult and realize that "you snooze, you lose".


Do you think you'd react in a negative manner if I were to make an advance on someone you've clearly expressed romantic interest in?

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Old 02-05-2013, 12:31 PM   #44
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Old 02-05-2013, 12:38 PM   #45
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Do you think you'd react in a negative manner if I were to make an advance on someone you've clearly expressed romantic interest in?

Probably. But I'd also get over it. Because the adult thing to do is to realize that 1) she never was mine in the first place, if we weren't dating AND 2) that, if the girl went out with you, maybe she likes you more anyway.

It'd be one thing if TS was hitting on his buddy's girlfriend; that'd be a dick move. However, his buddy isn't dating this woman. If she accepts his invitation to go out, then maybe she actually likes TS. Or maybe she just wants to go out and have a good time. It's asking her out, not marrying her.
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Old 02-05-2013, 12:45 PM   #46
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Probably. But I'd also get over it. Because the adult thing to do is to realize that 1) she never was mine in the first place, if we weren't dating AND 2) that, if the girl went out with you, maybe she likes you more anyway.

It'd be one thing if TS was hitting on his buddy's girlfriend; that'd be a dick move. However, his buddy isn't dating this woman. If she accepts his invitation to go out, then maybe she actually likes TS. Or maybe she just wants to go out and have a good time. It's asking her out, not marrying her.


Asking someone to go have a fun evening with you can definitely influence their decision. She might be indifferent towards both, in which case they both have an equal chance to change that.

But, since ts did not express this first, it would only be right for him to let his friend make the first move.

If he fails hard, then he can have his go
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Old 02-05-2013, 12:46 PM   #47
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Do you think you'd react in a negative manner if I were to make an advance on someone you've clearly expressed romantic interest in?



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Old 02-05-2013, 12:46 PM   #48
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We've (sort of) come to an understanding involving our avatars....

not really

I think I stole it from him in the share your avatars thread

Or something like that. A quick search and I couldn't find said thread
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Old 02-05-2013, 04:31 PM   #49
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But, since ts did not express this first, it would only be right for him to let his friend make the first move.
Actually, if I'm reading it right, TS just suspects that his buddy likes this woman. So, step 1, ask buddy, "Do you like (insert woman's name)?" Step 2, "Look, I like her too."
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Old 02-05-2013, 05:13 PM   #50
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Actually, if I'm reading it right, TS just suspects that his buddy likes this woman. So, step 1, ask buddy, "Do you like (insert woman's name)?" Step 2, "Look, I like her too."


This is pretty much the best way to go about it. What do you have to lose by taking this method?

I've been the "stealer" once, and I regret it bigtime. Don't Do What Donny Don't Does.
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Old 02-05-2013, 05:13 PM   #51
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Old 02-05-2013, 05:30 PM   #52
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Stealing a girl is a gigantic dick move.

Only do it if you're one of the lowest life forms to ever exist. Bros before hoes.

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How so, if she likes him more than his friend?
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Old 02-05-2013, 06:54 PM   #53
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She's not his property just because he likes her. If she's keen on TS and vice versa, why should nobody be in a relationship just because the friend isn't?
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Old 02-05-2013, 08:02 PM   #54
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Hmm, it depends entirely on what's actually up between them, and what your friendship is like. From my experience, bad shit happens in those sorts of circumstances. Recently, a person we're kind of friends with (he's one of my dealers and used to try to sleep with me, even after I friendzoned him) dropped his cigarette butt in my friend's (whom I slept with) empty teacup and said "That's for ****ing ______ (my name)." to his brother. Like, chill dude, that was in June or something, and you didn't have a chance anyway. Point is, some people will still be very upset with you. Be careful.
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Old 02-05-2013, 08:24 PM   #55
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The dominant strategy is to go for her. Game theory bruh.
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Old 02-05-2013, 08:26 PM   #56
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Update: I sent him an aggressive message asking "Dude, are you going to make a move on Abby? Because if you dont do it soon I will "

I figure either it opens the door for me, or gives him the kick up the arse he needs.
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Old 02-05-2013, 08:30 PM   #57
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The dominant strategy is to go for her. Game theory bruh.

Actually, I'm pretty sure games theory would suggest that I look elsewhere seeing as it provides a greater chance of success.

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Old 02-05-2013, 08:35 PM   #58
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Update: I sent him an aggressive message asking "Dude, are you going to make a move on Abby? Because if you dont do it soon I will "

I figure either it opens the door for me, or gives him the kick up the arse he needs.

GOOD! You get it.

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Those kind of people are the people you should sever from your life. No one has time for immature jerks.
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Old 02-05-2013, 08:55 PM   #59
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Did this In college. He was talking to a girl that was about to break up with her boyfri end. So I got her number and asked her to hang out. Long story short, I banged her that night on a futon behind our math building. She ended up dating the other guy, and me and him became best friends and room mates. You never know what willhappen.
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