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Old 04-02-2013, 09:46 PM   #1
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Any advice on getting my mom to see reason?

How can I get my mom to tell her boyfriend to either get his badass little children in line, or not to bring them to our house at all? Every goddamn weekend, and sometimes weekdays when we're on break, my mom's boyfriend decides to bring his destructive, annoying little young children to our house, free to wreak havoc because he can't even discipline them.

They're two little 3-4 year old girls, and a 7 year old boy (who's deaf). The little boy constantly tries to break into my younger brothers' room, steal their Xbox games, the little fucker dropped my Xbox (luckily it survived, or else he wouldn't still be alive for me to complain about him) after taking it from my closet where I specifically put it up to keep him away from it. The little girls leave food everywhere, take things from out ******* without asking, generally act annoying because goddamn reasons and just love acting like little shitheads. It's frustrating the hell out of me, Pit.

I get in trouble if I try to discipline like I do my siblings, who have actually learned to stay the hell away from my stuff, and I'll stay away from theirs. These kids act like they have no home training.

I tried talking to my mom about limiting their visits, but she rationalizes it by saying, "Would you like your dad's girlfriend to limit how much you can visit him?" And I'm like, no, but that logic doesn't even apply here. My dad isn't some deadbeat asshole who can't take care of his own child, and my father sure as hell would never take us over to someone elses house to destroy their stuff. If this dude wants his annoying little prick kids to come over, he can take them over to his house. He doesn't live with us, but he does come over to mooch, and bring his friends over to smoke weed.

I have no respect for this dude. He always sleeps over here, and eats whatever little food we may have in the house at any kind. No job, can't even sell drugs. O, he's gotten arrested before! Brings a bunch of people over to my house to smoke weed and play PS3. Let his daughter ruin my brand new Xbox by spilling crap on it, didn't discipline her or anything. Whenever we have, like, no groceries and need more, and my mother asks him for some money to get something, which has to feed his little asshole kids too, who are always here it seems; he picks me up from school in my mom's car, with his creepy, potential-rapist convict friends in tow, and takes me with them on a freaking drug deal run. Then lies to my mom about it when we get home. I'm no stranger to drugs, but what kind of decent adult male would pick up a teenaged girl from school in a car full of other adult males, to go to a drug dealer's corner in a shady neighborhood, where the dude had a gun?

This is just me aimlessly ranting at this point.

TL;DR: Mom's asshole boyfriend keeps bringing asshole little kids over to our house. They destroy shit. Mom gives stupidass excuse for it. How to convince her to kick both asshole boyfriend and asshole children to the curb? Or at least keep them from coming over as often.

I apologize for my language. I'm thoroughly pissed right now, little boy came *this* close to ruining brand new video game I saved up for quite a while to get.

If she's seriously thinking of divorcing my dad for this nonsense (they're separated), she must be seriously mentally deficient.
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Old 04-02-2013, 09:47 PM   #2
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Old 04-02-2013, 09:50 PM   #3
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^ Little too late for that, mate.

Any other suggestions?
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Old 04-02-2013, 09:50 PM   #4
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Old 04-02-2013, 09:50 PM   #5
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Old 04-02-2013, 09:51 PM   #6
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Become a big bro to the kids, teach them how to not be dickheads
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Old 04-02-2013, 09:51 PM   #7
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^ Little too late for that, mate.

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Old 04-02-2013, 09:51 PM   #8
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Old 04-02-2013, 09:52 PM   #9
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Eh screw it. Just call the police. Have those little dickholes arrested for destruction of private property.
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Old 04-02-2013, 09:56 PM   #10
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You need to stop ranting here and stand up to this boyfriend. If he does anything, call the cops. I mean shit, if anything use the weed smoking to get him arrested.
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Old 04-02-2013, 09:58 PM   #11
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Become a big bro to the kids, teach them how to not be dickheads


I would, but these kids are almost beyond saving. Like, no discipline from their parents on a daily basis, even if I was allowed to even say or do anything to them about their antics, it wouldn't help.

Their mom is a deadbeat, their dad is a deadbeat. My dad's definitely not a deadbeat, my mom's not a deadbeat. She tries, she's just on hard times right now; she just got laid off from her job, hence our food problems. This guy helped at first, but now it's devolved and he's nothing but a leech. She can't see that though.

I heard her talking about divorcing my dad, and maybe even marrying this dude. Fcuk that, man. I contested it, and got a lecture from my cousin who's staying here (another leech) about how I should let my mom be happy. No, not if she's really deluded into thinking she can be happy with this degenerate.
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Old 04-02-2013, 10:01 PM   #12
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Old 04-02-2013, 10:16 PM   #13
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Give her that whole rant you just posted, if that doesnt work just **** the lot of them and move in with your dad
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No offense but your mom's a bitch and the only thing you can do is put all your stuff in your room and lock your door.
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Old 04-02-2013, 10:19 PM   #15
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I would, but these kids are almost beyond saving. Like, no discipline from their parents on a daily basis, even if I was allowed to even say or do anything to them about their antics, it wouldn't help.

Don't be a father figure, trying to discipline them, just try and have fun with them. If you spend time with them maybe they'll stop being as annoying to you. They're young, so they're hardly beyond saving. They could look up to you, and you could be a positive part of their life.
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Old 04-02-2013, 10:23 PM   #16
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Old 04-02-2013, 10:25 PM   #17
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Don't be a father figure, trying to discipline them, just try and have fun with them. If you spend time with them maybe they'll stop being as annoying to you. They're young, so they're hardly beyond saving. They could look up to you, and you could be a positive part of their life.

Honestly, this

They're little kids. Just play some games with them and stuff. If they like you they will be more likely to listen to you and respect you.


Some people are really horrible about how to act around young kids, lol
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They're little kids. Just play some games with them and stuff. If they like you they will be more likely to listen to you and respect you.

Yep, and hopefully he can teach them to respect other things as they get older, including themselves. A lot of kids lack a decent role model, and with deadbeat parents that it sounds like they could use one.
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Old 04-02-2013, 10:31 PM   #19
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Have you talked to your dad about this? What this guy is doing is not ok in any way. Don't tolerate it.
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Remember kids are horrible, and we were all horrible once too
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