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Old 09-03-2014, 04:23 AM   #21
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Old 09-03-2014, 04:28 AM   #22
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I assume you're asking the 'anyone?' bit to the question in your last post, about if a girl essentially enjoys your company, but isn't romantically interested, what are the odds of her changing her mind?

What's really fascinating here is that despite popular opinion, the female 'race' is composed of completely unique individuals, all with their own unique reactions and feelings towards people. One girl might one day decide that she actually does really like you. Another girl might one day decide she actually hates you. One girl might one day decide that she has no change of her opinion towards you.

Everyone is different. The 'odds' of something like that happening is useless to calculate.

If you like someone, then you need to take the step. The same applies to her perspective. If she likes you, she will take the step.
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Old 09-03-2014, 04:29 AM   #23
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those last paragraphs are a mess, i cant even begin to understand what you're trying to say


This. I kind of gave up reading halfway through.

Also, there's no way this can be a serious question..
What ****** would date someone that they can't converse with and don't enjoy being around? You don't date someone because of their looks, you sleep with them because of their looks. Looks like you accomplished that mission so time to move on TS. Don't date someone you don't want to date. What a terrible idea.

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i've haven't been in a fruitful relationship so i guesses the experience gained could be a major gain against all the odds of making her feel bad


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Old 09-03-2014, 07:45 AM   #24
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Just tell her that you find her attractive and you are into **** buddy sort of stuff. If she is into it both sides profit.

If you want a serious relationship dont waste your time with her because equal maturity is key for a healthy relationship. You wont be able to respect her opinions and actions if you dont believe she is as mature as you are.

edit: also stop being beta and consider what you want, not what she wants. People fall into misery because they fool themselves saying "I dont want to hurt her" which is actually "I dont know what I want, I'm a ****ing coward and I will just make a fool of myself by handing the leashes to her"

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Old 09-03-2014, 07:53 AM   #25
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If you don't enjoy staying with her I'd say it had been for the best to let her go.

I haven't seen her though, and her appearance might have altered my decision.
Without seeing her, I'd say you made a good choice.


So, to sum up your post:
Pics?
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Old 09-03-2014, 08:53 AM   #26
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second pic,because you were too lazy to find the first one:
http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=24w...=8#.VAcOevmSxOw
and to arcanom,you've seemed to confused between the differance of cowardness and being a mature adult in this situation.
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Old 09-03-2014, 08:55 AM   #27
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second pic,because you were too lazy to find the first one:
http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=24w...=8#.VAcOevmSxOw
and to arcanom,you've seemed to confused between the differance of cowardness and being a mature adult in this situation.

Wow, if I had any doubt that you were a complete dickhead before, this has certainly sealed it.
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Old 09-03-2014, 08:58 AM   #28
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Old 09-03-2014, 09:01 AM   #29
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please explain

Do you really think this girl will appreciate having pictures of her posted to strangers on a forum for them to judge whether she's attractive enough for you to continue having a relationship with her?

I'd very much like for this girl to see this thread and see how little worth her time you are.
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Old 09-03-2014, 09:02 AM   #30
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The best answer I can give to you is that if it doesn't work, it doesn't work. If you are only dating her for her looks, then it's not worth dating her. Like vayne92 said, you sleep with people for their looks, you date them for their personality. If she was just a bitch, then I think you made the right choice.
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Old 09-03-2014, 09:10 AM   #31
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i guess i'm a real newbie when it comes to human dignity....
in my effortless defense,you sarcastically asked for this pictures and with my apatheticness i chose to upload them
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Old 09-03-2014, 09:14 AM   #32
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Holy crap, I didn't know asking for pics actually worked. But yeah, perhaps it's better not to listen to me in the future

In all seriousness though, if you don't like someone's personality, it's never going to be a fulfilling relationship.
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Old 09-03-2014, 09:44 AM   #33
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I assume you're asking the 'anyone?' bit to the question in your last post, about if a girl essentially enjoys your company, but isn't romantically interested, what are the odds of her changing her mind?

What's really fascinating here is that despite popular opinion, the female 'race' is composed of completely unique individuals, all with their own unique reactions and feelings towards people. One girl might one day decide that she actually does really like you. Another girl might one day decide she actually hates you. One girl might one day decide that she has no change of her opinion towards you.

Everyone is different. The 'odds' of something like that happening is useless to calculate.

If you like someone, then you need to take the step. The same applies to her perspective. If she likes you, she will take the step.



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this might be the most difficult to read post i've ever tried to read
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Old 09-03-2014, 10:53 AM   #35
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To clarify this thread is a copy and paste of a question he asked in the relationship thread and the ensuing responses from other UGers.

That [partly] explains why it's so convoluted
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Old 09-03-2014, 10:57 AM   #36
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To clarify this thread is a copy and paste of a question he asked in the relationship thread and the ensuing responses from other UGers.

That [partly] explains why it's so convoluted

Ahhh that makes sense, I thought he was quoting a conversation he had with a friend.


It's especially confusing considering one of the people he quotes also writes out a hypothetical conversation.
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Old 09-03-2014, 11:01 AM   #37
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Do you really think this girl will appreciate having pictures of her posted to strangers on a forum for them to judge whether she's attractive enough for you to continue having a relationship with?

I'd very much like for this girl to see this thread and see how little worth her time you are.


listen to MadClownDisease.

Simply tell this girl you aren't interested and you will both be better for it.
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Old 09-03-2014, 11:15 AM   #38
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it seems that i wasn't clear enough but i already said to her that it wont work a month ago and i'm just gathering some opinion on my actions.
it has no real implications on the future(at least it dose not seem that way) of our relationship
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Old 09-03-2014, 11:25 AM   #39
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She younger than you eh?


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its more of an abusment...
Dude.. Domestic violence is NOT amusing

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She younger than you eh?

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