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Old 08-19-2007, 09:40 PM   #1
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So I like this girl who has had the same boyfriend for a year. They have always been long distance and have met once. During the year I have gone to the movies and went shopping and stuff with her. He says he was going to go to her Junior Prom but at last moment he could not go and I went with her to it. He says he is going to come to our city and told her they could meet up in her hotel. The day he came he would not say what hotel and gave her clues. We drove through the ghetto and lost a half a tank of gas and never found him. She cried. She dropped me off at my house and eventually found him at 2AM. She never saw a picture of him before and he was fat. He is now moving all the way to the other side of the country and probably will not see her for 6-12 months. She will not dump him for me because she wants to really know him. Is there anyway I can bend her mind into liking me because as far as I can tell he is messing with her head.

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Old 08-19-2007, 09:42 PM   #2
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let your friendship go... and if she likes having you around, she'll come around
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Old 08-19-2007, 09:42 PM   #3
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EDIT: I'm sorry but I was so tempted to say do a barrel roll or rub icy hot on her.

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Old 08-19-2007, 09:43 PM   #4
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She never saw a picture of him before and he was fat.


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Old 08-19-2007, 09:43 PM   #5
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She will not dump him for me because she wants to really know him. Is there anyway I can bend her mind into liking me because as far as I can tell he is messing with her head.

That just really doesn't sound fair at all. Just jump in if she leaves him of her own accord.
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Old 08-19-2007, 09:43 PM   #6
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But in all seriousness I can see how that would suck for you. She is playing the friend zone game with you? Is she really worth it man?
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Old 08-19-2007, 09:44 PM   #7
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Tell her she's a stupid b*tch? Or something along those lines in a less harsh fashion?
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Old 08-19-2007, 09:44 PM   #8
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im no help.

all i want to say is i think shes sorta retarded for wanting to go meet some guy at a hotel that shes never even seen a picture of...
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Old 08-19-2007, 09:45 PM   #9
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if she wants to go out with some fat guy online in a long distance thing, then i'm pretty sure you'd be better off not to be with her...

of course, if you still want her, just keep being nice to her while he's there treating her like crap from miles and miles away. she'll eventually notice that you're there for her and you're kind to her and all that, and you'll probably grow on her.

don't worry man, she'll most likely come around... just be patient if you think it's worth it.
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Old 08-19-2007, 09:45 PM   #10
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That's extremely lame, clues? I'd have not even looked-_-
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Old 08-19-2007, 09:46 PM   #11
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Wait...


She's had a boyfriend for a year that she's never seen?

How old are you?
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Old 08-19-2007, 09:46 PM   #12
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lol that's a funny story.

i think he wasn't fat one year ago, they met and fell in love. a year later, he got fat, so she's like eww.

or had they been online dating?
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Old 08-19-2007, 09:47 PM   #13
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lol that's a funny story.

i think he wasn't fat one year ago, they met and fell in love. a year later, he got fat, so she's like eww.

or had they been online dating?

met on my xbox live account
EDIT: im almost 16 shes 17 for guy who asked
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Old 08-19-2007, 09:49 PM   #14
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met on my xbox live account
EDIT: im almost 16 shes 17 for guy who asked

Wow....romantic
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Old 08-19-2007, 09:49 PM   #15
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met on my xbox live account
EDIT: im almost 16 shes 17 for guy who asked


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Old 08-19-2007, 09:52 PM   #16
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Rub Icy Hot on her boyfriend...

In all seriousness. You can't just "change her mind", if she likes you then she will come to you.
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Old 08-19-2007, 09:54 PM   #17
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im having the same problem bro well kinda this girl just wants to be friends but she dont get the ****ing point.
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Old 08-19-2007, 09:55 PM   #18
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you let it get too far. the second she met him on xbox live you should have remembered to warn her that he was probably a fat manhooker pedophile from cincinatti.
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Old 08-19-2007, 09:56 PM   #19
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Man now i know why girls think me taking them out and romancing them is lame


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Old 08-19-2007, 09:57 PM   #20
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I think scarface suit summed it up. But shes sounds pretty stupid no offense dude.
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