aik500000
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#1
Hello. I wasn't sure exactly where to post this. I am in serious need of some help, so if you guys can contribute I will be very thankful. I know this sounds really cliche, but my dad does not approve of the music I play and listen to. He is into what could be considered by many to be "elevator music", while I am into everything from blues to metal. The problem is, that the amps I use are both really loud (50 and 120 watts, and they are tube amps). If he can even faintly hear my playing in another room, he will literally barge in, unplug my amplifier, and angrily berate me about how I need to stop playing "disgusting, cacophanous devil music void of any melody" (you know, because ACDC is "devil music"). I can barely even play guitar anymore, because if I want to turn up either of my amps to a point to where they remotely sound good, he will go off. Moving out isn't an option, since I am still in high school (although I would definitely do it if I could). What do I do? Thanks.
Charvel1995
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#2
Reason with him? You're in high school, don't put up with it. You have to show him that there are other genres of music in the world. My parents hate my music, but I still play my amp loud and they're okay with it because I actually enjoy doing it. Your dad should be happy you've found something you're really passionate about.


What amps are you playing through?
Worst case you could buy an amp that allows you to plug headphones into it (Micro cube but it isn't anywhere near as good as your amps). Or get something like the POD and play into your computer and use headphones in that regard.
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aik500000
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Thanks, I play through a 6505+ and an Albion TCT50. I wouldn't want to touch a roland cube after saving up forever to get these amps. I have tried telling him that this is the music I love, and he replied with a "well, I don't like it, so turn it down."
ghobby
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#4
Get a headphone amp(line 6 pocket pod, Zoom G1, etc.) or practice amp (small roland, vox, marshall etc.) All should be under a $150, I use a microcube to practice, its great with headphones.
Charvel1995
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#5
Well the 6505+ isn't much of a bedroom use amp in my experience, play through it when you're home alone if you can. Have you considered selling either amp and get a combo? They can be had for a fair price, and are more suitable for bedroom levels IMO.


I stand by the Pod idea though. You can play it through your computer.
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#6
definitely a POD.

your parents can have their opinion, you can have yours. neither is right at the end of the day. that being said, you have very loud amps (definitely not bedroom amps!), so you do need to be careful with volume. something like a pod will let you get decent (not as good as your amps, but close) sounds for practicing- then you can use your big amps for gigging.
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#7
i think the thing is not to bite your nose off to spite your face- you have to live with him, and unfortunately it's his house and he's the boss (even if he is a complete dick).

probably some kind of headphone modeller or computer based modeller would be the thing.
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ne14t
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#8
You wont get either of those amps to a level that your dad is going to approve of as it sounds like if he even hears your guitar strings making noise he is going to come in and give you shit. I would take the POD idea to heart or a computer interface and guitar rig with some headphones or something, yeah it wont sound as awesome but if you are just practicing it doesn't really matter, then when the parents are out crank the 6505 until you piss the neighbors off.
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aik500000
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Thanks guys for your advice. I know these are not bedroom amps; I use them in the basement to try to reduce the sound for the rest of the house. Sadly, I've never fallen in love with a combo, but I will consider the POD.
Charvel1995
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What kind of a cabinet are you using? 4x12?
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samuraigoomba
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Quote by Dave_Mc
i think the thing is not to bite your nose off to spite your face- you have to live with him, and unfortunately it's his house and he's the boss (even if he is a complete dick).

probably some kind of headphone modeller or computer based modeller would be the thing.

This. Unfortunately you can't do much about parents being total dicks unless you have a clear case for abuse. You could practice without your guitar plugged in, use headphones or switch to a POD. Or you could buy something like an orange micro crush, which is a very small (also pretty cheap) amp that still has a pretty nice sound (either clean or with high gain) for a solid state.

Your dad seems like the sort who complains when the church uses an electric guitar to play "silent night". I know a few people like that.
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aik500000
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Well I'm Jewish, so that probably won't work.


Anyways, thanks guys; I will consider a POD/etc... as a solution. But for now, I guess I am limited to playing when no one is home.
I am using a 4X12 in case anyone wants to know.
gpme332
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As a parent of a "kids" 21,19 and 16 and the ONLY one who listens to metal or plays guitar, LOUD when I can, I must say this:

If one of my children decided to take up guitar, drums or any other loud instrument and played it loud while I was watching tv or trying to listen to music I would probably do the same thing.

My wife hates it when I play guitar and gets really pissed when I play it loud so I just plug in my headphones and "shred" (not really, I am kind of a noob). She cannot hear me and we are both happy. I play loud when she is gone and it is only me and the dog. The dog hates it but cannot argue.

Get some headphones and play. You may not like his opinion but unless he abuses you and does nothing to provide for you he does deserve your respect. Show him respect and he will probably respect your interest in playing even if he does not like the music.
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#16
You have to live with him and he makes the rules, so you need to respect that. His opinion of your music and his reactions to it might be ridiculous, but it's not like he's coming home drunk and beating you, so I think you can afford to suffer through this.

As far as amps go, personally I would try to get a used Vypyr 15 from GC or somewhere else and a good set of headphones(not earbuds). I think my Vypyr sounds pretty awesome through my Shure SRH440s. If you can find cheaper headphones that will do a good enough job then go for it, but I can't recommend any.

I'm sure there are better ways to do what I suggested, but considering a Vypyr 15 can be had for around $40 used, there may not be cheaper options.
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#17
Get a smaller amp! Chances are, you have absolutely no use for amps that powerful. Even for decent sized club gigs, you don't really need over 30 watts, and it seems like you're just playing in your bedroom. Wouldn't it piss you off if you constantly heard him playing his music while you were tryina do your thing? Sorry dude, but your dad's in the right.
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#18
Quote by W4RP1G
You have to live with him and he makes the rules, so you need to respect that. His opinion of your music and his reactions to it might be ridiculous, but it's not like he's coming home drunk and beating you, so I think you can afford to suffer through this.


yeah- it's not great but it could be a heck of a lot worse, too.

i mean i still think he's a dick. maybe not with a capital d, though.
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I saw in a couple of pictures that on Bucketheads Les Paul (only some pictures) that his neck pickup is painted in white. Can anyone explain to me why he would do this, and if there are any pros and cons.

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The guy wears a KFC Bucket and a white mask during performances, and you're interested in the color of his pickup covers?

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#20
See if your amps have a headphone jack. If they do, then get some phones and tell yer old man to go **** himself !
aik500000
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#21
Quote by mattrusso
Get a smaller amp! Chances are, you have absolutely no use for amps that powerful. Even for decent sized club gigs, you don't really need over 30 watts, and it seems like you're just playing in your bedroom. Wouldn't it piss you off if you constantly heard him playing his music while you were tryina do your thing? Sorry dude, but your dad's in the right.


Well, he does often play his drums along with a loud PA system, so he technically does do the same thing.

I do understand that it isn't a very big deal. I was just seeing what you guys would recommend for possible solutions since it is a pain.
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AdamGM
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#22
Work on your relationship with him outside of the issue. Do your best do get along and you won't regret doing some of the things other people are telling you to do.

You get get a much smaller amp to play with when he's home and use your other ones when he is out.

Don't talk to him with the intention of getting your way. ATtempt a friendly discussion about the greater reasons behind his values and why he likes the music he likes, etc.
dannyalcatraz
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#23
Well, he does often play his drums along with a loud PA system, so he technically does do the same thing.


This is squarely in the Parent's Playbook chapter, "Do As I Say, Not As I Do"- a.k.a. Adult Hypocrisy.

But as has been pointed out, as long as you're under his roof, he makes the rules- up until the point of things the law recognizes as being illegal/immoral.

This isn't one of those things where you can "win" in most households.
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#24
^ yeah
Quote by crownegamers
I saw in a couple of pictures that on Bucketheads Les Paul (only some pictures) that his neck pickup is painted in white. Can anyone explain to me why he would do this, and if there are any pros and cons.

Quote by dspellman
The guy wears a KFC Bucket and a white mask during performances, and you're interested in the color of his pickup covers?

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#25
You should really have a headphone amp so you can play even if somebody's sleeping. And by headphone amp I mean amp with headphone output or multi FX pedal. Usually Multi FX pedals also have USB out so you can record your playing easily. (They might include a recording software like Cubase and if not, Audacity is a free recording software.)

So I would recommend some kind of Multi FX. I'm using Digitech RP355, it gets the job done. Go and try some multi FX pedals.
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