#1
I seem to be having trouble muting on bends....everything is muted but if I'm bending ,say the 2nd string, the 4th string will sound....it's just a short tiny muted twack, like you would hear in a rake, just softer. It only happens on my neck pickup and generally only above the 12th fret...any tips? also would this come through in a band setting? Thanks
#3
Your right hand should be muting the lower frequencies.

It doesn't require much pressure, just rest the right hand slightly on the strings you don't want to ring.
#4
I am muting with my right hand, what I'm hearing is the muted strings sounding...like a dull clunk-_-