#1
Is it normal to feel completely shit when you find out about your girlfriends past in regards to their sex life ?

please no spam, im just wondering if anyone else feels kinda uncomfortable/angry/annoyed/pissed off/rapist(i had to be a pit monkey) when they find out this kinda shit?
#2
It depends on the person. It has bothered me and it has not bothered me, and I don't know the reasons.
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#3
Luckily my girl has no prior work experience.

And I think it is completely normal to be upset. I know I would definitely be.
And if she talks about it a lot, just so you know, that's not a good sign.
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#6
you just made this thread to upset me for not having a girlfriend and not getting laid at all, did you?
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#7
ya i always do...and as you get older (im 18) there's more and more of a history to get be bothered by with each one.
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#8
yea i did feel pissed off. twice actually but yea as its been said it is normal to feel that way
#9
as long as she's clean and faithful, it wouldn't bother me, because she might have been a different person back then, and people change through experience which makes us who we are which is why people fall in love with each other.
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#10
well when you get older most women your gunna meet would have done, im guessing, plenty of sexual activities so youd better get used to it
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#12
I don't think it is that big of a deal. It is not an act of betrayal and they are their own person, perfectly allowed to do what they please, before they enter a relationship.

Why hold the past against someone?
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#14
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You're asking the pit a question about girlfriends? Haha, good luck with that.

Take it to the relationship thread.

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But to answer your question really quick: yes it's normal.
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#18
Yeah,
this girl the other day i've been talkign to was like
"oh yeah i'm ace at handjobs and blowjobs"
i was like
thats cool but
...
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#19
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Yeah,
this girl the other day i've been talkign to was like
"oh yeah i'm ace at handjobs and blowjobs"
i was like
thats cool but
...



you should have asked her to prove it
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#21
Chasing Amy anyone?

yeah it sucks fo'sure
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#22
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my advice: don't ask, don't tell. it just causes unnecessary drama.


Yeah but if for whatever reason it comes later, the other kind of gets mad for you not being "truthful"...

Thats why I say lay it on the table before you get started. If you do it before talk of getting together is involved, you can sort of pull that "but I'm not yours" card.

And then if you don't like the slut, leave her. If she doesn't like the manwhore you are, she can take a walk.
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#23
Unless you exclusively date virgins (which I can't imagine would be much fun), your significant other is going to have a sexual past. There is no reason for you ever having to know his/her past in detail. So don't ask and don't tell.
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#24
Mmm i was sad and angry, not angry about her but other things...I cannot say But nah it's normal TS.
#25
Wow, there's a lot of immature guys in here. There's no way you can
A) control what she has or hasn't done
or
B) change what she did

So why get all worked up and worried about it? I probably didn't even know her when she did whatever with the previous guys, and the fact that she's choosing to continue letting me see her naked instead of any of those others is all that I need to know.


If you want a virgin, go to a high school or church camp or something. Otherwise grow up and learn to deal like an adult.
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#26
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Wow, there's a lot of immature guys in here. There's no way you can
A) control what she has or hasn't done
or
B) change what she did

So why get all worked up and worried about it? I probably didn't even know her when she did whatever with the previous guys, and the fact that she's choosing to continue letting me see her naked instead of any of those others is all that I need to know.

Whoops i should clean up my post, i ment that i was sad and angry at what happened, not the fact that she did it, it was the way the guys treated her but i don't mind that she did do it, all i care is she wants
#27
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Yeah but if for whatever reason it comes later, the other kind of gets mad for you not being "truthful"...

Thats why I say lay it on the table before you get started. If you do it before talk of getting together is involved, you can sort of pull that "but I'm not yours" card.

And then if you don't like the slut, leave her. If she doesn't like the man***** you are, she can take a walk.


"laying it on the table" led to horrible discoveries for me, like learning that one of my ex's was a male stripper in a gay bar, one of them was a male prostitute, and one seduced a gay guy, then claimed it was rape.

then there are pictures of their ex-girlfriends...most of which were dogs that I would fuck with someone else's dick. I can't even cope with knowing my best friend has had more than one girlfriend that I know of...

then again, imagining my conception has proven to be very traumatic as well..
#28
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Wow, there's a lot of immature guys in here. There's no way you can
A) control what she has or hasn't done
or
B) change what she did

So why get all worked up and worried about it? I probably didn't even know her when she did whatever with the previous guys, and the fact that she's choosing to continue letting me see her naked instead of any of those others is all that I need to know.


If you want a virgin, go to a high school or church camp or something. Otherwise grow up and learn to deal like an adult.


How is being immature to feel uncomfortable about your girlfriend going on about her past sex life?

I can't stand a loose vagina. I'm sorry. I'm probably one of the last few people on the planet that think love and sex go hand in hand. I think it's much more amazing to love the person you have it with.

She doesn't have to be a virgin. I'm just saying maybe she should have some discretion, and maybe, just maybe, she shouldn't brag, contemplate, or continue to bring up her past misadventures.
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#29
Yeah dude.

I found out last fridayshe was not a virgin and I felt like a schlemeal.
#30
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How is being immature to feel uncomfortable about your girlfriend going on about her past sex life?

I can't stand a loose vagina. I'm sorry. I'm probably one of the last few people on the planet that think love and sex go hand in hand. I think it's much more amazing to love the person you have it with.

She doesn't have to be a virgin. I'm just saying maybe she should have some discretion, and maybe, just maybe, she shouldn't brag, contemplate, or continue to bring up her past misadventures.


Not wanting a girlfriend who was/is a slut is different than being freaked out by her having had sex with anyone before you. And the TS didn't ask about her consistently bringing up past relations. He asked about just finding out in general.

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ya i always do...and as you get older (im 18) there's more and more of a history to get be bothered by with each one.



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#31
I know what you mean buddy, it's completely normal to this to make you feel a bit unhappy. I have experienced this, it guess it stems from the feeling of perhaps inferiority. I'm not saying you are but there's always doubts in most peoples minds. However I found once you've developed a sexual past of your own, you tend not to care as much.

Think of it as a positive thing, it's always played in my mind however in tern this makes me want to be the best she'd ever have and please her in the ways i can.

As long as she is faithful and loving to you and not some sort of ***** then you'll be fine.
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