#1
ok, so my friend's ex-boyfriend said he was one step from killing himself, she tried to work it out with him. He said she was being selfish. She said things were going to fast and stuff.

She tried talking to him, but it didn't work.

Thats pretty much all the details I have

Help?

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#2
Is he considering killing himself over this relationship, or is it something else?

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#3
He wants sex she wants to wait.
He still wants attention. Ding.
#4
He's doing it for attention. He'll get over it.
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ok, so my friend's ex-boyfriend said he was one step from killing himself, she tried to work it out with him. He said she was being selfish. She said things were going to fast and stuff.

She tried talking to him, but it didn't work.

Thats pretty much all the details I have

Help?

Thanks for all serious responces

GD34875


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Go and have sex with him, that'll make him feel better.
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#8
If he's going round telling people he wants to kill himself he doesn't actually want to kill himself - he wants attention.

EDIT: Her best bet is probably to stay away from him for a while - otherwise he'll keep hoping she's going to get back together with him, and he'll keep using the emotional blackmail gag to put pressure on her..
#9
He's an attention seeker, i'd happily push him that extra step/off a bridge.

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#10
This happened to me once. The kid instead became an alcoholic.
There's not much you could do, is there? But from experience of hearing a lot of kids "cry suicide", I've learned that the kid that ends up offing himself is the one that never told anyone. As an example, my one friend, she was just found dead one day; as far as we know, she never told a soul that she wanted to die.
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What can you do? Either he's serious or he's wanting some sympathy, either way any communication will either push him over the edge to do something bad or fuel him to become worse depending on the situation's truth.

Personally I'd stay out of it before you become a wedge between the two of them and lose them both.
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call his bluff

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What can you do? Either he's serious or he's wanting some sympathy, either way any communication will either push him over the edge to do something bad or fuel him to become worse depending on the situation's truth.

Personally I'd stay out of it before you become a wedge between the two of them and lose them both.


Sounds good. He's probably an attention seeker but do you think it's worth him checked out? You might need to get or advise professional help.
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if he REALLY would like to kill himself, he would be quiet with it... honestly


This

Also, attention whore alert.
#19
All you have to do is find people who crititize the person and have them just say high and stuff. That works real good. Also try to get other people to include him in stuff, so if he is serious he'll think about who he's letting down.
#22
he probably doesnt, and is simply looking for attention.. thats what one of my mates did.. he said it twice, and i was like "sure.." the second time.. and now hes back at school and reply happy.. life sucks.. get over it.
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Grab him by the throat, choke the **** out of him, when he fights back, explain to him that if he wanted to die, he wouldn't fight back.

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How old is he? and How long was their relationship, what most people have said here already would seem the obvious. But Still I know its worrying, I was in the same position this time last year with an ex threatening, she never did anything and I really thought she was messed up...
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Actually half of these posts seem really really wrong. I remember being damn close to ending it. I also remember hearing little ****s saying "If you say you want to/will than it means you wont" or "Their doing it for attention"

Your damn right its for attention. But it sure as hell doesn't mean they wont do it. Admitting to wanting to commit suicide is a very hard thing to do. So when you finally do balls up and tell someone about how vulnerable you actually feel. The last thing you can handle is someone saying something like "He doesnt mean it, he just wants some attention. Hes a weak little bitch"

I obviously didn't go through with it in the end. But when your filled with that much depression, despair and hopelessness. It's like wow... when you hear someone say that it just reinforces that voice in your head saying "Just do it pussy". And that is the worst feeling, I honestly think you can go through.
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Actually half of these posts seem really really wrong. I remember being damn close to ending it. I also remember hearing little ****s saying "If you say you want to/will than it means you wont" or "Their doing it for attention"

Your damn right its for attention. But it sure as hell doesn't mean they wont do it. Admitting to wanting to commit suicide is a very hard thing to do. So when you finally do balls up and tell someone about how vulnerable you actually feel. The last thing you can handle is someone saying something like "He doesnt mean it, he just wants some attention. Hes a weak little bitch"

I obviously didn't go through with it in the end. But when your filled with that much depression, despair and hopelessness. It's like wow... when you hear someone say that it just reinforces that voice in your head saying "Just do it pussy". And that is the worst feeling, I honestly think you can go through.

i meant to quote KIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIILLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL on this.just needs some emotional support is all
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#29
just call the cops and send them to his house. It'll be extremely embarrassing for him and teach him not to cry suicide.

That usually works with these people, and sends a clear message that you aren't going to date them just so they don't kill themselves.
#30
My sisters ex hung himself when she dumped him. My mum and sister found him cut him down and he was just about alive and had drunk a litre of vodka. When he came round he attacked the police with a chair leg and they sprayed and arrested him. Then he harrassed my sister and house for about 2 months.

Let him do it and it will save her some harrassment.
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Wooh three, we should make a club... could be called:
'We want to kill ourselves, well, half of us do, and a quarter of us can make a relatively good case for it, but we thought the group would be more succesful if we appealed to the whiney masses as well as those who have noticed the void of nothingness that fills our future." And lots of people would spam us about the contradiction in the last metaphor.
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#34
Why though is there a reason behind all this, to their break up, if shes being selfish then I dont move the relationship? But is it over the relationship that she wants to kill himself?