The singer for my band never wants to jam with us. He just hangs out with a girl he denies he likes. He doen't help us with our songs and he rejects and covers we want to play. He is one of my best friends. I alo live in a small time and its gonna be hrd to replace him. What should I do?
tell him to get his head straight or hes outta the band, simple, or kill the girl

and with the songs, tell him that if he wants to be in your band, he'll play what yall play