#1
Last night she kept talking to me about how sometimes she doesnt know whether its worth it or not. She's hard a hard life, as when she was a baby she was adopted because her mother was and alcoholic and did drugs. And being her boyfriend i told her "Itll be fine, these thoughts will soon go away". As i went to sleep that night i got a call from her best friend(who is also a close friend of mine) that she had stabbed herself, i was told she is still consious(damn that word) but could die.Also were only 13 :\. Im feeling quite depressed and unhappy. What should i do.

PS: pleasee no stupid answers im not in the mood for fapping cumming blood or raping.
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#2
Therapy.

Thats the best answer someones going to give in here.
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#3
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Therapy.

Thats the best answer someones going to give in here.


Yep. She needs professional help, even though she's not going to want it.
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Therapy.

Thats the best answer someones going to give in here.

I second that. Therapy, for everyone.

EDIT: And good luck, I'm told things get better at some point.
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#6
Stabbing herself? That's a tough chick, I'd say with her
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#7
Thats something i told her. She said she thinks she has a mental problem. I said she should get help but she didt really take that.
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#8
wow, 13
therapy.
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#9
wow the pit is feeling constrained...

dead serious dude as above she needs the help, also YOU nedd to talk about it to her, remind her how much you need her
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#10
Wow.

Only 13 and attempting suicide?
There are much worse things in life, she's gotta realize that. (Although she probably won't for years to come).
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Thats something i told her. She said she thinks she has a mental problem. I said she should get help but she didt really take that.


Thats when you do it anyways, thats the only way shes going to understand. If you want to show her you care, you'll make sure she goes or gets help.
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#12
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Therapy.

Thats the best answer someones going to give in here.

^this.

it may not be completely environmental factors that pushed her that far, so professional opinions are never a bad idea. chemical imbalances are a bitch. trust me on this one....
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#13
Agreed, therapy: whether she likes it or not. It will help (how well depends on the person though). Be open and readily available for her to talk, and remember you're only 13. In five years, hell even one or two, you'll be completely different people. Things change heaps when you're that age.

Sorry to hear man, stay strong.
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Thats something i told her. She said she thinks she has a mental problem. I said she should get help but she didt really take that.

THERAPY. THERAPY.


THERAPY.


Say it with me, now.


THERAPY.

Seriously, she needs it.
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#15
why do people feel the need to bitch about their problems all the time. my cat ran away, my parents don't understand me, blah blah blah. no one cares.
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why do people feel the need to bitch about their problems all the time. my cat ran away, my parents don't understand me, blah blah blah. no one cares.


You dont need to be a dick, he's only 13.
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why do people feel the need to bitch about their problems all the time. my cat ran away, my parents don't understand me, blah blah blah. no one cares.

I hope, for your sake, you never know what it's like to have a girlfriend.
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#18
Does she have rapid mood swings?
like one day she might be happy as anything, n an hour later trying to kill herself
if so she might have Bipolar disorder (manic depression)

EDIT: oh hope shes ok by the way man, keep supporting her
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#19
she better get hope now if she doesnt, and shes only 13, it'll only get worse. shes gotta realize she can get strong and overcome things
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#20
Let her kill herself. If being adopted into a loving family is such a downer I doubt she'll be able handle any of the real problems in life. I've said the same thing skaterskagg1 but half this site is made up of whiny 13 year olds, I just avoid the pit for the most part now a days.
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why do people feel the need to bitch about their problems all the time. my cat ran away, my parents don't understand me, blah blah blah. no one cares.

Dick.

I think what TS said is just a tad bit I dunno, severe?

Therapy for sure, it's pretty much unanimous.

Also, don't try to self-diagnose any disorders. There are countless possibilities, but only someone actually trained in that field will likely be correct.
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#22
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Does she have rapid mood swings?
like one day she might be happy as anything, n an hour later trying to kill herself
if so she might have Bipolar disorder (manic depression)

EDIT: oh hope shes ok by the way man, keep supporting her

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#23
Wow, you suck.
Good advice you gave her.
"Those thoughts wiill go away"

You're a ****ing tard.
You being her boyfriend knew her history and how "hard" she has had it
And when she is talking about suicide.
You say,
"Don't worry, those thoughts will go away."

You yourself have clearly not had a "hard" life or have no experience with major depression.
You're stupid.
And 13
There's nothing you, personaly, can do.
You can't comfort a person who has suicidal thoughts and is majorly depressed.
They need real help.
Now, I assume she will get help or attention with this attempted suicide.
Because she needs it.


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THERAPY. THERAPY.


THERAPY.


Say it with me, now.


Therapy.

Seriously. Hope stuff works out.

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Wow, you suck.
You yourself have clearly not had a "hard" life or have no experience with major depression.
You're stupid.

Give the guy a break. He's 13. There's time for him to grow up. Unlike you.
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#25
Sounds like bipolar disorder, in which case I would also recommend therapy. I know all too well what everything's like when you're 13-15. It goes away eventually, trust me. You just have to make her understand that if she just sticks around for a few more years, everything will be a whole lot better.

Stay with her. She needs all the support she can get right now.
#26
Therapy will only help if she wants to do it and believes it will help her ... A friend of mine saw a psychologist but she didn't trust him or let him help her ... She did it because her parents forced it on her
(I don't think bi-polar disorder makes you wanna kill yourself But I'm no doctor)
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Therapy will only help if she wants to do it and believes it will help her ... A friend of mine saw a psychologist but she didn't trust him or let him help her ... She did it because her parents forced it on her
(I don't think bi-polar disorder makes you wanna kill yourself But I'm no doctor)


It could, it makes my one friend cut himself. He can be the coolest most upbeat kid ever and then the next day cut himself and wanna die.

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#28
hospital, cops, therapy, etc.

itm can't help with serious issues like this. go see professionals.
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