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#1
I'm a girl and it seems whenever a really good guy friend gets a gf he never talk to me anymore. Or he asks me out and I say no and then he's like whatever and we never talk. Its really frustrating and atm my only close guy friends are my boyfriend and this guy that I seriously suspect is gay.

Can't guys just be friends with girls?
#2
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#3
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I'm a girl and it seems whenever a really good guy friend gets a gf he never talk to me anymore. Or he asks me out and I say no and then he's like whatever and we never talk. Its really frustrating and atm my only close guy friends are my boyfriend and this guy that I seriously suspect is gay.

Can't guys just be friends with girls?


Only if there is absolutely no attraction or the guy is already with a girl. It's quite sad really.

I myself just don't enjoy being friends with girls cause I find them quite boring. I prefer being friends with guys who actually bring the fun to the party like I do. Girls are boring boring boring.
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#6
To be honest, guys are rarely just friends with girls. Thats not to say it doesn't happen though. I hate it when people stop talking to the rest of their friends when they get into a relationship then beg for attention after they split up.
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#7
Yeah easily guys can be friends with girls. Keep in mind if you reject a guy of course he's not gonna want to talk to you, and when anyone gets a bf/gf they naturally spend more time with them- it's up to you to keep the lines of communication open
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#8
Emmm, I'd say that's more to do with girls. His gf probably doesn't want him hanging about another girl
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I'm a girl and it seems whenever a really good guy friend gets a gf he never talk to me anymore. Or he asks me out and I say no and then he's like whatever and we never talk. Its really frustrating and atm my only close guy friends are my boyfriend and this guy that I seriously suspect is gay.

Can't guys just be friends with girls?


Only if you're unattractive.

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#11
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Yeah easily guys can be friends with girls. Keep in mind if you reject a guy of course he's not gonna want to talk to you, and when anyone gets a bf/gf they naturally spend more time with them- it's up to you to keep the lines of communication open


Nah but like I try to talk to them and they just avoid and don't wanna talk to me at all. Like they used to call me all the time and now if I call them its like "wtf u call for?"
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There's two. Let's get 'em.


EDIT: more on topic: sometimes it's the girlfriend's fault. She'll see her new bf hanging with a different girl, get jealous, call him on the phone, cry, bitch him out, and he just doesn't want that.
or
let the guy friend know you feel neglected as a friend
or
accept that they are terrible friends for ditching you
or
give them sex
or
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#13
I wouldn't be friends with them if the opportunity to sex wasn't there...I stay clear of the fugly chicks though
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#16
i mean i have a hard time being good friends with girls. There are two girls who im really good friends with and talk to and hang out with alot. but these girls are alot like me and are fun. most guys are more fun to hang out with and then go meet girls we are sexually attracted to.
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I wouldn't want to be close friends with a girl who had a boyfriend. Respect and worry of getting my ass kicked.
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I'm a girl and it seems whenever a really good guy friend gets a gf he never talk to me anymore.

Can't guys just be friends with girls?



Ugh this has recently happened to me with TWO of my best guy friends. Really disappointing
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*agreed with above posts* His GF might think hes 'doing' something if he hangs with other girls. so yeah.
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#20
I don't have any problems being friends with girls...

Most of my best friends are girls, noxiosimitator is one of my best male friends, although I sometimes suspect (s)he's a girl!
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Ugh this has recently happened to me with TWO of my best guy friends. Really disappointing


They were never really your guy friends. They just wanted in your pants. I don't blame them though, most guys are like that. Too pussy to man up and just say that they want you in the sack then and there.
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#24
I'd find it rather annoying if my gf'd spend more time with some other guy than with me.
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I wouldn't want to be close friends with a girl who had a boyfriend. Respect and worry of getting my ass kicked.


im friends with a girl who has a BF tried to ask her out she said no ok we're still friends im also good friends with the BF too so im cool.
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im friends with a girl who has a BF tried to ask her out she said no ok we're still friends im also good friends with the BF too so im cool.

Punctuation please. I can't read that fast.
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#27
Maus you dont have to read it that fast. and i couldnt be bothered with the punctuation. there is that better?
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#28
I agree with the multiple posts...about it being the gf's fault
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#29
To a point, yes. But you must remember that at at least one point during the friendship of a guy and a girl, one of them is always gonna wanna step it up.
Me, I asked this chick out, got rejected and found out she was a lesbian. Later on, she was one of my best friends in high school. So it depends, really.
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Maus you dont have to read it that fast. and i couldnt be bothered with the punctuation. there is that better?


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#31
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They were never really your guy friends. They just wanted in your pants. I don't blame them though, most guys are like that. Too pussy to man up and just say that they want you in the sack then and there.


I was hoping that wasn't the case
#32
dw i can be your guy friend... but yeah most guys just want in your pants.
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#34
it depends on the person. some girls i just really like, but some of my female "friends" are just people who I'd really like to bang.

and in 2 instances, have.
#35
Well, in my opinion a person can have only 1 or 2 real Friends. You can know 10000 guys or girls and go out with them and have fun, but no more than 1 or 2 are real Friends with capital F. They are just people that you know.

And a guy rarely have a female Friend. Girlfriend or just person that he know.
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I was hoping that wasn't the case


Its not always, i am friends with about 65-70% girls in relation to boys and i have a girlfriend and thats fine as long as i can be trusted not to flirt with every girl in the world
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dw i can be your guy friend... but yeah most guys just want in your pants.

aww thanks....i think :S

and yeah, I have plenty of guy friends that are just guys that i KNOW but the ones i get close to (friends with a capital F) always leave me
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i have plenty of female friends, but they keep asking me out... am i a fool for refusing?


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probably because his gf doesn't want him hanging out with another girl?

thats called being 'whipped' children
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