#1
hey pit i need some advice.
there was this buddy if mine whos been dating his gf for a while now which is great for him except that shes a huge bitch. Lately he hasnt been hanging with any of his old friends, or future band mates. we both took up music with the intent of forming a band together but lately he hasnt been around to any jams or at least even hung out with any of his old friends. now the big problem is he is an amazing singer and some friends and i would love to have him in the band but he is way too involved with his gf and now its even impeding on our friendship as well as our musicianship.

what should i do?tell him to piss of and just find a new singer/friend or sabotage his relationship(just kidding) or what?

he [was] actually a really close friend too.

thanks,
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#2
Eh, they'll break up eventually. Spending so much time together will eventually cause em to hate each other.
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#3
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Eh, they'll break up eventually. Spending so much time together will eventually cause em to hate each other.


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#4
Instead of telling him to piss off talk to him about it. -.-


Jesus where has common sense fled to?!
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#5
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Instead of telling him to piss off talk to him about it. -.-


Jesus where has common sense fled to?!



Common what?


In all seriousness:
I agree with Oblivion.
#7
I think you should fight him. If you win, she gets kicked to the curb.

Or, talk to him about your feelings...no wait, he's getting ass, so that won't work....

Wait it out, he'll come around eventually. Yeah, that's the one.
#8
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hug


Thanks! *Hugs back*
funkyducky


Icing happen when de puck come down, BANG, you know,
before de oder guys, nobody dere, you know.
My arm go comme ça, den de game stop den start up.

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#9
You could always just talk to him. But until you grow a vagina, she's got the upper hand.
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#10
To be honest, I hate these kinds of people. I have a girlfriend as well now, but no way that I'm letting my friends down.

Bros before hoes. Tell him that. Especially if she's a bitchy ho.
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#11
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Instead of telling him to piss off talk to him about it. -.-


Jesus where has common sense fled to?!

this
#13
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Thanks! *Hugs back*


awwwwww shucks


see, this is what friendship looks like
#14
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Instead of telling him to piss off talk to him about it. -.-


Jesus where has common sense fled to?!



Johhanesburg I believe.
#15
Tell him that if he has ever valued your friendship, then his girlfriend could understand that he needs to set aside at least 2 hours for band practice. Tell him to even bring her to practice; he will immediately link band practice to ass-getting.
#17
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Instead of telling him to piss off talk to him about it. -.-


Jesus where has common sense fled to?!

It's the pit, rarely is there common sense here.
When there is, the thread is closed and theres like another 50+ to take over it waiting for more GOOD ANSWERED & INFORMED replies.
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#18
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awwwwww shucks


see, this is what friendship looks like




TS, a friend of mine used to be that way, but worse...

...he began trying to f*ck with every girl in the school just because a fat bitch wanted to sex him...and he was a complete dic*head
funkyducky


Icing happen when de puck come down, BANG, you know,
before de oder guys, nobody dere, you know.
My arm go comme ça, den de game stop den start up.

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#19
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Tell him that if he has ever valued your friendship, then his girlfriend could understand that he needs to set aside at least 2 hours for band practice. Tell him to even bring her to practice; he will immediately link band practice to ass-getting.



And then maybe the whole band can nail her.
#20
yeah ill guess ill just wait it out, i talked to him a couple times and he doesnt realize what he's doing i guess, or hes a twat. but whatever i got a newish singer and im planning to record some acoustic covers with him
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#21
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yeah ill guess ill just wait it out, i talked to him a couple times and he doesnt realize what he's doing i guess, or hes a twat. but whatever i got a newish singer and im planning to record some acoustic covers with him


You know you're in the exact situation with me.
My best friend's life is being engulfed by his gf too.
And he was supposed to be my singer too.

I spoke to him.


... Not much changed. But hey... that's life.
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#22
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And then maybe the whole band can nail her.


i want in, literally
#23
There's always a 'honeymoon period' at the start of relationships. Some last longer than others.
Don't think he hasn't realised that he isn't seeing much of his friends. Give it time
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