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This could go in the relationship thread, but its not a relationship, maybe something similar i don't know. Ok, I've been hangin out with this girl i used to go to school with, and we've been havin sleep overs at each thers house, spooning, making out, but not bangin (as of yet).

Last night we were in bed making out and we got into that spot where we could of nailed each other, but there's this lame problem. She broke up with her bf of 5yrs about 2-3 months ago, he still wants her, but she also broke up with him because she had feelings for another bloke. Then i came into the picture, after all this happened, and we began to hang out at until we jumped in bed with each other, she told me how she likes us both and just doesn't know what to do. I really do like her, but its just hard when you know she likes another person, i don't know what I'm meant to say, i can't suggest what to do. I've been taking it easy on her, we didn't start making out until about the 4th time we slept together. Last night i was in the spot where i could have nailed her, but i just didn't want to because she also likes another dude, and i didnt want to **** her feelings up or try to force her into things, since shes just got out of a 5 year relationship. And also if anything, i don't wanna **** myself up over this incase she turns around and says no to me in the end. I really don't know what im meant to do from here...

Thoughts pit?
#2
This is my only advice.... if you do sleep with her, make sure you watch out for her pussy troll.

edit: and sorry to be a grammar nazi but...
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#4
I'm gunna get some popcorn and come back to this thread later
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#5
You sure that's a good question to ask The Pit?
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#7
You sound like a nice guy for refraining from causing complications. Just talk to her about it.
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#8
this does goes in the relationship thread but i wont report it.

yes nail her.....(pit response)


but seriously just let her make a deicision
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#14
It sounds like she's a bit wishy washy. Tell her about your feelings for her and that you want to be with her, but not if it's going to make her go through all that confusion and uncertainty. Tell her to make up her mind (in nicer words than those, of course) and that you want what's best for both of you.
#17
its surprisingly easy to change peoples feelings (if your the better bloke)

just take it easy and be patient let her make her own decision
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#18
fap............... rape............... i cum blood. You know, the average pit response.
#19
That's what happened between me and my Ex.

She went for my best friend. 'Broke up' with him and invited me over a few nights later.
I was going to say no, but my friend started being a ****ing asshole about him dating her so I was like "**** this i'll go" I turn up, at the end of a good night she says she was still dating him. She broke up with him the next few days and we carried on late night visits.

The guy's an ass and deserved to be CRUSHED.

Sorry this post isn't useful to you, you're in a different situation.
#20
rape her


im the first to suggest?..

damnit!! beaten to it!
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#21
i dont understand how a girl could have feelings for two guys, she's gotta like one of you more
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That's what happened between me and my Ex.

She went for my best friend. 'Broke up' with him and invited me over a few nights later.
I was going to say no, but my friend started being a ****ing asshole about him dating her so I was like "**** this i'll go" I turn up, at the end of a good night she says she was still dating him. She broke up with him the next few days and we carried on late night visits.

The guy's an ass and deserved to be CRUSHED.

Sorry this post isn't useful to you, you're in a different situation.


FINALLY! Someone who knows my pain! Only with me, she dated him for 8 months, and the visits stopped completely


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#25
holy crap im in a similar situation minus the other dude and the sleeping over (i wish). I just told her last week that i couldn't keep being her "friend" like that and hang out around her if she still has feelings for her ex (even though she told me i am "better"(as a person, companion, listener) than her ex but she cant get over him).

So since that day (last week) we havent spoke. I hope the message she got from this is that if she really wants to be with me, then get over her ex.

I hear you TS. we are too good of dudes. ha
#27
Kick her to the curb and drink some brewskis with your brahs!
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#28
Just be upfront and patient.

That's all you really can do.

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#29
The pit really is the most useless place to ask these kind of questions
But imo, you should just talk to her. There's no other way really than that, and you 2 seem to be quite close so it shouldn't pose a problem.
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This could go in the relationship thread, but its not a relationship, maybe something similar i don't know. Ok, I've been hangin out with this girl i used to go to school with, and we've been havin sleep overs at each thers house, spooning, making out, but not bangin (as of yet).

Last night we were in bed making out and we got into that spot where we could of nailed each other, but there's this lame problem. She broke up with her bf of 5yrs about 2-3 months ago, he still wants her, but she also broke up with him because she had feelings for another bloke. Then i came into the picture, after all this happened, and we began to hang out at until we jumped in bed with each other, she told me how she likes us both and just doesn't know what to do. I really do like her, but its just hard when you know she likes another person, i don't know what I'm meant to say, i can't suggest what to do. I've been taking it easy on her, we didn't start making out until about the 4th time we slept together. Last night i was in the spot where i could have nailed her, but i just didn't want to because she also likes another dude, and i didnt want to **** her feelings up or try to force her into things, since shes just got out of a 5 year relationship. And also if anything, i don't wanna **** myself up over this incase she turns around and says no to me in the end. I really don't know what im meant to do from here...

Thoughts pit?



Unfortunately, this is what you are to her. Don't take it too seriously. Even if you guys do date, it most likely won't last. But if you don't mind having casual sex without a relationship, then do that. It sounds like that's what she wants (and needs).
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#32
Unless you're aching for sex, I'd say to stay out of this one. It's one of those deals where you just back away with your hands in front of you.
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It sounds like she's a bit wishy washy. Tell her about your feelings for her and that you want to be with her, but not if it's going to make her go through all that confusion and uncertainty. Tell her to make up her mind (in nicer words than those, of course) and that you want what's best for both of you.

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holy crap im in a similar situation minus the other dude and the sleeping over (i wish).


Same here, only in my case it's without the girl as well. Basically my hand is not happy with me.
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#35
Just hang around for a little while dude but make sure you dont grow any serious feelings about her otherwise it could end sour for you
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#36
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Just hang around for a little while dude but make sure you dont grow any serious feelings about her otherwise it could end sour for you


Or it could go the other way and end salty for her.
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#37
Yeah patience and play it cool i think would be the best choice i think, she knows i like her but i won't push on it.

I dunno about the rebound thing though, i think i would be able to see it. The feelings between us just have something different about it. arrg
#38
My advice is to go get tested, never know how many tongues have been between those lips buddy!
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#39
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Yeah patience and play it cool i think would be the best choice i think, she knows i like her but i won't push on it.

I dunno about the rebound thing though, i think i would be able to see it. The feelings between us just have something different about it. arrg

No no, you're a rebound. There is no way she's going to be over such a long relationship after only a couple months. It just... it isn't possible. I'm not saying she's being malicious, though. She might not even realize it.
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#40
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Same here, only in my case it's without the girl as well. Basically my hand is not happy with me.

wtf?

maddbasslover: Tell her to make up her mind (in nicer words than those, of course).


I guess that's the hardest part of all. I cant find a way around it so thats why i decided to distance myself if she kept acting like that. You think she got the memo?
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