how do you get to make friends and talk to each other .... outside looking in
Talk to people, get around a bit, you'll make friends soon enough, as long as you're not an ass.

My things:
Bowes SLx7
Washburn WG587
Washburn X40Pro
Washburn X50
Washburn HM24
Washburn WR150
Laguna LE200s
Arietta Acoustic
First Act
Valveking 112
VHT Deliverance