#1
First off, I don't think this should go in the relationship thread because it's more about friendship than liking any girls.

My best friend is this girl named Sami and we do everything together and can talk about virtually anything. I met her around 7 months ago.

Before I met Sami, her best friend was a girl named Laura.

Sami and I started hanging out before I ever met Laura, and she didn't like me at the beginning though over time she began to accept me.

So the three of us became what I liked to call a "best friend threesome", though Laura and I weren't as close as either of us were with Sami, but we kind of accepted that.

Around a month or two ago Laura got a boyfriend and started ditching Sami and I to hang out with him. It got to the point where she was spending every day of the week at his house and if she wasn't there then the boyfriend was calling Sami or I to find out where Laura was.

Laura got kind of distant from Sami and I, but the two of us became closer friends in Laura's absence.

Well, about a week ago Laura realized that she wasn't really close with either of us anymore and I have a feeling she was jealous of how close friends Sami and I were without her.

Tonight I was crusing through Myspace and found that Sami posted a bulletin saying that she and Laura were gonna go get half-bite piercings tomorrow, which is why I'm writing this.

See, Sami told me a couple of months ago that she wanted to get a half-bite but was afraid to get one. I told her that I had wanted one for some time and was willing to get one with her. We decided that I'd take her to get it done on her birthday in March. Laura didn't even know Sami wanted a piercing until I said something about it.

So I feel like Laura is undermining me and it really pisses me off that Sami is gonna break the agreement she and I had.

So what do you guys think? Am I getting upset over nothing or am I on the right track with my thinking?

SUPEREDIT:

Okay, hold the phone, i got some news.

I am starting to agree with the guys who said they didn't think Laura was undermining me, and here's why.

Laura started to get distant when she started seeing a guy named Chris, but I guess she was still seeing her ex-boyfriend/baby's daddy at the same time.......anyway the guy named Rob just left me a comment on myspace (he and i have hung out and he added me as a friend) and he's been planning on moving out of state but said that he and Laura are now engaged though he's set to move in five days.....I'm guessing Laura is leaving with him so now things are definitely clearing up!
Last edited by dudius at Dec 26, 2008,
#2
Who the **** cares. Is the two of them getting a piercing going to destroy your friendship and solidify theirs?

No.
#5
You had an agreement with her to isolate that other girl? asshole you probably deserved the other side of the blade.
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#6
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Who the **** cares. Is the two of them getting a piercing going to destroy your friendship and solidify theirs?

No.


+1. Now, if they get BFF bracelets made, that's when you can start worrying.
#7
i don't blame you for being mad. that's pretty ****ty.
why don't you ask her (sami) about it?

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#8
I wouldnt worry about it yet. If this type of stuff keeps happening then you should do something
#9
if she only wants to get a half bite with laura, why dont you get the other half with her?
problem solved.
#10
You sir, have almost wasted your time typing that wall of text in the pit. So thank your god for copy and paste.

Now, i believe you should talk to Sami if you are REALLY mad about it. But it seems like there is really.. nothing to be mad about. And she + laura are close friends so.. It is probably YOU who are jealous as of now.

or..
Typical pit post:

FAP!

EDIT:

WTF is a half bite piercing??
#11
ALL HAIL HYPNOTOAD

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#12
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You had an agreement with her to isolate that other girl? asshole you probably deserved the other side of the blade.


We didn't plan to isolate Laura, though she wasn't really even talking to the two of us when we came to an agreement. I just hate that I find out this way; neither of them could even tell me themselves that they were thinking of doing this.

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i don't blame you for being mad. that's pretty ****ty.
why don't you ask her (sami) about it?


i would but i'm in such a bad mood that i don't wanna talk right now, i guess i'll sort out my thoughts and call tomorrow.

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I wouldnt worry about it yet. If this type of stuff keeps happening then you should do something


Laura's been doing little things here and there to undermine me, but this is the first big thing.
Last edited by dudius at Dec 26, 2008,
#13
years ago I was friends with some girls... and it was always a competition between them, as to whom I liked more... and it was bull****... we aren't friends anymore... basically because they felt I didn't hang out with them enough...

girls as friends... usually doesn't work out the best...
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#15
She probably has no idea it meant so much to you, honestly.

Why don't you just say something?
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#17
As the pit turns....
Best advise I can give you is that you need to do what's best for you. But you also need to realize that none of this will mean bung to you in 5 years. Keep that in mind at all times.

But then again, I've been married and divorced twice.

However....
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#18
Quote by dudius
I just hate that I find out this way; neither of them could even tell me themselves that they were thinking of doing this.



*sigh*

Dude, I HIGHLY doubt they went behind your back on purpose. If anything, they are going together so they can try to rekindle their own friendship between them. I don't think this Laura chick is trying to pull a fast one, she just doesn't want to be out of the loop any more.

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#19
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You sir, have almost wasted your time typing that wall of text in the pit. So thank your god for copy and paste.

Now, i believe you should talk to Sami if you are REALLY mad about it. But it seems like there is really.. nothing to be mad about. And she + laura are close friends so.. It is probably YOU who are jealous as of now.

or..
Typical pit post:

FAP!

EDIT:

WTF is a half bite piercing??


Like I said, I'll call tomorrow, I guess I forgot to mention that I'm out of town visiting my family for Christmas, if that says anything about Laura being opportunistic.

And a snake bite is what you call the piercings on the bottom lip (like Claudio Sanchez), a half bite is if you only have one side done.
#21
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Horrible idea...
half of you guys are looking for a pornstar, and the other half don't even know what a naked woman looks like.

UG Makeover = blowup doll
#22
Quote by dudius

And a snake bite is what you call the piercings on the bottom lip (like Claudio Sanchez), a half bite is if you only have one side done.


Omg your friendship threesome is gonna look so darling with matching piercings like that. I wish I could just eat you up.
#23
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Horrible idea...
half of you guys are looking for a pornstar, and the other half don't even know what a naked woman looks like.

UG Makeover = blowup doll


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#24
This sounds like straight from 90211.
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#25
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Fine. Dream crusher.

Well...
Can't say that you're not an honest man.
That's a start isn't it?
#26
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This sounds like straight from 90211.


...from where?
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#27
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...from where?


it's a tv show...similar to the OC/Hills.
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#28
I'm just fecking with you because it's 90210.
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#29
Okay, hold the phone, i got some news.

I am starting to agree with the guys who said they didn't think Laura was undermining me, and here's why.

Laura started to get distant when she started seeing a guy named Chris, but I guess she was still seeing her ex-boyfriend/baby's daddy at the same time.......anyway the guy named Rob just left me a comment on myspace (he and i have hung out and he added me as a friend) and he's been planning on moving out of state but said that he and Laura are now engaged though he's set to move in five days.....I'm guessing Laura is leaving with him so now things are definitely clearing up!

EDIT: And I don't mean "clearing up" as in "Laura's out of the picture", but "OH, now I know what the f*ck is going on"
Last edited by dudius at Dec 26, 2008,
#30
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I'm guessing Laura is leaving with him so now things are definitely clearing up!


Oh thank gawd! Now I can sleep easy.
#31
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Oh thank gawd! Now I can sleep easy.


heh...
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On second thought, **** tuning forks. You best be carrying around a grand piano that was tuned by an Italian