Poll: Does it matter if a guy is chubby??
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Yes
65 33%
No
50 26%
Depends on the situation
80 41%
Voters: 195.
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#1
Does it matter if a guy is chubby? I have put on a couple of pounds since I was 15 (I'm not obese, but definitely a bit chubbier) and I was wondering if it mattered to a girl, if it would put girls off in any way. I do have a girlfriend, but I was just wondering, I do get rather self conscious about the whole thing and I'm in the process of doing something about it and losing weight. Any tips to help me lose weight would go down a treat also
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#5
well if u aint happy then just lose the weight


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#6
Personality matters way more, I've known a lot of fat guys who can get the chicks.
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#7
It depends.

Before I started dieting, girls mercilessly made fun of my weight, now they tell me I'm disgustingly skinny. It's a lose-lose situation. Our best bet is to just turn gay.
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#8
You can use it to your advantage. If you're trying to pull a girl who's particularly insecure (especially about her weight) you can say some sort of passing comment like "God I'm fat hahah" (without making a huge point of it.

If they take notice of it they'll subconciously think to themselves "If he's able to to admit he has a problem with his weight and doesn't seem too bothered then he probably won't be too bothered about my weight problem".

tl;dr
Admit jokingly that you are fat and girls will like you.
#11
Confidence owns all other attributes. If your weight is making you unhappy, then do something about it. If you're fine with how you look then it will show in your attitude.
#12
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Confidence owns all other attributes. If your weight is making you unhappy, then do something about it. If you're fine with how you look then it will show in your attitude.

Same thing goes for girls actually.

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#13
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Same thing goes for girls actually.

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Agree with you I do.

When you're having to constantly reassure someone that you're attracted to them and/or that they're interesting to be around, and they can't just pick it up from how you are around them, it kinda kills the mood. Same applies for being constantly -told- that sort of stuff. I know already dammit! Uncertainty keeps things interesting if you can handle it.
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And ive seen SO MANY chubby porn stars, so chubbyness is obviously not an issue.
Obesity and rolls of fat spilling over your belt buckle however, is a problem...
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The biggest playa/man***** of our college was chubby. Charisma is the key.

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Seriously, if you're confident, girls will love you anyway. I'm a pretty big guy (about 95kg) and I have absolutely no trouble.
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THIS

Seriously, if you're confident, girls will love you anyway. I'm a pretty big guy (about 95kg) and I have absolutely no trouble.


That's bullshit. 2 years ago, I had charisma, but girls still called me a fat cunt, asked me to jump up and down so they could see my manboobs bounce, and laugh at me endlessly in PE.
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#19
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You can use it to your advantage. If you're trying to pull a girl who's particularly insecure (especially about her weight) you can say some sort of passing comment like "God I'm fat hahah" (without making a huge point of it.

If they take notice of it they'll subconciously think to themselves "If he's able to to admit he has a problem with his weight and doesn't seem too bothered then he probably won't be too bothered about my weight problem".

tl;dr
Admit jokingly that you are fat and girls will like you.


Wow, i totally realized that this works. I have used this a few times to moderate success.
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That's bullshit. 2 years ago, I had charisma, but girls still called me a fat cunt, asked me to jump up and down so they could see my manboobs bounce, and laugh at me endlessly in PE.


If it wasn't that, they'd have found another reason to laugh at you.

Only guys I've met that couldn't score had personality troubles, it was never about their looks.
#21
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That's bullshit. 2 years ago, I had charisma, but girls still called me a fat cunt, asked me to jump up and down so they could see my manboobs bounce, and laugh at me endlessly in PE.


Ok well the girls you know are total b*tches! Why would you want anything to do with girls who say that sh*t? The girls worth getting with are the ones who have more of a personality than that
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#22
It depends on how chubby you are. Myself and most girls I know prefer slightly chubby to skinny guys. Personality matters more thank looks anyway.
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#23
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That's bullshit. 2 years ago, I had charisma, but girls still called me a fat cunt, asked me to jump up and down so they could see my manboobs bounce, and laugh at me endlessly in PE.

Well did you eventually get any?
#24
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That's bullshit. 2 years ago, I had charisma, but girls still called me a fat cunt, asked me to jump up and down so they could see my manboobs bounce, and laugh at me endlessly in PE.



If so, then congrats to you, i like people who can make something about their physique, not just bitching about their wheight.
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#26
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Seriously, if you're confident, girls will love you anyway.


I'd rather be with a skinny guy than a confident... even chubby guy anyday.

My man is very skinny... I think skinnier than me. He's healthy... and he is very sexy.

Maybe it's just me, but I can't stand it if people are out of shape.

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#27
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It depends.

Before I started dieting, girls mercilessly made fun of my weight, now they tell me I'm disgustingly skinny. It's a lose-lose situation. Our best bet is to just turn gay.

this is probably true. i'm not going to turn gay though. girls hate skinny, fat, muscular, hairy, etc. which is why the "i wish i was born a hot girl" thread makes a lot of sense to people.
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#28
It all depends.

People keep trying to look for some massive golden rule when it comes to these things, but there just isn't one.

You've seen people say that the fattest guys they know get lots of tail purely based on personality, and you've seen people say that confidence doesn't mean crap if you're not skinny.

I'd deliver some kind of uplifting statement but i don't need to.
A: You have a girlfriend, so no need to worry about trying to pull in other chicks
B: You've already started trying to lose weight.

So quit yer bitchin.
#29
I have several friends who are total chunks that rake in the females. I'm kinda chubby but I don't really care, I'm not really into "playing the field" anyway.
#31
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I'd rather be with a skinny guy than a confident... even chubby guy anyday.

My man is very skinny... I think skinnier than me. He's healthy... and he is very sexy.

Maybe it's just me, but I can't stand it if people are out of shape.


See what I mean?

Girls are bitches.
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#32
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I'd rather be with a skinny guy than a confident... even chubby guy anyday.

My man is very skinny... I think skinnier than me. He's healthy... and he is very sexy.

Maybe it's just me, but I can't stand it if people are out of shape.

How shallow and superficial of you. You aren't even pretty enough to be worth the effort.
#33
Quote by tugboat
I'd rather be with a skinny guy than a confident... even chubby guy anyday.

My man is very skinny... I think skinnier than me. He's healthy... and he is very sexy.

Maybe it's just me, but I can't stand it if people are out of shape.


Seeing how your boyfriend sounds so skinny that I could break his ass in two, I find it hard to believe that you "can't stand it if people are out of shape."

EDIT: Unless you're fat as hell, then he's probably regular.
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#34
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How shallow and superficial of you. You aren't even pretty enough to be worth the effort.

#35
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How shallow and superficial of you. You aren't even pretty enough to be worth the effort.




Take that back though, mate. She's out of order to say that, but it's no reason to come back with that.
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#36
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How shallow and superficial of you. You aren't even pretty enough to be worth the effort.

K.

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#40
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Doesn't feel too nice, does it?

Feels awesome to know that soon I'm going over my man's house, with whom I've been together for... what, years now? And I'm going to have a damn good time knowing that we're both healthily in shape and we love each other enough to care for our bodies to look nice.

Yeah, I might be a bitch, but I'd be an even bigger bitch if I lied and said "If guys are chubby, it doesn't matter."

I like being in shape.

P.S. I'm a womanfolk! : )
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