#1
Urgent.

I am in an extremely awkward relationship with a girl I would like to break up with. Thing is, doing it in real life would be horrible, but I guess I can do it if I need to.

The question, how horrible (EDIT: gutless and an asshole) would I be if I broke up with her over the phone?
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Last edited by Wulphy at Jan 10, 2009,
#4
Do it in person. It'll save you the tearful episode when she sees you again. Seriously, it's hard, but it'll be easier in the long run.
#5
if your awkwardness about doing it in person beats the guilt you'll feel about doing it over the phone, then by all means go ahead....
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#6
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Not so much "horrible," as "gutless and an asshole."


This.

Man up and do it in person.
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#7
it wouldn't be terrible if you did it over the phone, she would EVENTUALLY get over it, but it might just be a bit more courteous to do it in person, but whatever, your call
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#12
If you don't want to protect the friendship, then do it over the phone so she can hate you for it and thus get over you quicker. If you want her to speak to you again(but after a long time of ignoring you), do it in person.
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#14
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Send her a self-addressed letter. It adds a very personal touch.

You know, I've been thinking about breaking up with my girlfriend that way. Do you guys think it's gutless at all?
I can honestly say I have really been far even as decided to use even go want to do look more like.


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#15
Seriously, do it in person. Its kinda weird, very difficult, and it sucks. But in the long run its worth it, and you'll be glad you did it in such a manner.
#16
don't be a pussy, just tell her
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#17
dude. do it in person, in a crowed area so she cant make a scene, but be ready for her trying to embaress you, so have a good comeback ready (y)..
good luck lol,
#18
it sucks getting dumped online/on the phone. SO BE A MAN, man!
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#20
Stop and consider the fact that feelings can always change and you may eventually wish to have some sort of connection with this person again. End the relationship if you no longer want to be in it, but leave it in a way that won't prevent you from having contact with her again in the future. In other words, do it in a way you won't have to apologize for later on if you do decide to have any sort of contact with her again.
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#21
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Just stop talking to her forever.

No, that can be psychologically damaging to people.
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No, that can be psychologically damaging to people.

That's why all my ex's hung themselves, perhaps?
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#23
No, just send her this thread. Or post in on some **** hole like 4chan, and send her the link.


No really, that's douchebaggery. Just do it in person. Cause if you don't the **** storm will ensue once you see her again.
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#25
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That's why all my ex's hung themselves, perhaps?

You know, that could have been it. Or you just have a strong attraction towards depressed women.
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#26
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You know, I've been thinking about breaking up with my girlfriend that way. Do you guys think it's gutless at all?


Yeah...no.

Do it in person. ALWAYS!
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You know, that could have been it. Or you just have a strong attraction towards depressed women.

Well, I do like to surround myself with the type of people where I can look at them and say to myself "Well, at least my life isn't as f*cked as thiers! "
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#28
complete asshole, you should go an kill yourself because of it...
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Well, I do like to surround myself with the type of people where I can look at them and say to myself "Well, at least my life isn't as f*cked as thiers! "

You are the most sensitive person I've ever met. I hope to be like you someday.
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#31
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You are the most sensitive person I've ever met. I hope to be like you someday.

And that's about when I broke up with her...
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#32
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Do it in person, you get more satisfaction. I broke up with my girlfriend a few days ago, Im so happy I did it in person. I loved her reaction. Yeah, im an asshole......wanna fight about it?


asshole, jk, i know what you mean, the look they give is worth it.

dude, be a man and do it in person, i got my ass dumped over the phone and pissed m off. I actually still hate her, but thats other story. grow a pair.
#33
Don't be an ass. Man up and do it in person.
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#34
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not as bad as if you did it with texting

My first thought was that if he evil enough to do it over the phone, he might as well make it even more horrible by doing it over text.
#35
Do it in person.

I broke up with a girl over the phone once and it's one of the biggest regrets.