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I'm a resident assistant at the university I attend. Earlier today was notified that a resident's mom passed and she needed to be informed. They asked if I was comfortable doing it, and I said I was ok. I didn't know the girl, but the death was out of the blue and took her by total surprise. I've never felt so sorry for someone in my life. I just stood there, holding her as she got more and more hysterical, until she finally calmed down. One of the hardest experiences I've ever had.
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Quote by rossjohnson87
I'm a resident assistant at the university I attend. Earlier today was notified that a resident's mom passed and she needed to be informed. They asked if I was comfortable doing it, and I said I was ok. I didn't know the girl, but the death was out of the blue and took her by total surprise. I've never felt so sorry for someone in my life. I just stood there, holding her as she got more and more hysterical, until she finally calmed down. One of the hardest experiences I've ever had.

Anyone with similar experiences?


Fixed. No I've never gone through that. Sad to hear.
#4
s'brave of you to take on such a task though.
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#6
I agree that it was probably hard for you to tell her, but I still feel worse for the girl whose mother died.

That sucks for both of you though honestly... my condolences.
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Man, depressing stuff here on the Pit lately.
I'm sorry you had to go through that...


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Man, depressing stuff here on the Pit lately.
I'm sorry you had to go through that...

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And yeah, that would suck. I don't think I could do it.
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pics or it didnt happen

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pics or it didnt happen


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#18
Wow, good for you TS. You might wanna check up on her every now and then just to make sure she's okay.
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Good job on taking on the responsibility, I know a lot of people here wouldn't have been able to handle it.
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#23
Just a rough experience overall. She left soon afterwards, and I notified her professors that she would likely be gone a week. Whole thing, just something you didn't think you'd ever have to do as a RA. But yea, don't feel sorry for me, feel bad for the gal. Had to tell someone though.
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Dip****. Reported


are you ****ing ****ting me dude? I'm purely calling bull****
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Once a troll, always a troll.

And massive sympathy to TS and to the poor girl.

I remember when my ex-gfs dad died a couple of years ago whilst I was with her, can't think of anything much harder to deal with.
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I recognize your name. Weren't you a troll once?

everyone has been a troll in the pit at least once. Nonetheless *highfive* man it took balls to do that.
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are you ****ing ****ting me dude? I'm purely calling bull****

and for what reason?
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#28
Wow dude, respect for having the heart to do that. It must of hit you deep.
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are you ****ing ****ting me dude? I'm purely calling bull****

Yes, he did. You were an insensitive asshat.
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#30
You know what's crazy?
That girl doesn't even know you but she'll remember you for the rest of your life.
anyways, really sad...you should see if people will pitch for flowers or something.
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#31
Quote by Stingray5
are you ****ing ****ting me dude? I'm purely calling bull****


no your not. your "purely" being an asshole. how the **** would someone have pics of that? and why would someone lie about that? thats quite a story to make up. your the only one laughing at what you said, btw.
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#32
Wow total thread jack. What the **** is a troll? and why are you calling me one?

And I'm calling bull**** because this is the internet and 90% of it is bull****

sweet fancy moses

If anything you should be offended by this guy coming on the internet and bragging to everyone about it...I'm sure this girl would be (if she exists)
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heck, i'll pitch in for flowers.

Yeah, love from strangers counts so much more in times like those because, well you expect people like your family to be there for you, but you don't expect it from the randoms and that's what helps you keep going.
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Wow total thread jack. What the **** is a troll? and why are you calling me one?

And I'm calling bull**** because this is the internet and 90% of it is bull****

sweet fancy moses

No one cares if you think it's fake. It was insensitive
The will be heartache,
there will be rain,
and joy I can't explain.
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good job man, you did a great thing. like someone else sed, she'll remember you forever, but if u ever see her, talk to her and be nice, since she will remember you. im sure someone would want good memories of the person who gave them the worst news of their life. check up on her, but try not to be a creeper haha. once again, that takes some balls to do that.
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