Poll: What should I have done?
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View poll results: What should I have done?
Had sex with her, idiot!
15 12%
Running away... Great idea...
5 4%
Shouldn't have kissed girl B/drank so much in the first place
72 56%
Keep your mouth shut and you'll be alright
37 29%
Voters: 129.
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#1
I'll set the picture - I've been with my girlfriend for about 2 years now, really close, never cheated on her at all. Until...

I kissed this girl quite a lot the other night after a bit to drink. She invited me back into her room but I said no and ran off, thinking that having sex with her would be too far.

But looking back, did I make the right decision? Nobody knows about it and I haven't seen that girl since, and me and my gf are getting on as good as ever, with her none-the-wiser. Should I have had sex with girl B? Or would my concience get the better of me?

Edit: *I'll point out that girl B was stunning but didn't have the funnyness/cuteness of my girlfriend. A relationship with girl B would never work.*


Yes I used the searchbar and rape doesn't come into the question as my girlfriend and the other girl are quite willing to have sex with me!
Last edited by the fendernator at Jan 16, 2009,
#3
Tell her. Honestly.

Maybe she'll get over the kiss, you made the right decision by running away, but kissing the other girl was a bad move in the first place.

Oh, take this to the relationship thread.
#4
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#5
Yes. Go back and have sex with girl B. You'll feel like a load has been let off...of your shoulders..
#6
Cheating = Bad.

It will come back and chomp you on the ass.
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#7
Chop your dick off. That's my advice.

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#8
You would have been a major douche-bird, so, it's a good thing you didn't.
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#9
so you think it's alright to have sex with her since no one knew?

that makes sense. you screwed up.
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#16
Don't cheat on your girlfriend, dick.
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#18
It'd be funny if somebody Steve the Plank'd this guy,

emailed his girl the link to this thread or somethin.
#20
Quote by the fendernator
But I didn't want to have sex with her. That's why I ran off!

yeah you did or you wouldn't have asked "should i have had sex with girl B"
also, having sex with someone else is too far?
kissing someone else is ****ing too far!!! cheating is cheating man, let it eat you to death or submission
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#23
My opinion?

You were a douchebag. A douchebag appetizer, followed by a huge roast douchebag, with a side of douchebag and extra douchebag sauce. Served on a platter made from the finest douchebag money can buy. However, you did the right thing by running off.

But if you want to stay with your GF, then nothing happened. Got it?

It's dishonest. But if you do it right (or wrong?), it should work.
#24
Give her like a dozen roses and tell her and tell her your sorry.

Although that does sound kinda cliche'-ish.

And your a faggot.
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#25
dude its best to avoid any situation like that at all, even if you miss ouy on some fun! why wasn't ur gf there neway
#26
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My opinion?


if you want to stay with your GF, then nothing happened. Got it?

It's dishonest. But if you do it right (or wrong?), it should work.



Well that's what I'm doing at the moment and it works fine, but it's not a nice feeling. If my life was a movie I would have told my gf.
#27
Wait. So you're saying your girlfriend doesn't know you cheated on her so you wish you'd had sex with this girl?

Jackass.

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#31
You made the right decision.

Now you should tell your gf about it, and if you two are as close as you say, maybe she'll let it go, as she should, because it was just a kiss.
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#32
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dude its best to avoid any situation like that at all, even if you miss out on some fun! why wasn't ur gf there neway



Me and my gf are at different universities so can only see each other once or twice a month. In holidays we see each other all the time of course, and last year we frequently saw each other at college since we went to the same place.

I guess I'm going to have to forget about cheating on her. I'll watch beheading videos or something to take my mind off it.
#34
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No I'm asking, in heinsight, should I have? If I really wanted to I would have done so the other night but something good inside made me run away.


Why the fuck would that question even be on your mind?
#35
Quote by the fendernator
I'll set the picture - I've been with my girlfriend for about 2 years now, really close, never cheated on her at all. Until...

I kissed this girl quite a lot the other night after a bit to drink. She invited me back into her room but I said no and ran off, thinking that having sex with her would be too far.

But looking back, did I make the right decision? Nobody knows about it and I haven't seen that girl since, and me and my gf are getting on as good as ever, with her none-the-wiser. Should I have had sex with girl B? Or would my concience get the better of me?

Edit: *I'll point out that girl B was stunning but didn't have the funnyness/cuteness of my girlfriend. A relationship with girl B would never work.*


Yes I used the searchbar and rape doesn't come into the question as my girlfriend and the other girl are quite willing to have sex with me!

Dude, what the **** do you expect everyone here to say?

You ****ed up. Break it off with your current girl if you're going to **** another. I will applaud you for not going all the way though.

edit:
And for the love of God, don't use drinking as an excuse.
#37
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lol @ the people getting mad about people who cheat on their girlfriends. happens everyday, get used to it.

Yeah, and people die everyday for no good reason. I guess we should just ignore it and not bother being upset by that and all the other injustices in the world, right?

Oh, no, wait, that's exactly what's wrong with the world. Nice logic, smartass.
#38
here's some advice.

GO DIE.
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#39
dude, trust me, cheating never ends well. u might have some fun ****ing the other chick but ull feel like a total dousche afterwards. if ur gonna hook up with the other chick, break it off with ur gf. if ur gf really means that much to u, tell her. it will be easier on her to hear it from u instead of somebody else. deal with the consequences of ur actions.
#40
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dont cheat on your gf.

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