#1
I'm in need of alot of help. There's a girl I'm "close friends" with. We really are close friends though. And recently we've been having sex. She told me today she's worried because she 3 days late on her period. I know it's not too many days, but I'm freaking out. I'm only 17 and I can't be a father yet. Im only in High School! I did have a condom on but I still didn't pull out even though I should have. It was stupid on my part and I've never stayed in before. She has been known to be late alot of times. But for some reason this is really worrying me to the point I can't stop shaking. I keep going to different people, even my two bestfriends, and still can't get a right answer.

Luckily if she really is my parents should take it easier then her's. My dad had a kid when he was 17 and still has yet to see him/her and plans not too. My mother was pregnant at 17 but had an abortion 2 months in.

Please i beg you UG,
I need your advice on this...
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#2
Go to relationship thread. This stuff happens all the damn time, don't get too worked up.
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#3
Relationship thread.
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#4
Pregnancy test...
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#5
What the **** do you think we can do???

No but seriously, what DO you think we can do?
#8
yeah I'll take this to the relationship thread
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#9
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#10
Quote by shanglejr11
I'm in need of alot of help. There's a girl I'm "close friends" with. We really are close friends though. And recently we've been having sex. She told me today she's worried because she 3 days late on her period. I know it's not too many days, but I'm freaking out. I'm only 17 and I can't be a father yet. Im only in High School! I did have a condom on but I still didn't pull out even though I should have. It was stupid on my part and I've never stayed in before. She has been known to be late alot of times. But for some reason this is really worrying me to the point I can't stop shaking. I keep going to different people, even my two bestfriends, and still can't get a right answer.

Luckily if she really is my parents should take it easier then her's. My dad had a kid when he was 17 and still has yet to see him/her and plans not too. My mother was pregnant at 17 but had an abortion 2 months in.

Please i beg you UG,
I need your advice on this...



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#11
I have NEVER pulled out while wearing a condom.

Is this unusual or wtf?

Seriously, anyone?

And yea yea I'll take it to the sexthread if needed. Which is....actually...where this thread should be.
#12
actually forget that ill keep it here.
in that thread its due to change subject
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#13
Give her an abortion in her sleep with a wet-dry vac.

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#14
The thing is....she's completly against abortion. And it might sound sick and twisted but miscarriages run in her family, her mom would have had 20 kids by now literally and she would have been a twin.
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#15
Quote by ma)(payne
I have NEVER pulled out while wearing a condom.

Is this unusual or wtf?

Seriously, anyone?

And yea yea I'll take it to the sexthread if needed. Which is....actually...where this thread should be.


I thought that was sort of the point of a condom... I guess if you like to play it super safe though. Better make sure you double wrap that baby too, just in case.
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#17
Quote by Jericho114
I thought that was sort of the point of a condom... I guess if you like to play it super safe though. Better make sure you double wrap that baby too, just in case.


ive had a bad experience so i always have
i practically just use them now to last super long
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#18
Abortion!!!!!!!! Abortion!!!!!!!!!!!
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#19
Quote by Jericho114
I thought that was sort of the point of a condom... I guess if you like to play it super safe though.



Exactly! I couldn't imagine pulling out....thats the best part .

Just wanted to make sure I wasn't the one that was weird.
#20
You don't need to pull out if you're wearing a condom.

Get her tested, as soon as possible and before you do anything else. No ifs, no buts, just go do it.
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#21
Quote by neopowell
You don't need to pull out if you're wearing a condom.

Get her tested, as soon as possible and before you do anything else. No ifs, no buts, just go do it.


might sound like im bragging, but i let off ALOT...and thats normal for me.
this happened with another girl but she had a miscarriage

and im going to pick up a test tommorow
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#22
Quote by shanglejr11
ive had a bad experience so i always have
i practically just use them now to last super long


never ever, double rap, the friction of latex on latex more than doubles the chance of a breakage

I have NEVER pulled out while wearing a condom.

Is this unusual or wtf?

Seriously, anyone?

And yea yea I'll take it to the sexthread if needed. Which is....actually...where this thread should be



never pull out when wearing a condom, it can pull it off and you can end up ejaculating in her
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#23
If she's preggers, then run like the wind. Alternatively, force her to have an abortion.
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#24
Daddy i found you! Sorry man couldnt help it. If she late a lot dnt worry. Ask if she slept with someone else? If yes then deny til a test is done. Worst case... BE A Man
#25
TS, you did the right thing. You aren't supposed to pull out if you use condoms.
I can honestly say I have really been far even as decided to use even go want to do look more like.


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#26
Quote by shanglejr11
I'm in need of alot of help. There's a girl I'm "close friends" with. We really are close friends though. And recently we've been having sex. She told me today she's worried because she 3 days late on her period. I know it's not too many days, but I'm freaking out. I'm only 17 and I can't be a father yet. Im only in High School! I did have a condom on but I still didn't pull out even though I should have. It was stupid on my part and I've never stayed in before. She has been known to be late alot of times. But for some reason this is really worrying me to the point I can't stop shaking. I keep going to different people, even my two bestfriends, and still can't get a right answer.

Luckily if she really is my parents should take it easier then her's. My dad had a kid when he was 17 and still has yet to see him/her and plans not too. My mother was pregnant at 17 but had an abortion 2 months in.

Please i beg you UG,
I need your advice on this...

yeah that seems really mature and nice of your father.
#27
Quote by dethead666
yeah that seems really mature and nice of your father.



Well he didnt find out about it until about 7 months ago and she lives in like Oregon, honestly he may be the biological father but its too late to be a real father. The kids 23 now
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#28
at least your parents wouldn't be TOO pissed...but yeah, don't worry about it yet, you don't know if anything is even going on yet.
#29
Quote by shanglejr11
Well he didnt find out about it until about 7 months ago and she lives in like Oregon, honestly he may be the biological father but its too late to be a real father. The kids 23 now

oh sorry i thought you meant he just left the mother and child immediately.
#30
don't worry bro.... i was in the same position as you last month (with my girlfriend though, not a "friend" hahah....)

i was freaking out. she was 2 weeks late but then she took a test at the gyno and it was all good....

since then she got on nuvaring (birth control) and we've been fine...
#32
Yeah Im not for abortion, thats just effed up

Get A Job Nigga!

Almost The Same thing happened to me when i was 17

until i found out that ***** got knocked by someone else

Start Praying, thats what i did... or maybe play wrestle... just a thought
#33
Quote by shanglejr11
Well he didnt find out about it until about 7 months ago and she lives in like Oregon, honestly he may be the biological father but its too late to be a real father. The kids 23 now

hey im from oregon :O
uh oh
#34
ive just never thought of this ever happening before.
And about this girl being my friend. I dated her for a year. Lately we felt comfterable enough with each other to have a little fun. I've been meaning to get back together with her. I'm just not too sure if my parents would want me to after what had broken us up.
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#35
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#36
Quote by shanglejr11
ive just never thought of this ever happening before.
And about this girl being my friend. I dated her for a year. Lately we felt comfterable enough with each other to have a little fun. I've been meaning to get back together with her. I'm just not too sure if my parents would want me to after what had broken us up.

and what broke you up?
and who gives a **** about ur parents?
#37
Quote by sk8ordie97
and what broke you up?
and who gives a **** about ur parents?


what mainly broke us up was a a friend who can practically manipulate anyone. It really pissed me the **** off and i dont know how the hell i can still stay friends with him


and btw the relationship thread is locked
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#38
Quote by sk8ordie97
and what broke you up?
and who gives a **** about ur parents?

Responsibility it seems broke them up