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#1
or is it coonsidered weak?I mean among hot women and those types that are not used to it...
#3
I find they like it better when I act like a neanderthal.
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#4
yes they do like it, but you have to balance it out with being assertive and confident.
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#5
No. But girls get wet when you act like a pirate around them. Be sure to call them "wenches."
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#6
They like it but the hot ones are not attracted to it.
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#7
to clarify:
being a doormat != gentleman
being quiet and shy != gentleman
being submissive and insecure != gentleman
#8
Make sure you don't cross the line from gentlemanly to pushover. Open the door for her, pick up the bill, but don't let her push you around. If you're doing things for a girl because she wants you to and not because you want to do things for her, then there's a problem.
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#9
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#10
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to clarify:
being a doormat != gentleman
being quiet and shy != gentleman
being submissive and insecure != gentleman


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#11
you can be a gentleman all you like, but at the end of the day jizzing in your gf's eye isn't ever gonna be considered formal...

i don't know where i was going with that either.
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yes they do like it, but you have to balance it out with being assertive and confident.


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#14
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you can be a gentleman all you like, but at the end of the day jizzing in your gf's eye isn't ever gonna be considered formal...

i don't know where i was going with that either.


I have to disagree, it's very formal if you do it while in full evening dress (sans pants of course)

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"Good evening, My fine sirs!, Oh, do excuse me for a moment will you?... sammich woman! now, Ham! cheese! tomato! mayo! Nau!"

Will that get me women?


I think you're confusing being confident and assertive with being an asshole, most assholes are confident and assertive but they aren't mutually inclusive.
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#15
Gallantry is back

but yes, don't be a push-over
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#16
I never see guys acting like gentlemen on porn now, do I?
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#17
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I never see guys acting like gentlemen on porn now, do I?


It doesn't count if the chicks are being paid.
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#18
make her cum and you can pretty much be as ungentlemanly as you like for the next 8/10 minutes


rinse and repeat?
#19
i forget what the question is, but it's 8 in the morning and i dont have the capacity to scroll back up to the top of the screen...
#22
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I think you're confusing being confident and assertive with being an asshole, most assholes are confident and assertive but they aren't mutually inclusive.


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#24
yep. my lady likes it
but like others in the thread said, there is a clear distinction between chivalrous and a lapdog.

being that im generally a nice guy, ive been screwed over in on those grounds, and, under the assumption that i was just being generally courteous, gotten utterly used by past girlfriends.

you might have to learn the hard way too, but its easier to become more assertive, than to start out being a douche and work your way towards a civil human being.

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#25
Sometimes. Some girls like assholes. Some girls just don't like formality. It depends largely on what kind of girl you're dealing with.
#26
Here's the thing, bro...you either ARE a gentleman, or you're an ass.

My GF loves it when I insist on walking on the outside of the sidewalk, opening doors, pulling out chairs, etc., because that's just what I do.

She hated it when her previous boyfriends did it because they did it to get "gentleman" points or something dumb like that.

Girls love it when guys are gentlemen. Girls dislike it when guys act like gentlemen.
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#30
Of course not. Look at all the douchebags with hot girlfriends. Look at all the people who say "oh, I wish I could be with a nice guy like you" and then go home to a guy that hits her.
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#32
No...Women like it when you use the ABC thing - Always Be Complimentary.
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#33
Imagine a personality spectrum. Girls further to the left like a guy that's about as far as they are but to the right. The closer to the middle the girl is, the closer the the middle she'll like her guy.

This isn't scientific, but let's face it, not even science will help you get a girl. You just gotta fish for it and hope you get some bites.

About the gentleman thing, I think that if you're a gentleman then go for girls who want a gentleman. If you gotta change who you are to get a girl, she won't be worth it in the long run.
#34
I don't really think anyone can completely change their personality to be with a girl and if you're having to DRASTICALLY change yourself for her, she probably isn't for you.
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#37
be a gentleman. Don't be a pushover. But make her feel like a queen it'll work. Worked for me
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Of course not. Look at all the douchebags with hot girlfriends. Look at all the people who say "oh, I wish I could be with a nice guy like you" and then go home to a guy that hits her.

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#40
Women want what they can't have.

If they can't find a decent guy, they'll dig the gentlemanly types.
If all they get is guys that fall all over her, she'll probably want someone that challenges her and can be fine without her, or the "bad boy" persona.

It's not weak to be a gentleman, cause if you ask me, that just shows you respect women if anything. You'd be surprised how many girls dig that. But you'd also be surprised at how many chicks are insanely sexist, even towards themselves.

And I guess I've said that to say this, everyone woman is different, but trust me, they don't have a clue to what it is they want in a man.

And if they do know, they're wrong. They just haven't found that out yet.

My advice, be a strong mixture of both. Chicks dig a guy they can't figure out.
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