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#1
So as the title says, it's my birthday and it's been horrible. My dad got drunk before my family party and dinner was awkward, and then after we went to the mall to just look around and shop a bit and he started to act very odd. I had realized that he had had a bit to drink beforehand, but I didn't find out just how much until that time.

He started to act like a five year old, being silly and acting like a complete idiot. I was embarassed by it seeing as I was with my mom, my grandmother, my 14 year old sister, and my "girlfriend" who's also my best friend who's absolutely adored by my family.

After a while he "sobered up" enough to tell me that I wasn't getting anything at the mall for my birthday... I already knew that anyway, they hadn't gotten me anything, but I wasn't going to expect them to do anything for me. I mean sure I turned 18 today, but it's not like it's anything too out of the ordinary for me not to expect a gift for no reason...

So after he said he wasn't getting me anything and I was fine with it, he started to verbally abuse me, so I'm sitting in the food court crying my eyes out in front of the whole world to see, and then they left me there with my girlfriend to just do whatever the hell they wanted to. They weren't coming home that night anyway so they went back to where they were staying and left me to deal with it with my "girlfriend".

Now my question is, how do I react to that kind of treatment? Do I seek revenge on my dad? Do I just play it off cool like it didn't bother me? What do you think I should do?


all the best,


-sam
#3
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#5
Dude... that really, really, really was a terrible birthday. Have a hug, man

Just wait it out, move out in a while, then write an autobiography in a few years. Then smack your dad in the face with it.
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#6
Happy Birthday!

oh and your dads a dick. Tell him to **** off next time
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#11
You're 18... leave home
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#16
Awww dude I'm sorry to hear that.
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I'd ask for an explanation to why he was being such a dick. Then, a punch in the dick.

He was drunk... what more explanation can there be?

I mean I've got a few things I could say to him that would make him feel exactly as terrible as I do now if not worse, but I don't know if I should use them...
#19
thats ****ed up man
i dunno what i wuld do aye
hes ure dad and im guessing u love him
does he do this often?
and if i was you i wouldnt seek revenge i would get a job and move out asap

if its not too private i wuld like to know if ure dad does this often

happy birthday tho man and ure lucky to have girl liek that
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He was drunk... what more explanation can there be?

I mean I've got a few things I could say to him that would make him feel exactly as terrible as I do now if not worse, but I don't know if I should use them...

Let it slide man. You're sober. He isn't.
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He was drunk... what more explanation can there be?

I mean I've got a few things I could say to him that would make him feel exactly as terrible as I do now if not worse, but I don't know if I should use them...



definately do it man nobody has the right to treat u like that especially ure parents
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He was drunk... what more explanation can there be?

I mean I've got a few things I could say to him that would make him feel exactly as terrible as I do now if not worse, but I don't know if I should use them...




I would use them. I think he deserves it.

And Happy birthday
#25
Blow up his car and tell him it's because you were drunk and see how he likes it.
#26
Are all your birthdays like this?

(I dont mean that in a dick way)
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#27
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I would use them. I think he deserves it.

And Happy birthday

They're bad enough to the point that it could permanently damage him... they're:

1. My grandfather was more of a father to me than you ever will be.

and

2. You were most of the reason that I wanted to commit suicide last year.

And Jackal he doesn't do it very often, he gets drunk like once or twice a year.
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definately do it man nobody has the right to treat u like that especially ure parents

Ure parents have that right more than anybody else.
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Can I ask what his verbal abuse was? You don't have to name anything personal.
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#30
Man, im sorry. Happy Birthday
Hope this cheers you up.
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#31
i would just move out like everyone else is saying. then start a band and have hidden backwards messages about you troublesome experiences....
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#32
Mines in 20 minutes. fortunately i'm smarter than you and havent reminded my family and its safe to assume they forgot
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#33
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So as the title says, it's my birthday and it's been horrible. My dad got drunk before my family party and dinner was awkward, and then after we went to the mall to just look around and shop a bit and he started to act very odd. I had realized that he had had a bit to drink beforehand, but I didn't find out just how much until that time.

He started to act like a five year old, being silly and acting like a complete idiot. I was embarassed by it seeing as I was with my mom, my grandmother, my 14 year old sister, and my "girlfriend" who's also my best friend who's absolutely adored by my family.

After a while he "sobered up" enough to tell me that I wasn't getting anything at the mall for my birthday... I already knew that anyway, they hadn't gotten me anything, but I wasn't going to expect them to do anything for me. I mean sure I turned 18 today, but it's not like it's anything too out of the ordinary for me not to expect a gift for no reason...

So after he said he wasn't getting me anything and I was fine with it, he started to verbally abuse me, so I'm sitting in the food court crying my eyes out in front of the whole world to see, and then they left me there with my girlfriend to just do whatever the hell they wanted to. They weren't coming home that night anyway so they went back to where they were staying and left me to deal with it with my "girlfriend".

Now my question is, how do I react to that kind of treatment? Do I seek revenge on my dad? Do I just play it off cool like it didn't bother me? What do you think I should do?


all the best,


-sam

You get some bud and toke it up with your gf
#34
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Can I ask what his verbal abuse was? You don't have to name anything personal.

It was about how I was selfish, and a terrible person, and I wasn't the type of son he deserved. Harsh enough to make me cry...
#35
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They're bad enough to the point that it could permanently damage him... they're:

1. My grandfather was more of a father to me than you ever will be.

and

2. You were most of the reason that I wanted to commit suicide last year.

And Jackal he doesn't do it very often, he gets drunk like once or twice a year.

Dude let it slide. Talk to him tomorrow if you need to. It's really hard to try to have a rational discussion with a drunk.
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#36
My dad went to jail on my birthday for attempted murder, I got nothing and a whole bunch a people reminding me of it. Cheers for having a birthday better than me.
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#37
Happy birthday to you, TS. Sorry about your dad and all. My advice, just let it go and be the bigger man. Your girlfriend is right there beside you on this right? Talk to her about it, if she's your best friend, you'll get nothing but support from her.
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#38
wow man that's really sad. just spend more time with your girlfriend and see how you and your dad do when he's sober. happy birthday!


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#39
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Ure parents have that right more than anybody else.



bull**** if ure parents treat u like that then they are not doing theyre job as a parent and dont deserve the title of parent
#40
You cried in public? You're 18?

If I was your dad I'd drink too.
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