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#1
one of my best friends committed suicide on Friday. i want to know how other people cope with it. thanks
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#2
Honestly, I have no idea how I'd deal with it. I have never lost anyone close enough to me to know how I cope with death. The closest (and this is a terrible comparison) is my dog and with that I just kinda shut it out for a while until it all seeped in and I cried alot.
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#3
I'm sorry dude, just think that he's in a better place now.
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#4
I'm so sorry dude. I have no clue what I would do if that happened.
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#5
That sucks dude. Play guitar, get out with other friends, don't give yourself time to sit around and think about it. Drink and smoke weed.
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#6
Suicide is the worst way to betray the people who love you.

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That sucks dude. Play guitar, get out with other friends, don't give yourself time to sit around and think about it. Drink and smoke weed.


This is the absolute dumbest possible advice you could ever give anyone in life.
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I'm sorry dude, just think that he's in a better place now.

You go to hell when you commit suicide. Thats not better, that sucks. Gay people live there!
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#8
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That sucks dude. Play guitar, get out with other friends, don't give yourself time to sit around and think about it. Drink and smoke weed.


You can drink weed?

And TS don't do drugs, and eat you veggies.
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#9
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That sucks dude. Play guitar, get out with other friends, don't give yourself time to sit around and think about it. Drink and smoke weed.

Probably the complete opposite of what you want to do. I'm sorry, that sucks a lot though.
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That sucks dude. Play guitar, get out with other friends, don't give yourself time to sit around and think about it. Drink and smoke weed.

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#11
Well, maybe that person is in a better place right now. I personally don't think we should mourn death, its an unavoidable part of life. Sure you can't hang out anymore, but maybe his/her death was actually pleasant, maybe whats after life isn't so bad.

I say that, but I've never had to cope with a loss of a special person in my life.

I'm sorry.
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#12
thanks for all the responses. SORRY PIT MONKEYS, I DON'T DO DRUGS OR DRINK.
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#13
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You go to hell when you commit suicide. Thats not better, that sucks. Gay people live there!


Real mature.

I'm sorry for your loss TS
#14
talk to some one about it,pray if you believe in a God,play guitar DONT drink or smoke weed in excess.
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#15
I'm sorry dude. I can't even imagine that happening to me. Just hang around friends and try to distract yourself.
#16
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You go to hell when you commit suicide. Thats not better, that sucks. Gay people live there!

Well, aren't you an uplifting person.

Do not drink and smoke weed. Seriously.
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#17
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This is the absolute dumbest possible advice you could ever give anyone in life.

You are wrong.
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#18
I probably would probably find it inconceivable, and would never come to believe it. So I probably wouldn't feel anything.
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#19
While I never had to deal with a loved one committing suicide, I did lose my father last may, so I can almost empathize. My advice is to talk about it. It may be hard, but it helps. Also, don't bottle up your emotions. If you feel like crying, by all means cry. Good luck with the situation.
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#20
im sorry but your friend is a super ****ing dumbass. who the hell would kill themselfs!? it is THE stupidest hing in the world to do.

i mean i would just go on with life and try and forget about it but thats just me.
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#23
Sorry about your loss. Go visit the F**k My life thread. It'll cheer you up.
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#24
Counseling? If you dont wanna feel helpless. Guitar. Music
Sorry man. I would be chrushed if this happened
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You go to hell when you commit suicide. Thats not better, that sucks. Gay people live there!


Kurt isn't hell!


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#27
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Well, aren't you an uplifting person.

Do not drink and smoke weed. Seriously.

This. Drinking will just make you more sad, and weed just won't help at all.
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Dude, just think. He's with Dimebag now... and SATAN!
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#30
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im sorry but your friend is a super ****ing dumbass. who the hell would kill themselfs!? it is THE stupidest hing in the world to do.

i mean i would just go on with life and try and forget about it but thats just me.



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#31
I've never had this happen to me so I won't know how to help a lot.
Stay by your other friends, they can help you a lot more than we can.

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#32
Yes, drinking would make you feel worse, because if alchohol is consumed too much at one time it becomes a depressant.

Celebrate his life, don't mourn his death. Try to be positive.
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#34
Man, I am so sorry. I haven't lost a loved one like this, but I have been depressed before. All I can say is focus on the good stuff, play your guitar, love what you have and everything will be okay.
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#36
He asked what people do to cope with these things. I would get drunk and high. **** you guys, I can do what I want.
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#37
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Suicide is the worst way to betray the people who love you.


This is the absolute dumbest possible advice you could ever give anyone in life.


I can actually think of worst advice.
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#38
My best friend's brother, who is only a year younger and was my friend too, committed suicide in nov. I wrote a song about how I was feeling and that helped. Also, I did drink about it a few times, but I got out of that cycle thank god (i only drink for fun now). What mostly helped is to think about the good times we had, and just be happy that he is in a better place (I don't believe one would go to hell, if there is one, for committing suicide. Or for being gay you ****ing prick Steven E. I am straight but thats a horrible thing to say and bring into a thread when TS is going through a very hard time dumbass)
#39
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im sorry but your friend is a super ****ing dumbass. who the hell would kill themselfs!? it is THE stupidest hing in the world to do.

i mean i would just go on with life and try and forget about it but thats just me.


You've obviously never been depressed.
#40
When this happend to me i drank away my sorrows but they never really went away
and it wasn't my best friend first it was my lil cousin then it was my older sister they both hung themselves


sorry for your loss i know how you feel
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