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#1
A few weeks ago, my girlfriend called me up during the grammys crying. Her dad had just hit her and thrown stuff at her. She is a junior in high school and her dad got pissed because she said that she wanted to take a class in the summer and asked if he would pay for it considering she had just WON a year's worth of FREE tuition (she goes to a private school) from the school's auction. So basically her dad beat her. She doesn't have scars or anything like that, but whenever someone calls you up crying, it is probably pretty bad. She says that it really isn't too bad but I keep telling her that it doesn't matter how bad it is, it is wrong! She even tells me that her dad hits her mom a lot. No one in her family will stand up for my girlfriend because they say that "it is just the way that he is".

Every once and a while now, she will be in a bad mood because her dad hits her. Her dad is making her do all this stuff for college and told her that she WILL NOT get into the field she wants to be in. Her dad said he won't even let her go away to college. My girlfriend is smart too, she got a 33 on her ACT and has a 4.0 GPA. Basically her dad is a huge asshole. What can I do? She can't just run away from it and she can't do anything that would piss her dad off even more

Oh, and by the way, I am meeting her dad on saturday, any advice for me so I don't get my ass beaten? He already thinks we are having sex (which we are not) after going out for only a few months.
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#2
you havent met her dad after months?
Why not? Gah..thats like....one of the first things you do


but on topic: theres not much you can do..just be with her and dont leave her over stupid crap, b/c i doubt she could handle it...
#3
Pics or didn't happen.

No, not much you can do. Support your girlfriend, and always be on the lookout for bruises and such because then you have proof.

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The dad should be nice to her; she's going to college for free. Why beat her
#6
Kill him and make it look like he pulled a Kurt Cobain.
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#7
try and be polite, but if he swings at you, then just teach him a lesson. if the cops show he would be arrested for hitting a minor and starting it
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#9
Logic says call the police.

But since you're probably smart enough to throw that away and come to the pit, I'd say you have to kill her dad.
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#10
He's a giant douche.

I would get my friends, we would all wear ski masks, and heavy clothing, and do other various things to not be recognized. Then proceed to beat his fucking skull in.

And there's no excuse for that "just the way he is" shit.
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#11
you haven't had sex yet?

WHAT'S THE POSITIVE PART ABOUT THIS RELATIONSHIP???


just kiding, bring mace to the daddy meeting
#12
How about you stop being a bitch and have him meet a baseball bat?
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A few weeks ago, my girlfriend called me up during the grammys crying. Her dad had just hit her and thrown stuff at her. She is a junior in high school and her dad got pissed because she said that she wanted to take a class in the summer and asked if he would pay for it considering she had just WON a year's worth of FREE tuition (she goes to a private school) from the school's auction. So basically her dad beat her. She doesn't have scars or anything like that, but whenever someone calls you up crying, it is probably pretty bad. She says that it really isn't too bad but I keep telling her that it doesn't matter how bad it is, it is wrong! She even tells me that her dad hits her mom a lot. No one in her family will stand up for my girlfriend because they say that "it is just the way that he is".

Every once and a while now, she will be in a bad mood because her dad hits her. Her dad is making her do all this stuff for college and told her that she WILL NOT get into the field she wants to be in. Her dad said he won't even let her go away to college. My girlfriend is smart too, she got a 33 on her ACT and has a 4.0 GPA. Basically her dad is a huge asshole. What can I do? She can't just run away from it and she can't do anything that would piss her dad off even more

Oh, and by the way, I am meeting her dad on saturday, any advice for me so I don't get my ass beaten? He already thinks we are having sex (which we are not) after going out for only a few months.

Just keep an eye open. If you see anything, dont be afraid to report her dad. It will only stop the mental and physical hurt.
#18
You either call the police or you and a couple friends put on masks and hoodies and beat the living hell out of him.
#19
dude, seriously

you haven't had sex, so you have nothing to loose. proceed to beat the frack out of the old man
#22
She must have done something wrong. Beat her too.
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what if he's twice as big as you and tougher than you? and knows "martial arts"


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#25
Go there, and act normal, dont be super nice since you know what hes done. But, don;t do anything to encourage him to hit you, but if he does, dont fight back, unless he tries to hit you twice, then **** him up. Call the cops, have him arrested for assaulting a minor, assaulting your gf, and assaulting his wife. Guy will be ****ed for a while.
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what if he's twice as big as you and tougher than you? and knows "martial arts"


More than one person.

All with baseball bats.
#27
Jesus, the girl called you during the GRAMMY's and you still want to help her?

#28
Quote by Just Andrew
Logic says call the police.

But since you're probably smart enough to throw that away and come to the pit, I'd say you have to kill her dad.


Logic says you need proof dumbass. I swear to god...


I recommend buying a spy camera or whatever they call those things. That way when he beats her, you have it on film and can PROVE to the authorities that her dad beats her.
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More than one person.

All with baseball bats.

What we have here is an excellent example, of a bitch.

Whats up with everyone willingly fighting so dirty these days?
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#30
*shudders* I hate meeting dads. I have a great way with words around parents and I act hella proper with manners and chivalry but still I get scared everytime I'm around a girls dad. ANYWHO consult someone in child services maybe? Always worth a try. One of my ex girlfriends dad beat her and she called child services and all was well. Good luck to you.
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What we have here is an excellent example, of a bitch.

Whats up with everyone willingly fighting so dirty these days?


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#32
Quote by kaosfire
What we have here is an excellent example, of a bitch.

Whats up with everyone willingly fighting so dirty these days?


Sometimes that's what the situation requires, once you leave high school you will realize that all of the macho bullshit is really impractical in the real world/
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#33
she gets beaten an no one in the family stands up for her, n her dad doesnt want her to go, she doesnt even stand up for herself..im guessing her dad sexually assualts her :/ go report him
#34
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Sometimes that's what the situation requires, once you leave high school you will realize that all of the macho bullshit is really impractical in the real world/


Exactly.
#35
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Logic says you need proof dumbass. I swear to god...
, kindly walk out into the busy traffic while you're busy acting like a prick.

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#36
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what if he's twice as big as you and tougher than you? and knows "martial arts"


I have a rocket launcher, your statement is invalid.
#37
Stand up to him. Confront him about it. Tell him you know what's going on. Someone has to stop it, and it's a chance that you can do it.
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Sometimes that's what the situation requires, once you leave high school you will realize that all of the macho bullshit is really impractical in the real world/

Believe me, i dont do any macho bull****, i just dont understand why anyone would fight dirty unless their life is OBVIOUSLY IN PERIL. This case doesnt show that at all.

Btw, the "gang up with buddies" approach is much more cheezy machizmo sounding than a fair fight.
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#39
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EDIT: And vigilantism is a brilliant idea. That never backfires.


It backfires a lot less than calling social services, those people are fucking ineffective morons.
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Believe me, i dont do any macho bull****, i just dont understand why anyone would fight dirty unless their life is OBVIOUSLY IN PERIL. This case doesnt show that at all.

Btw, the "gang up with buddies" approach is much more cheezy machizmo sounding than a fair fight.


well, this guy obviously deserves to get his ass kicked, and if you can't do it by yourself for whatever reason then you gotta do what you gotta do, it's not like we're talking about jumping the dude because he stole someones lunch money.
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#40
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im guessing her dad sexually assualts her :/ go report him

WTF?

You have NOTHING to make that assertion.
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