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#1
ok if this belongs in a different thread just let me know and ill delete it

i called my ex yesterday. i havent talked to her for about a month cause i needed a break. you might be wondering why i still talk to her. since we moved really far apart we couldnt see her again. i wasnt allowed to see her anyways (thats a different story). we would of still been together if none of this happened. well shortly after i got a message from her saying she never forgot me. i didnt forget her either so ive been talking to her ever since.

anyways, when i called her she has changed ALOT. she was pretty much insane. she said something like "everything has been falling apart. sometimes i cut myself and watch the blood drip hoping i wont wake up. i need you." i got her to say she wouldnt cut herself anymore (hopefully) and got her to laugh a little.

the thing is i wont be always be there to make sure shes ok. i hardly have any time to talk because ive been busy. also im kinda unhappy that i brought this upon myself again, not that i dont care about her. shes falling for me all over again and this is only going to make this happen all over again. god, im so confused...
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relationship thread is that way.
then why click on the thread?

yeh yeh

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#4
Don't believe her. This is what we call an attention wh*re.
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then why click on the thread?

yeh yeh

edit: jerk


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#6
this same thing happened with my girl, the cutting and all...

Luckily she lives near me, and I can see her and make her feel better

BUT, what you need to be able to do is ask her about all her insecurities, and tell her why she shouldn't be insecure about those things (If they're small and trivial, like my girlfriend's were) if they're large, deep rooted issues, you're out of luck, unfortunately.

Unless you're some sort of psychiatrist

hope it all works out dude.
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My posts were the same.
no...

you looked like an idiot before you edited it

yeh yeh
#11
lol will you ever stop being an asshole burrit0?
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i called my ex yesterday. i havent talked to her for about a month cause i needed a break. you might be wondering why i still talk to her. since we moved really far apart we couldnt see her again. i wasnt allowed to see her anyways (thats a different story). we would of still been together if none of this happened. well shortly after i got a message from her saying she never forgot me. i didnt forget her either so ive been talking to her ever since.


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no im just worried about her. i still loved her at the time
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WTF! is nobody normal anymore? jesus, if she really wanted to die, she could slice her neck open pretty easy. Watching tiny bits of blood trickle from your arm is attention seeking.
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no im just worried about her. i still loved her at the time

no dummy, he asked that because you said "we could not see her" in the fashion of someone like Gollum, who was sort of double/split personality.

*whoosh* waaaaay over his head
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WTF! is nobody normal anymore? jesus, if she really wanted to die, she could slice her neck open pretty easy. Watching tiny bits of blood trickle from your arm is attention seeking.


dude thats not cool
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I lol'd.

Dude, she's nuts. Tell her you got a new cell phone and give her the number to the psych-ward at her nearest hospital.
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this same thing happened with my girl, the cutting and all...

Luckily she lives near me, and I can see her and make her feel better

BUT, what you need to be able to do is ask her about all her insecurities, and tell her why she shouldn't be insecure about those things (If they're small and trivial, like my girlfriend's were) if they're large, deep rooted issues, you're out of luck, unfortunately.

Unless you're some sort of psychiatrist

hope it all works out dude.

The only sane comment in this thread, hah. 100% agree with this in all seriousness.

Still might be an attention catcall, but none the less something's up with her.
#21
Don't worry, what the kids call "cutting" is harmless. No one's going to die from some skin deep scratches on their arm. (make themselves pretty ugly though).

It's not your job to make someone not hurt themselves, it's not even part of your responsibility as a friend. In fact, the more you chat with her, the more she'll be egged on to continue this behavior. She's kinda like a troll, the more you respond seriously to her the more she's going to embrace this stupid ****. If you're really concerned then stop talking to her. Or change the subject immediatly every time she brings this little hobby of hers up.
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Don't worry, what the kids call "cutting" is harmless. No one's going to die from some skin deep scratches on their arm. (make themselves pretty ugly though).

It's not your job to make someone not hurt themselves, it's not even part of your responsibility as a friend. In fact, the more you chat with her, the more she'll be egged on to continue this behavior. She's kinda like a troll, the more you respond seriously to her the more she's going to embrace this stupid ****. If you're really concerned then stop talking to her. Or change the subject immediatly every time she brings this little hobby of hers up.


like i said, i did stop talking to her about a month. i just felt like checking up on her and yeah, this happened
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The only sane comment in this thread, hah. 100% agree with this in all seriousness.

Still might be an attention catcall, but none the less something's up with her.

thank you dude

trust me on this fellas. I have personal experience...
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no...

you looked like an idiot before you edited it

yeh yeh


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But seriously; tell someone that lives near her and let them know. You can't even be there for her as you live in a galaxy far far away.
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trust, he is a well established asshole and spamming troll in the metal forum already
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But seriously; tell someone that lives near her and let them know. You can't even be there for her as you live in a galaxy far far away.


our parents cant find out about this since were not allowed to see eachother. damn
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our parents cant find out about this since were not allowed to see eachother. damn


Why not?
Otherwise; her friends?
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Why not?
Otherwise; her friends?


long story. i dont know any of her friends where she lives. also she said one of her friends does it to . wow just forget about it
#30
You guys must both be pretty young if "parents" won't let you's see each other. Best thing you can do is move on, as tough as it sounds, but if you stick around this type of girl will drive you nuts right along with her then someday you'll wake up and be like "wow, that was a waste of five years of my life" Some people just can't be helped b/c they refuse to help themselves and it's noone else's fault but their own no matter who they try to blame things on.

Sometimes it's wise to trust your elders.
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no im just worried about her. i still loved her at the time




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You guys must both be pretty young if "parents" won't let you's see each other. Best thing you can do is move on, as tough as it sounds, but if you stick around this type of girl will drive you nuts right along with her then someday you'll wake up and be like "wow, that was a waste of five years of my life" Some people just can't be helped b/c they refuse to help themselves and it's noone else's fault but their own no matter who they try to blame things on.

Sometimes it's wise to trust your elders.


not exactly. we cant see eachother because my parents have a 'reason'. her sister is a drug addict and has been to jail so my parents thought she was a bad influence. i mean, c'mon im dating her, not her sister . plus now we live hundreds of miles apart so its pretty much impossible. yeah, im screwed
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#34
dude the same exact thing happened to me with a girl a little bit ago, except she didn't move and I still saw her around town on a regular basis... basically just tough it out man, try to move on. do extra stuff with your friends. try not to think about her. move all the stuff regarding her you have into a drawer or something. took me about 6 months but i still got over her.
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not exactly. we cant see eachother because my parents have a 'reason'. her sister is a drug addict and has been to jail so my parents thought she was a bad influence. i mean, c'mon im dating her, not her sister . plus now we live hundreds of miles apart so its pretty much impossible. yeah, im screwed


sounds a lil like you havnt bothered to explain into detail to your parents about this girl u hav a thing for... that will in no possible way help your situation.

1st explain to parents you have feelings for her and if they dont support you then tell them to eat it, just in a more respectable way so your not grounded for weeks

2nd try to figure out whats bothering the girl, and if you can, help her and make her feel good about herself, things will turn around in weeks if not days, if its serious such as parents divorcing or anything like that, kind of out of your hands

iv been in both types of relations where theres small problems and big problems, although unable to change the big problems obviously, usually your presence=cheering her up, and can actually make your relationship so much stronger.
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your a dick, but I lol'd.

try to talk to her and let her know someday she will find someone for her, that what she feels for you will pass and shes still young.
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