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#1
So, I just found out one of my close friends was molested a few years ago by someone who up until just now I considered a pretty good friend. I don't know what to think right now..I'm just mostly asking myself 'why?' This is a huge shock...considering that they're both boys...I'm just...wow.

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So, I just found out one of my close friends was molested a few years ago by someone who up until just now I considered a pretty good friend. I don't know what to think right now..I'm just mostly asking myself 'why?' This is a huge shock...considering that they're both boys...I'm just...wow.

....


That part got me.
#9
I really just wanna.. hurt that kid now. That's just...not right. An excerpt from my and my friends chat: "he made me touch his dick then i said no then he told me to use aa sock aand he realized it wouldnt work so tried a plastic bag type deal, when i pulled it off it was like sticky and weird"

..keep in mind, my friend was only in 5th grade then, this kid was in 8th grade along with me. We're both juniors now and my friend is a freshman. He told me that he considered him a friend too and didnt know what was happening when it happened, but he could tell it wasn't right.
#10
****..I just learned that afterwords, the kid FORCED my friend to kiss him. Really? What the ****??
#12
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I really just wanna.. hurt that kid now. That's just...not right. An excerpt from my and my friends chat: "he made me touch his dick then i said no then he told me to use aa sock aand he realized it wouldnt work so tried a plastic bag type deal, when i pulled it off it was like sticky and weird"

..keep in mind, my friend was only in 5th grade then, this kid was in 8th grade along with me. We're both juniors now and my friend is a freshman. He told me that he considered him a friend too and didnt know what was happening when it happened, but he could tell it wasn't right.

uh. what are we supposed to say to that?
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#13
cool story bro
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#16
I just needed to vent. It's a shock because that other kid and me would hang out all the time.
#17
There's nothing you can do about it now. Is being mad at your friend gonna solve anything? Or is it just gonna cause **** between you to get rough when... there isn't a need to? Granted it is a shock that it happened, it was years in the past and nothing you can do or say now is going to change it.

Just don't do anything rash, or that you will regret later.

Just take some time to soak it in, just sit and think, don't try to justify anything but don't just say everything is okay.

Most of all, don't do anything stupid.
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wow.
you just said that.
that is the funniest thing ever.
sorry about your problems dude but wow.
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#19
It's the past man, don't let it beat you up. Get over it.
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#20
When I was in the 2nd grade, my neighbors asked me if I wanted to play "strip sorry."

They were both in the 6th grade.

I remember the girl flashing me to show me what they meant, because I had no idea, and then my memory completely cuts off.
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#21
Ditch that friend, or....

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#22
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wow.
you just said that.
that is the funniest thing ever.
sorry about your problems dude but wow.



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#23
rape.
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#25
And honestly, I think the shocker is that it happened.

Would you be any less shocked if they were opposite genders?
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And honestly, I think the shocker is that it happened.

Would you be any less shocked if they were opposite genders?


Slightly maybe. But I mean, that kinda **** apparently happens... Kids will be kids?
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Slightly maybe. But I mean, that kinda **** apparently happens... Kids will be kids?


I'm pretty sure a 13 year old knows when he's molesting a 9 year old..
#29
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And honestly, I think the shocker is that it happened.

Would you be any less shocked if they were opposite genders?

the short answer is yes
#30
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I'm pretty sure a 13 year old knows when he's molesting a 9 year old..


You can look at it any way you want. But hating and blaming now isn't gonna solve anything.

Try using your logic and rationality and stop letting your emotions cloud your judgement.

There is nothing YOU can do NOW.
#31
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I'm pretty sure a 13 year old knows when he's molesting a 9 year old..


My girlfriend was molested by her older brother when she was 4-5 years old and he was 12.

Same brother did it to her sister who was actually older than him by 3 years.

Effed up stuff happens man. Best thing to do is not dwell on it because you'll only disgust yourself.
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#32
Speaking of disgusting myself, this same kid also ended up dating and have much sex with the girl I'm in love with...thank god they broke up..

/emo but true.
#33
Yeah, it is pretty shocking when you learn someone you thought of as a friend has done something like that. And then it's even harder seeing other people treat them normally.
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#34
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You can look at it any way you want. But hating and blaming now isn't gonna solve anything.

Try using your logic and rationality and stop letting your emotions cloud your judgement.

There is nothing YOU can do NOW.



I dunno that seems like a pretty stupid way of dealing with things... just because they happened in the past forget about it theres nothing you can do. So the little cunt deserves to get away scot free? I say smack the bastard in the mouth. World would be a fucked up place if people weren't punished for things they've done just because "it's in the past".
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Quote by TheClincher
Speaking of disgusting myself, this same kid also ended up dating and have much sex with the girl I'm in love with...thank god they broke up..

/emo but true.


Ewwouch.

I'm sorry man but I am so glad I'm not you.
Ugh that would drive me mad.
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#36
I mean, i may never do anything physical to him..


..but I'll never look at him the same again. Ever.
#38
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I dunno that seems like a pretty stupid way of dealing with things... just because they happened in the past forget about it theres nothing you can do. So the little cunt deserves to get away scot free? I say smack the bastard in the mouth. World would be a fucked up place if people weren't punished for things they've done just because "it's in the past".


No I'm not saying let him get of scot free because it was in the past. I'm saying don't jump to any rash conclusions and/or do something that you will regret because you were flooded with emotions.

Time frame has nothing to do with it. I'm not saying he should get away with it, but I'm saying that he, himself, can't do anything at this point, its too far gone, no proof, and obviously they have both moved past that.
#39
Who's touching who?
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