Why is it that when a guy breaks up, he's an asshole, but a girl isn't judged?

#1
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When a guy breaks up with a girl the entire social circle of friends think he's being a huge dick just because the girl cries. Yet when a girl does it to a guy she's just being "honest" and it's no big deal?

I know a bunch of guys who had their world come crashing when their girl broke up with them (albeit they were pussies but still...), yet when a girl does it it's fine?

It's a bit like the double standard of sluttyness (guys can but girls can't..)

It's ****ed up how the guy gets threatened as well by her "guy friends" who really just want in her pants..
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Yeah, well there you go. What can you do about it? Nothing.

Just the way of the world.
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#5
what are you talking about? guys bitch all the time about how their girlfriends were whores for breaking up with them.
#6
That's not the case all the time.
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Why is it that when a guy breaks up, he's an asshole, but a girl isn't judged?

Because people are retarded.
#10
the more pressing issue is, why is it racist for white people to make fun of other races?

you know what? screw that, all you niggas, chinks, injuns, wetbacks and crackers can kiss my Nazi-German ass.
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Welcome to the real world.
It also pisses me off that girls can be obsessed/"in love" with the Jonas Brothers, yet when guys talk about porn/models they get called "pigs". Two of my best friends are dating girls who are "in love" with one of the Jonas bros. Now what if my two buddies started talking about how hot Pam Anderson is? Just an example. She's way too fake for me. But you get the point.
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they do. theyre sluts for it.
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not always the case.

when my ex-gf (george foreman, lol)
broke up with me, no one liked her after that. but she also turned into a huge mega bitchtron.
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the more pressing issue is, why is it racist for white people to make fun of other races?

you know what? screw that, all you niggas, chinks, injuns, wetbacks and crackers can kiss my Nazi-German ass.

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TS, I feel its more between the two people involved. One of them has to be the bigger person and just not discuss any negativity towards that person. But that's too much to ask from teenagers, I guess.
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I find girls get away with being sluts more then men nowadays

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the more pressing issue is, why is it racist for white people to make fun of other races?

you know what? screw that, all you niggas, chinks, injuns, wetbacks and crackers can kiss my Nazi-German ass.

you just got sigged.
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#21
Because I lied to her, cheated on her and gave her herpes.


Apparently. Not sure who I'd get herpes off, don't know who I'd cheat with (the only people I were with when I allegedly cheated were 2 guys), though I did lie a fair bit...."Am I fat?"

Anywho, it's cos anything which used to be considered superior (white people, men, etc) are now the people who are fair game, anyone's allowed to complain about them.
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It's ****ed up how the guy gets threatened as well by her "guy friends" who really just want in her pants..

This is just as unfair to the girl as it is to the guy if she's committed to you.
My girl is ridiculously good looking. So every guy-friend she has, has some sort of attraction towards her. She's lost like, 5 good friends since she's been with me.
She would tell them to back off.

Oh, this is including the lead singer of Bring Me The Horizon. Hit on her profusely. Then he got the message that she wasn't into it and he never called her again.
I mean...

If she's a good girl and she stays true to you? It's just as unfair to her.
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there is a double standard between men and women. thats all.
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#25
Because society treats different sexes differently. On the upside - a guy won't be judged for sleeping with a different girl every day - he'd be considered a hero whereas a girl sleeping around that much is a *****.
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It's okay. When they cheat they're whores, when we do we get applauded for keeping our options open.
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what are you talking about? guys bitch all the time about how their girlfriends were whores for breaking up with them.

yeah but the people around the guy won't get pissed at the girl.

the guy is understandably upset but nobody else is angered/bothered by it. but when it's the other way around the guy is a knob as far as all the people who know the girl are concerned.

my mate had a picture taken where he's pretending to hump some girl from behind (an in joke he had on holiday) and the pic was put on facebook.

cue the girls friend commenting "explain..."

this is coming from a girl who is in a relationship yet who's in plenty of pictures of a similar nature with none other than yours truly.

the hypocrisy astounds me.
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meh, as long as guys are heros when they bang 12 chicks in one night.


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yeah but the people around the guy won't get pissed at the girl.


Maybe women are more underhanded, like. A lot of my female friends who have broken up with their boyfriends basically get harassed by their ex's female friends, about what a good guy their ex was and how they didn't appreciate what they had, and then they insist on flirting with their ex around them, etc.

But to TS, honestly, I don't think this way at all. It really just depends on whether or not someone was being the jerk in the relationship. Or maybe no one was being a jerk and it just didn't work out...
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#30
Why is that when a guy goes out with a bunch of girls in a row he's a player, but when a girl goes through a bunch of guys she's a slut?

'Cause that's how guys and girls view each other

But then again, guys will get pissed at their friend's girlfriend for being a bitch or breaking up with them, happens all the time
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Because men have penises.

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