Have you ever had a friend that just all of a sudden stopped liking you?

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#1
I've had this friend for around 3 years, and her and I talked all the time, sometimes for hours on end. She would literally tell me everything like boyfriend problems, or family problems, just anything. And whenever she would text me or I would text her, we would have really long conversations that she would try to keep going and she would always want to hang out with me, but all of a sudden, two weeks ago, she just started acting weird. Whenever I text her, I get answers like "yeah" or "haha". Just stupid short answers, like I'm bothering her or something and it's pissing me off. She never wants to hang out with me or do anything, yet my friends say she still acts the same towards them. Would you say she hates me now?
And I never went out with her or wanted to go out with her.
#2
She has something going on in her life that is bothering her. Bring it up and say that she doesn't have to tell you whats up (even though you know something is) and that if she needs to talk about anything you're always there for her.
#3
She sounds like she likes you but she doesn't want to show it, or she's just a douche.
#4
confront her
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#6
My fiancee always says "Yeah" and "haha" to me, I don't see what the problem is.

Then again, she also says "aww, just imagine if I was a sharptooth!"

While having sex.

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#7
You text her when she is practicing
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My fiancee always says "Yeah" and "haha" to me, I don't see what the problem is.

Then again, she also says "aww, just imagine if I was a sharptooth!"

While having sex.

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what great story...

And TS your probably looking too much into this
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#9
dude she likes you and is trying to distance herself because she is afraid you don't feel the same and that if she told you and you didnt feel the same then it would ruin your friendship
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#10
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what great story...

And TS your probably looking too much into this
Definitely not. It's been going on for 3 weeks and all my friends are saying they have no idea what I'm talking about. I didn't do anything to get her pissed or upset either. I usually don't get nervous about things, but I definitely think she wants to stop talking to me.
#11
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Oh I have tons of friends that have done that to me. When you go five weeks without anyone talking to you, responding to your calls, responding to texts, or even doing anything to stay in contact with you, let me know.
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She has something going on in her life that is bothering her. Bring it up and say that she doesn't have to tell you whats up (even though you know something is) and that if she needs to talk about anything you're always there for her.



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dude she likes you and is trying to distance herself because she is afraid you don't feel the same and that if she told you and you didnt feel the same then it would ruin your friendship


Agree. I have same thing going on.
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She sounds like she likes you but she doesn't want to show it, or she's just a douche.

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She has something going on in her life that is bothering her. Bring it up and say that she doesn't have to tell you whats up (even though you know something is) and that if she needs to talk about anything you're always there for her.

Both of these sound fairly plausible.
#15
Relationship thread would be best for this.

I dunno what to say though, this might sound crazy, but maybe she likes you as more than a friend, and by doing this she's trying to see if you are willing to go after her? Its a long shot, it wouldn't be unheard of though.
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I have this EXACT same problem. I'll stay close by this thread.
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#17
She prob. finds you to clingy and thinks you are a bit of a creeper or she likes you. Did you do something or say something that could have creeped her out a bit? If she is mad at you it has to be something that you can remember. If all else fails, just call her and talk to her about it. No use in wondering and getting sick over it if you can easily get the answer by TALKING to her.
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#19
A couple of weeks ago, I stopped liking all my friends, therefore, I don't hang out anymore. I don't know why I didn't like them anymore, they just didn't appeal to me anymore. Been having a lonely summer so far, and I just don't care. It's pretty weird.
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She prob. finds you to clingy and thinks you are a bit of a creeper or she likes you. Did you do something or say something that could have creeped her out a bit? If she is mad at you it has to be something that you can remember. If all else fails, just call her and talk to her about it. No use in wondering and getting sick over it if you can easily get the answer by TALKING to her.

what is he supposed to do with that information?
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#22
Hmmm, I once spoke a whole lot to this girl. (Was one of the reasosns she diddn't suicede ololo)

But then I lied about not turning up at one of her parties because i was going for seeing AC/DC live, and met her at a bar before the concert >.<

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what is he supposed to do with that information?

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#24
In a way, it does seem like your attracted to her too, but your trying to hide it. But then again you did say that you don't like her. I think you should just ask her if anything's wrong and tell her that she's acting a bit different than usual.
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oh no I think you might be right I just thought it was funny
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In a way, it does seem like your attracted to her too, but your trying to hide it. But then again you did say that you don't like her. I think you should just ask her if anything's wrong and tell her that she's acting a bit different than usual.

u should def ask her if anythings wrong
that way ur answer is direct and u would know what to do
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i'll stay close to this thread...
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#29
Just leave her alone. Seriously, a friend of mine does this all the time. Every week someone "hates" him and it's so freaking annoying that it makes the person who is "avoiding" him get so frustrated that in turn they actually do start avoiding him.
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Just leave her alone. Seriously, a friend of mine does this all the time. Every week someone "hates" him and it's so freaking annoying that it makes the person who is "avoiding" him get so frustrated that in turn they actually do start avoiding him.


i'm sure that this isnt the case..
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#31
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i'm sure that this isnt the case..


Well maybe she got a hobby. I usually ignore texts when I'm in band practice or hanging out with friends.
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#32
keep posting updates TS..i think it should help others help you..
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hah, just had this with a girl. just met her, talked to her everyday for a month straight, we were having so much fun, we hung out a bit, had lots in common, then one day she just stopped talking to me altogether and gave me those small texts like i was being annoying. two days later i found out she's going out with some other guy now.

...yup... and we're sitting together at a concert coming up, woopity doo?
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#37
Get a new friend.

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keep posting updates TS..i think it should help others help you..
I got my friend to ask her about me. She doesn't like me, but she says that she feels like I don't like her anymore as a friend, so she's afraid to talk to me. I call bull****, but whatever.
#39
I'm usually the one that all of a sudden stop liking them. I hate people and can never keep to many people close.
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I got my friend to ask her about me. She doesn't like me, but she says that she feels like I don't like her anymore as a friend, so she's afraid to talk to me. I call bull****, but whatever.


That's bull****. Unless she's a very insecure person?
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