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#1
There's this girl I've liked for a reaaaaally long time. Anyway, I finally got the balls to ask her out, and she said yes. So i asked her when and whenever i would suggest a time or place, she'd say "yeah" but then shed just forget about it. Or she would be like "maybe or I dont know.." so anyway after like 2 weeks i just said "**** it lets be friends" and she said ok. But recently i was with some friends and i saw her from across the room. I pretended not to notice her, but she saw me and she come over. She wasnt particularly touchy before, but she got my attention by touching my sides from the back. I turned around and sheepishly said hi and she held out her arms for a hug. So i hugged her and she was like "wow you look good" and i was really awkward around her and like jumpy and fidgety and quiet. And i think she might have wanted to do something, but now i think i've gone and ****ed things up..Im pretty sure i will see her tomorrow, so any opinions on what i should do??

Also, please no "i cum blood", "rape", "butt rape", etc..so please give me your serious opinions ok?
#3
i have no experience with girls whatsoever. so sorry.
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#5
I agree with lurker. Also, find a book on how women's mind's work, if you're succesfull, I'll buy a copy.
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#7
"so seriously, why haven't we had sex yet?"
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#10
Hit it and quit it.

She's obviosuly not mature enough to handle a relationship.


Either that or she suffers from a memory problem, in which case I admire her for attempting to go beyond her limits and try to live a normal life.


or maybe she's high 24/7, in which case I forgive her because she's high and i find that attractive in a girl.
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#11
Guess what TS. You sound like a ***. I don't want to flame, but you do. Furthermore, this belongs on the relationship thread.

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#12
Just be in a relationship with her again, unannounced.
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#13
Oh, I don't know......TALK TO HER?
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#15
Relationship thread, but girls like when guys play hard to get. But if you keep not reciprocating, she's going to forget about out.
#16
Relationship thread. But if you want that book....

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#17
Jesus what is it with us UG'ers and reporting? Not everything has to be reported. Maybe the forum mods already have enough **** to deal with without people reporting crap two times every second. So yeah. Or you could talk about it and be upfront. That rarely goes "wrong".
#18
see what happens the next time you see her, and dont screw it up!!!

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#20
quit being afraid of what might happen

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#21
^THAT ruins my life.
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#22
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There's this girl I've liked for a reaaaaally long time. Anyway, I finally got the balls to ask her out, and she said yes. So i asked her when and whenever i would suggest a time or place, she'd say "yeah" but then shed just forget about it. Or she would be like "maybe or I dont know.." so anyway after like 2 weeks i just said "**** it lets be friends" and she said ok. But recently i was with some friends and i saw her from across the room. I pretended not to notice her, but she saw me and she come over. She wasnt particularly touchy before, but she got my attention by touching my sides from the back. I turned around and sheepishly said hi and she held out her arms for a hug. So i hugged her and she was like "wow you look good" and i was really awkward around her and like jumpy and fidgety and quiet. And i think she might have wanted to do something, but now i think i've gone and ****ed things up..Im pretty sure i will see her tomorrow, so any opinions on what i should do??

Also, please no "i cum blood", "rape", "butt rape", etc..so please give me your serious opinions ok?


hugs dont mean jack ****
#23
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hugs dont mean jack ****

This.

Girls hug anything that walk 10 feet in front of them
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#25
I bet she was high/drunk when she hugged you.
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#26
First off, you're 14. I'm going to leave it at that.

Secondly, you have to actually talk to a girl if you try to date her. You can't passively date someone. Ask her out, and then just hang out, watch some movies, talk.

Quit being such a wuss.
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#27
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I bet she was high/drunk when she hugged you.

Thanks a lot, now I have a bigger craving to get high... Why is everyone mentioning that tonight???

Anyhow, TS. Tell her your feelings or something and then maybe rape her if there's still some time to.
#28
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Don't worry about it. If she found you attractive then, she still will later.

Bullshit.

Sorry, but it is.
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#29
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#30
You should have said "So do you.", but you ****ed it up and any hopes of ****ing her underage titties. You suck.
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#32
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Thanks a lot, now I have a bigger craving to get high... Why is everyone mentioning that tonight???

Anyhow, TS. Tell her your feelings or something and then maybe rape her if there's still some time to.


atleast you can get high if you had some product. I get drug tested every 3 days ever since I got caught with weed/coke.
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#35
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I agree with lurker. Also, find a book on how women's mind's work, if you're succesfull, I'll buy a copy.

theyre all so ****.
I found one in a guy-friend's room, so I took it and gave it a read.
it was crap, what a waste of money on his behalf.

although I may be generalising...
Here is another generalisation
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Girls hug anything that walk 10 feet in front of them

I personally tend to only hug if people come at me with one. Unless It's a person I'm either really good friends with, or like. Then I will come from behind and jump on them.


just keep being 'friends'.


also: relationship thread.
Last edited by mdwallin at Aug 5, 2009,
#36
if you were friends for awhile before, then in the beginning of your actual dating relationship she was likely still adjusting to the idea that you 2 were now a romantic couple.

it is likely that now the idea of you two dating had sunk in and is now trying to reestablish the start of that relatioship

OR

she is not really into you at all, but is now only givingyou attention for fear of being alone.
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#37
Are you kidding?

Ask her out. Worst case scenario, you lose nothing. Best case scenario, you get sex.

Obvious decision? I think so. Especially if she came on to you.
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#38
in the most respectful and kind way, grow a pair. she shouldn't be your girlfriend if you're uncomfortable around her
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#39
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Are you kidding?

Ask her out. Worst case scenario, you lose nothing. Best case scenario, you get sex.

Obvious decision? I think so. Especially if she came on to you.


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