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Well, I need some help in the friend department guys......There's this guy see, and we used to be friends. In fact, throughout elementary school, we were best friends. In Jr.High, a little less so, but just because I made a whole bunch of new friends. In retrospect, maybe I was a bad friend and neglected him.


But now that we're out of JR. high and moving to high school, he has been a major dick. ANYTIME I even attempt to talk to him, he blows me off. He wont even say anything. He'll acknowledge that I'm there, but that's all. So we're at band camp and im thinking, well, maybe we really didnt know each other that well. I talk to him, he totally ignores me, BUT that same day he's talking to this girl who used to go to our school, who he didnt even know that well, and they're laughing and chatting, what the ****?

Any ideas on how to maybe reconnect?
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Suck him off.


Can't he's kinda homophobic
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But now that we're out of JR. high and moving to high school, he has been a major dick. ANYTIME I even attempt to talk to him, he blows me off. He wont even say anything. He'll acknowledge that I'm there, but that's all. So we're at band camp and im thinking, well, maybe we really didnt know each other that well. I talk to him, he totally ignores me, BUT that same day he's talking to this girl who used to go to our school, who he didnt even know that well, and they're laughing and chatting, what the ****?

Any ideas on how to maybe reconnect?



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#11
Ask him why he's blowing you off.
And if he does it again, pick up the chick he's talkin' to, that will make him acknowledge you.

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#12
well maybe he's just giving you a taste of your own medicine. Maybe he's trying to show how annoying getting neglected is.
#14
"A long time ago, we used to be friends, but I haven't thought of you lately at all"
-the dandy warhols.

Also, friends suck, after I left my high school for a "special school for the gifted" he cut all contact, wouldn't talk to me. He came around eventually, just give it time and let him know you still want to be cool.

By the way I did not go to Professor X's school for the gifted I wish.
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well maybe he's just giving you a taste of your own medicine. Maybe he's trying to show how annoying getting neglected is.


Maybe; I mean we had a falling out in 6th grade and dought the whole year. We fought because I was dating this girl (I use the term dating lightly) And he like got mad and said i neglected him, but after that was over, we were friends again. go figure.
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#16
If he's just a total douche, don't talk to him anymore. People change, especially going from Jr High to high school, they find new groups and blow off their old friends. Everyones had this happen to an old friend or two.
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Maybe; I mean we had a falling out in 6th grade and dought the whole year. We fought because I was dating this girl (I use the term dating lightly) And he like got mad and said i neglected him, but after that was over, we were friends again. go figure.


Well, not sure man. Just give him some time.
#18
dude bro, i know this kid that was my best friend for like 6-8 th grade and most of the 9th grade. he got a girlfriend and some ****in gay ass band tha cant even play music and ever since he acts like he ways ****in beter than everybody including me. so i jus barely talk to him and hes a ****in pussy so hell sit here and start tryin to act cool and trying to make himself look bad ass and ill star tellin him off and hell be like dude o sorry man i didnt mean it ill be like whatever dude **** you. but anyway **** him dude make new friends its what i did
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#19
He probably thinks you're not cool enough or something, or he's trying to be cool for the chick. He'll embarass himself eventually, don't worry.
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He probably thinks you're not cool enough or something, or he's trying to be cool for the chick. He'll embarass himself eventually, don't worry.


I don't think he's going for her, I mean, he's kind of a geek.
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#22
he just dont like you. you must have done something to piss him off.
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#25
this guy just seems to be another asswipe.


and no offense, but grow some balls and stand up for yourself, if he wont talk to you, who cares? isnt there something like, 6 BILLION people on this rock?

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#26
You admit you started neglecting him. He moved on and made other friends, like you did to him. It isn't rocket science, and it happens.

EDIT: To elaborate:

I don't believe he's being a douche. I think it's very unfair on him that you think you can just be best buddies again after you moved off of him. People drift apart, that's natural, it's part of life. As I said, he's done nothing wrong, and technically nor have you, except for seemingly take his friendship for granted, and now you feel butthurt because it isn't the case anymore. You may not have completely thrown him away, but you've obviously not spent as much time with him, and after a length of time, you don't realise how much you change, especially at your age.
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So we're at band camp ...
I see little hope for either of you, friends or not.

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Any ideas on how to maybe reconnect?
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#28
Shave your pubes, draw eyes on your balls, and a big upside down unhappy mouth from each end of your pelvis, and write "WHY YOU BLOWIN' ME OFF, BRO?" upside down in marker pen on your chest. Hang from a ceiling naked upside down whilst naked. Hopefully he'll get the message.
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#29
Weed generally brings people together. Smoke a couple bowls with him.
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dude bro, i know this kid that was my best friend for like 6-8 th grade and most of the 9th grade. he got a girlfriend and some ****in gay ass band tha cant even play music and ever since he acts like he ways ****in beter than everybody including me. so i jus barely talk to him and hes a ****in pussy so hell sit here and start tryin to act cool and trying to make himself look bad ass and ill star tellin him off and hell be like dude o sorry man i didnt mean it ill be like whatever dude **** you. but anyway **** him dude make new friends its what i did


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Some people just show their true colors later in friendship, especially with something like moving to high school. You just have to reckon whether it's worth putting up with those attributes or not. Most likely he was a douche to begin with.
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Well, I need some help in the friend department guys......There's this guy see, and we used to be friends. In fact, throughout elementary school, we were best friends. In Jr.High, a little less so, but just because I made a whole bunch of new friends. In retrospect, maybe I was a bad friend and neglected him.


But now that we're out of JR. high and moving to high school, he has been a major dick. ANYTIME I even attempt to talk to him, he blows me off. He wont even say anything. He'll acknowledge that I'm there, but that's all. So we're at band camp and im thinking, well, maybe we really didnt know each other that well. I talk to him, he totally ignores me, BUT that same day he's talking to this girl who used to go to our school, who he didnt even know that well, and they're laughing and chatting, what the ****?

Any ideas on how to maybe reconnect?


... what was the question?


seriously tho this happens alot while going to high school, most of the kids from grade 8 arent friends anymore... **** happens but maybe later you'll be friends again
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#34
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Dude, high school not college.
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#35
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... what was the question?


seriously tho this happens alot while going to high school, most of the kids from grade 8 arent friends anymore... **** happens but maybe later you'll be friends again


+1 In 8th grade I was friends with everyone. After we hit highschool I didn't see or talk to but a quarter of the people I knew since gradeschool. Now I'm going into college and only really talk to about 2 or 3 of the people I went to gradeschool with anymore.
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#36
honestly, forget him. you're going to be in high school and you'll most likely meet people that are x10 more interesting than him.
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Shave your pubes, draw eyes on your balls, and a big upside down unhappy mouth from each end of your pelvis, and write "WHY YOU BLOWIN' ME OFF, BRO?" upside down in marker pen on your chest. Hang from a ceiling naked upside down whilst naked. Hopefully he'll get the message.









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