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A friend today told me she was raped at an early age. Im not sure if she's telling the truth or its some kind of head ****.

Here are some facts I scrawled down about the conversation we had, which I hope make sense as I did these to try and me my own mind up.

Im grateful for the anonymity of a forum when deciding something like this!


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said she was raped aged 7/8 - cant remember age
the police "didnt do anything" as they need "both people to give evidence" (wtf is that supposed to mean, the rapist gives evidence against himself)
very drunk AND on MSN when telling me this
Says no one in family knows except her mum
Wont say who it was
Later says it was member of her step family although has chosen to keep the name of her step family as her surnam eand says she did this for her "brother, as he was crying his eyes out" about changing her surname to mothers maiden name? why would he cry? especially if he doesnt know about the rape
Said she'd only ever told her cousin Emma about this then at later points added in that she'd told her mum and then that she'd told her step-sister who didnt believe her.
Had fallen out with me previously and I had said very horrible things about her so why would she tell me and not her own brother or any friends? Ive only met her about 4 times.
She has never previously lied about anything to me and seemed to be the nicest quiet person in the world however was so drunk today that she greeted me by calling me a dickhead which is MASSIVELY out of character for her (seriously she's like ned flanders)
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#2
Tons of girls lie about being raped. It's common
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Tons of girls lie about being raped. It's common


If this is true I hate women.

Oops misogyny leads to rape obvs.
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why would they?


Attention, sympathy, etc. Same reason people feel compelled to have competitions of who's had the harder life.
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why would they?


She'd previously told me she was in love with me and then after I said I didnt feel the same we didnt talk for ages. This is the next time we have spoken following that incident.


...but I still feel kinda like I should give her the benefit of the doubt....
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(seriously she's like ned flanders)


so a girl with a mustache. hmmmm..
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#10
I know a few girls who find rape to be quite kinky, she must be implying what you need to do to her
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why would they?


Why do people lie about anything?

A lot of people lie about a lot of things to get attention, of any kind.
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#13
Well no, but what concern of yours of the validity of her rape?


Try talking to her sober.
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#14
It's the most shocking thing they can say to get attention, aside from being murdered, but the problem with that is fairly obvious :P

Ask her how loose her pussy is now.
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Well no, but what concern of yours of the validity of her rape?


Try talking to her sober.


You think if a friend decides to tell you they were raped a child it's no concern of yours
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Cool story, bro.
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Cool story, bro.


Old meme, bro.
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#19
The police didn't do anything when my cousin was raped.

And if any woman lies about being raped, they're crappy people anyways. That's a serious issue, and they don't deserve the attention they get that should actually go to the victims. It's bull ****.

Your friend's story does sound a bit odd though. If she was drunk, ask her about it when she's not. I wouldn't fully doubt her at the moment.
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#20
Erm, many many girls lie about getting raped. And their are inconsistencies in her story. I say she write down everything in her own words, and you read it and see if it makes sense. And make sure she's sober.
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You think if a friend decides to tell you they were raped a child it's no concern of yours

Did I say that?

No I said the validity of the claim was really no concern of yours.


It is better to assume she is saying the truth than accuse her of lying.
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Did I say that?

No I said the validity of the claim was really no concern of yours.


It is better to assume she is saying the truth than accuse her of lying.


I'd prefer it to be a lie though. Whilst I wouldnt speak to her anymore, Id happily trade our friendship for knowing she hadnt been raped as a 7 year old!
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I'd prefer it to be a lie though. Whilst I wouldnt speak to her anymore, Id happily trade our friendship for knowing she hadnt been raped as a 7 year old!

Everyone would prefer it would be a lie, nobody's proud of rape.
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If this is true I hate women.

Oops misogyny leads to rape obvs.



Dude, i've known two rape victims

they would tell you every detail

if they are comfortable with you...in my opinion, they never keep it in

and there is never any anonymity
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#28
You have every reason to doubt her. People lie to get attention all the time, and what could get you more attention than rape?
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#29
It sounds as if she told you this so you would feel sorry for her. How could you say no to her when she's had the worst thing in the world happen to her? Who knows...
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#30
I have a better question.
Am i a bad person for tossing a cum-rag into my cousins sock drawer?
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I have a better question.
Am i a bad person for tossing a cum-rag into my cousins sock drawer?


nope
I left a used condom on my girlfriend's sister's dresser, twas funny stuff
#32
A girl once told me she was raped in my science class last year and I laughed.I still don't know if she was lying but I thought she was joking when she told me.

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#34
My ex girlfriend lied about dude it...and she keep it goin for one year...and after i found out it was a lie..i still dated her...am I a bad person, w/e no after what happen to me i dont think ur a bad person...

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#35
after reading this again
am i a bad person for saying do it, and give her something to complain about

she may be lying now..but after you D
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#36
Wow...

For real? You're joking about raping a girl? Not only joking, putting =D???

You're a real prick, did you know that?
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Wow...

For real? You're joking about raping a girl? Not only joking, putting =D???

You're a real prick, did you know that?

Read the post more carefully. Nowhere did he say that he raped a girl.
I think it's time for a change.



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#38
Please read my post more carefully, then read the post directly above it, then reread my post.
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#39
staright bull bro
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Please read my post more carefully, then read the post directly above it, then reread my post.

Ah, my bad, I missed that post.
I think it's time for a change.



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