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#1
Well I want to know if I have a right to be angry about this.


Here is my dillemma


My fathers' girlfriend moved in about 2 months ago, and since then it's been a lifestyle change - a big one. My father is very passive, lets me get away with anything, which is fine because I am not a troublesome kid. Anyway - his girlfriend moved in. His girlfriend is very dominant - I've heard her say to him before, "Mkay well you are going to do this because I told you to". She acts like my mother, thinks I'm lying about where I'm going when I go out, (she thinks I'm always having sex and flirting with boys - wayyy off of who I really am). I'm very angry about this - she has no authorative right in my honest opinion, but she still is an adult and I have to respect her. She does the disciplining, the yelling, the nagging, and my dad sits on the sidelines and does nothing. She has stated before that my dad gets the right to hit me/slap me if I ever argue with him. He has never really enforced this, but the fact she believes in this bugs me.


So...am I being melodramatic being angry over this or is it logical?
#3
Kill her
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#5
Tell her what you told us, that she has no real authority over you.
#7
Well I want to know if I have a right to be angry about this.


Here is my dillemma


My fathers' girlfriend moved in about 2 months ago, and since then it's been a lifestyle change - a big one. My father is very passive, lets me get away with anything, which is fine because I am not a troublesome kid. Anyway - his girlfriend moved in. His girlfriend is very dominant - I've heard her say to him before, "Mkay well you are going to do this because I told you to". She acts like my mother, thinks I'm lying about where I'm going when I go out, (she thinks I'm always having sex and flirting with boys - wayyy off of who I really am). I'm very angry about this - she has no authorative right in my honest opinion, but she still is an adult and I have to respect her. She does the disciplining, the yelling, the nagging, and my dad sits on the sidelines and does nothing. She has stated before that my dad gets the right to hit me/slap me if I ever argue with him. He has never really enforced this, but the fact she believes in this bugs me.


So...am I being melodramatic being angry over this or is it logical?
#8
I don't know if I should still RESPECT her or how I should really go about things.
#9
She sounds crazy. I would talk to your dad in private and say that she offends you and makes you very uncomfortable....


....and say that she touched you in your private places so you can can her for sexual abuse.....It's almost too easy...
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#10
STEPS:

1. Learn photoshop.

2. Take pictures of her.

3. Photoshop her face into various porn scenes.

4. Plant said photos in your father's work mailbox/email in a envelope labeled: "I'm sorry, but you needed to know." Sign them anonymous.

5. Problem solved.
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#11
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Someone tl;dr this for Jesus.


tl;dr

Dad = laid back
Dad's girlfriend = *****

Dad's girlfriend moves in, bosses her around.

She =

Overdramatic?
Last edited by GNRjungle87 at Aug 30, 2009,
#13
Quote by GNRjungle87
Dad = laid back
Dad's girlfriend = *****

Dad's girlfriend moves in, bosses her around.

She =

Overdramatic?



Nope. This bitch has no authority. I'd tell her to STFU or GTFO my house.
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#14
Punch her in the ****. Or take nudez of yourself and put them in her purse or glove compartment or something.
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#15
I'm still a minor though, I don't know if legally she gets to do that to me.
#18
Quote by GNRjungle87
tl;dr

Dad = laid back
Dad's girlfriend = *****

Dad's girlfriend moves in, bosses her around.

She =

Overdramatic?



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#20
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I'm still a minor though, I don't know if legally she gets to do that to me.


She has absolutely no legal authority over you unless she's your legal guardian.
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#21
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I'm still a minor though, I don't know if legally she gets to do that to me.


Gets to do what to you?


She's not your guardian; she has no authority over you, whatsoever.
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#22
hey, listen thats ****ed up, it sounds like she is trying to change your dad, talk to him about it first, if he wont do anything you say something to her. best of luck. peacce
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#23
You arent over reacting. She isnt your mother, so she has no authority over you. Plus she isnt married to your father so even LEGALLY she has no authority over you. Dont let her tell you what to do, otherwise she'll keep telling you what to do.

When my mom's husband moved in, he was controlling. I spent 4 years never listening to him. I was allowed to do anything cause eventually he realized he had no control over me
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#24
What if my father says she gets authority over me, then what?


I think my dad is a total sissy, tbh.
#26
Tell her that no one has the right to hit you, and that if she ever lays a finger on you, you'll call the cops. Tell her that you're not going to respect her if she doesnt do anything to deserve it. Also, she isnt even married to your dad, she has no power over you whatsoever. Just cause someone is an adult doesnt mean they deserve respect. There's no huge change when you turn 18/21
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#27
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What if my father says she gets authority over me, then what?


I think my dad is a total sissy, tbh.


Unless it's in writing, I don't think it matters.
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#28
She cant get authority over you
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#29
Quote by Z_cup_boy
What if my father says she gets authority over me, then what?


I think my dad is a total sissy, tbh.


Are you at least 16? As long as you are then it still doesn't apply.


And if you're Dad's a sissy then he won't uphold her authority any more than he'll uphold your freedom, so my advice is to continue doing what you were doing and telling the girlfriend to shut the hell up.
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#30
do this :

Hey there kids, I see you're feeling blue
Parents push you around and tell you what to do
Dad makes you clean your room and go to bed
Instead of watch TV you have to do homework instead
And I know it makes you angry and you're full of rage
Well let me tell you a secret I wish I knew at your age
Next time you're angry and you want to fight back
Just tell your teacher daddy likes to play with your sack

And you can get a new daddy
Get a new daddy
Police will take the old one away in a caddy

You can get a new daddy
Get a new daddy
Stay up real late
Kick back, and light up a fatty

Now for a little while your new daddy's cool
Buys you things and tries real hard to bond with you
Let's you eat candy and play video games
But your friend's at school all think that he's kind of lame
Now you can't have your buddies making fun of your dad
And all in all this one is really not so bad
But you think you might like to try once more
Take naked Polaroids of yourself and leave them in his sock drawer

You can get a new daddy
Get a new daddy
Police will take the old one away in a caddy

Now your mom's wondering what's wrong with her
And why she keeps attracting men that are dirty perv's
She has a breakdown and cries and cries
And after a while she's institutionalized

Then you can get a new mommy
Get a new mommy
New brother, and sister, a new house, a new mommy
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Après avoir crevé par accès de furie
Ta replète panse d'helminthes blancs nourrie,
Trop prompte à déféquer le fruit d'un vit sanieux.
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#31
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She cant get authority over you


Yes, she can. Her dad just has to put it in writing and sign it. Or they can get married.
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#32
So...tell her to fuck off?

Just because she is an adult doesn't make her any less responsible for being a bitch.
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#33
Yeah, they have to be married. She cant just move in and take authority.
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#34
She isn't your mom. Talk to her. Tell her you make responsible decisions and do not need someone like her ****ing up your ****.

If she doesn't listen, she's still not your mom. **** listening to her, she can't do ****.
#35
Do this.

If she lays a hand on you, don't forget to beat her to high heaven.
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#36
Give your Dad a subscription to an online porn site, tell him to dump the bitch, and kick her out of the house. Your Dad will be ok with the porn until a new (and hopefully better woman) comes along.


but on a serious note (although the porn idea isnt too bad or far-fetched), ignore her. She has no legal right so do what you want. However, that doesn't mean you should disobey your father. The only time that is allowed if you know that **** is influencing his decision. If all else fails, go crazy on that bitch. Just snap one day. Yell at her, point out flaws, insult everything about her... rape her ears with hate, more or less. When she knows you aren't backing down, she'll cower away from a fight.
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#38
I'm still going with my initial response of punching her in the ****.
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#39
everything that you just told us, tell her. once you tell her up front, she might actually start showing you respect. You might even strike up somewhat of a friendship. It sounds like shes inexperienced in being a parent. Shes just trying too hard. That has happened a lot with adults that dont kno how to be a good parent, so they automatically turn into strict mode. They just dont understand that trust has to be there.
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