#1
I've been with my boyfriend for years and we're very close. I'm very understanding of all of his ambitions and ideas, though there's one issue we always disagree on! I personally love tattoos, and am planning on losing my ink virginity in a couple of months, but he freaking hates tattoos on women.
he describes them as masculine, even though the design I want is a very feminine and discrete one that I've designed myself. not atall trashy or manly.
what do you guys think, should I go ahead and just get it anyway? I just dont want him to think any part of me is gross
what do you guys think of tattoos on women?
#2
If he can't deal with it that's his problem.
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Did you join just to make this thread?


In anycase, they dont bother me. And if you two have been together that long he should be understanding of you wanting a tattoo
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erm.. relationship thread?

i dunno mate. its your body you do what you want with it but if he means a lot to you and dont like it your in a pickle.
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#5
I think tattoos on women are attractive, as long as they're kept tasteful and original. Lame little hearts and stars in random places that don't represent anything are pretty lame.

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#6
GET IT! chicks with tattoos r hot!

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#7
as long as the girl isnt covered in them then I dont mind

just a few is okay, when you see girls with loads it just looks slutty
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I did join just for this, as he's a metal guy and probably has a lot in common with you guys. I was looking for a likeminded opinion
#11
its your body, if he loves you then he should accept it. you havent changed as a person and if its something that means alot to you than he should support you
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the design I want is a very feminine and discrete one that I've designed myself. not atall trashy or manly.
I don't mind those ones.

If I were in his boots, I wouldn't mind you getting one.
Too many tattoos can be off-putting.
#15
tattooed woman=dirty slags or shagbuddys

non tattooed woman=girlfriends


I like both tbh well as long as its not too chavvy tattoo wise...but i wouldnt trust most women with tattoos ive had a fair bit of experience with them.
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#16
Mine's got a really cool one on her wrist. I don't mind it, it's her body.
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What exactly would said tat look like/ where would it reside?


I'm not sure I should say as he sometimes uses this forum hence the anonchick thing. it would be on my lower leg/ankle though. it's feminine without being too girly and pathetic. no stars or dolphins or any of that rubbish
#19
I agree with the boyfriend guy.

I don't like tattoos in general. You get to 45 and beyond and it just looks ridiculous. Picture a granny with a flower tattoo, or any tattoo, it just doesn't work.

Airbrush your design if possible and see how you like it. Bear in mind you have to live with it for ever, unless you want it removed (which is painful, I hear). If it were me I'd airbrush the same design on and off as and when I wanted it.
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#20
It's your body, it shouldn't matter if it's feminine or not (to you, that is). And it's a long relationship, so he should be more understanding. Have a chat about it. I personally don't care about tattoos as long as they're not too prominent.
#21
i actually love tattoos on girls as long as it's not on her face or neck or something. If you really want one then get it, if he doesn't like it screw him it's your choice

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#22
u got a pic of the design?

personally i don't like them at all really but if its on a woman it can't be on the arms. either back or legs and if its really manly then thats a no-go.
#23
Tattoos are gross imho.

But you have the right to do whatever you want with your body, and if your bf loves you, then he will love regardless of your decision.
#25
I disagree with the whole philosophy of "it'll look awful when you're old" though. when you're old, it's difficult to look sexy anyway :P I'll be wrinkly with or without a tattoo, but at least with I'll have a reminder of my youth
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#29
Go for it. Its your choice. If he really loves you he'll get over it.
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So what kind of tattoo you gettin? A star? A butterfly?

ew, no. you should probably read the thread
#35
if you really want it yes! its your body.. (and some chick with tatt's are hot

but if you have a tattoo on your forehead ... i would pass
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ew, no. you should probably read the thread


Post pics of the damn design so we can pass judgement.
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